Have you ever wanted to do something that would require you to put yourself out there—and immediately started worrying about what everyone else would think?
Maybe you want to start a business, go after a new opportunity, share something you've created, speak more openly about what you believe, or simply become a version of yourself that the people around you haven't met yet.
In this episode of The Phoenix Perspective Podcast, I'm joined by identity and nervous system coach Melissa Chavis for a conversation about what happens when the life you're being called toward requires you to be seen.
Melissa shares her own journey from high-achieving corporate leader to entrepreneur, including the fear she experienced when she first began showing up publicly and sharing ideas that felt deeply personal to her.
We talk about why doing something unfamiliar can feel so uncomfortable, how fear of judgment keeps us playing small, and why being scared doesn't necessarily mean you're moving in the wrong direction.
We also explore Human Design as a tool Melissa uses for self-understanding, identity, and decision-making—and how learning to recognize your own patterns can help you build greater self-trust as you step into something new.
In this episode, we talk about:
- Why we can know we want something different without knowing exactly what's next
- Fear of judgment, failure, and being seen
- What can happen in your body when you step outside your comfort zone
- Building capacity to do things that scare you
- Human Design as a tool for self-understanding and decision-making
- The connection between identity and how we show up in the world
- Learning to trust your inner guidance
- Why confidence often comes from doing the scary thing repeatedly
- Letting yourself be messy while you're learning
If there's something you've been wanting to do but you keep hesitating because you're afraid of what people might think, this conversation is for you.
About Melissa ChavisMelissa Chavis is an identity and nervous system coach who helps female entrepreneurs build the self-trust and internal safety to create success on their own terms. Blending Human Design, nervous system practices, and her perspective on quantum physics, she helps women uncover the beliefs and patterns shaping how they show up and intentionally step into a more aligned version of themselves.
Connect with Melissa:
Instagram: @melissaannchavis
Website: go.melissaannchavis.com/home
Veya App: Veya App | Human Design + Viral Content
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