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In this conversation, Stephanie Olson and Rebecca Saunders delve into the controversial topic of ethical pedophilia, exploring the distinction between feelings and actions, the role of shame, and the societal implications of normalizing harmful desires. They discuss the importance of support systems for individuals struggling with these feelings while emphasizing the need for safeguards to protect children. The conversation highlights the complexities of identity and the dangers of acceptance in a context that could lead to harm.

takeaways

Ethical pedophilia is a controversial term that distinguishes between attraction and action.
There is a significant difference between having harmful desires and acting on them.
Shame can play a role in recognizing and addressing harmful desires.
Normalizing harmful desires can lead to dangerous societal implications.
Support systems should focus on preventing harm while acknowledging intrinsic value.
Desires should not define a person's identity; actions do.
Removing obstacles is crucial for individuals seeking help.
The push for acceptance can lead to normalization of harmful behaviors.
Children cannot consent, and their protection is paramount.
Conversations about these topics are necessary but must be approached with caution.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Ethical Pedophilia
04:26 The Distinction Between Feelings and Actions
07:09 The Role of Shame in Human Behavior
12:32 The Push for Acceptance of Minor Attracted Persons
15:45 The Growth of Identity and Its Implications
16:50 Understanding the Complexity of Attraction
18:02 The Role of Art and Expression in Attraction
20:02 The Debate on Control and Responsibility
21:03 Navigating Language and Terminology
22:28 The Importance of Support and Prevention
24:29 Safeguards and Professional Boundaries
25:31 The Challenge of Identity Labels
27:19 Minor Attracted Persons and Support Groups
30:06 The Spectrum of Beliefs within the MAP Community
34:17 Concluding Thoughts on Protection and Prevention
35:12 R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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In this engaging conversation, Stephanie Olson, Dr. Jen Fry, and Rebecca Saunders explore the critical themes of resilience and relationships, focusing on the importance of conflict, healthy communication, and setting boundaries. They discuss how to navigate difficult conversations, the role of apologies, and the necessity of teaching children about consent and self-advocacy. The discussion emphasizes that healthy conflict is essential for strong relationships and that individuals must be willing to engage in hard conversations to foster growth and understanding.

Takeaways

Conflict is not inherently negative; it's how we handle it that matters.
Healthy conflict can strengthen relationships and build trust.
Setting boundaries is crucial for personal well-being and healthy interactions.
Teaching kids about consent and self-advocacy is essential.
Apologizing can be a powerful tool for healing relationships.
There is no time limit on a genuine apology.
Navigating conflict requires emotional regulation and understanding.
People often avoid conflict due to fear of negative outcomes.
The absence of conflict does not equate to harmony in relationships.
Relationships are worth the effort of engaging in difficult conversations.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Resilience and Relationships
00:54 The Journey of Dr. Jen Fry
02:25 Understanding Conflict as a Tool for Growth
04:59 Navigating Difficult Conversations
08:46 Setting Boundaries in Relationships
11:57 Healthy Conflict: A Path to Better Communication
15:15 The Power of Apology in Parenting
16:47 Teaching Consent and Healthy Conflict
17:40 Navigating Online Conflict and Apologies
20:13 Self-Advocacy and Emotional Regulation in Kids
23:48 The Timelessness of Apologies
26:05 The Importance of Healthy Conflict in Relationships
29:43 R&R Outro.mp4

Dr. Jen Fry is a Sports Geographer, speaker, and founder of JenFryTalks, where she helps teams navigate conflict and culture. A former collegiate volleyball coach, Jen brings lived experience into leadership and communication work. She holds a PhD from Michigan State University and is the founder of Coordle, a tech platform simplifying youth sports travel.

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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In this conversation, Stephanie Olson and Rebecca Saunders explore the themes of thoughtfulness in communication, the impact of our words, and the complexities of sharing personal stories. They discuss the importance of being mindful of how our words can affect others, especially in sensitive situations. The conversation also delves into the motivations behind sharing stories and the challenges of navigating cancel culture. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for empathy, reflection, and responsible communication in our interactions with others.

Takeaways

Thoughtfulness in communication can prevent misunderstandings.
Our words can have a significant impact on others' feelings.
It's important to consider the context before sharing personal stories.
Navigating what is appropriate to share requires sensitivity.
Motivation behind sharing stories can influence the outcome of conversations.
Cancel culture lacks grace and understanding for personal growth.
Public apologies should match the nature of the offense.
Civility in discussions is increasingly difficult to maintain.
Everyone has intrinsic value, regardless of their actions.
We must be mindful of the information we share about others.

Sound Bites

"What is your story to share?"
"We don't ever allow that for other people."
"We cannot dehumanize anyone."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Context
01:45 The Importance of Thoughtfulness
05:14 Navigating Conversations in a Divisive Society
09:36 Understanding What is Yours to Share
19:05 Addressing Abuses in Public Organizations
19:45 Navigating Anger and Communication
21:15 The Ethics of Speaking Out
22:22 The Complexity of Public Figures and Hypocrisy
27:18 The Importance of Public Apologies
29:18 Recognizing Intrinsic Value in All Individuals
33:05 R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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In this conversation, Stephanie Olson speaks with Kimberly Haley Coleman, the founder and executive director of Globe Aware, about the organization's mission to provide meaningful volunteer experiences through service vacations in various countries. They discuss the evolution of volunteerism, the importance of understanding local needs, and the impact of volunteers on communities. Kimberly shares insights on navigating safety, cultural immersion, and the empowerment of women in global communities. The conversation emphasizes the value of global service while addressing criticism and the broader impact of volunteerism on local communities.

Takeaways

Kimberly Haley Coleman founded Globe Aware to provide meaningful volunteer experiences.
Volunteers pay to participate, which supports local staff and projects.
The vocabulary around volunteerism has evolved due to past unethical practices.
It's essential to engage with local communities to understand their needs.
Volunteers often come with preconceived notions but learn through experience.
Safety assessments are crucial for project management and volunteer safety.
Cultural immersion is a key aspect of the volunteer experience.
Women play a vital role in local communities and leadership.
Volunteering abroad can inspire individuals to make a difference at home.
Criticism of global service often overlooks the importance of cultural understanding.

Bio of Kimberly Haley-Coleman

Kimberly Haley-Coleman is the founder and Executive Director of Globe Aware, a US & Canada-based nonprofit that leads and mobilizes volunteers for short-term service projects in over 25 countries (since the year 2000). With a background in international business development and finance, she previously held leadership roles at global firms including CNBC.com, Space Services International, and Investtools. Kimberly holds an MBA in International Business, an MA in Art History, and a BA from Emory University. A multiple patent holder, SMU Guest Lecturer, and recipient of the Texas Business Hall of Fame Award and long-time Hall of Fame member, Chairman of the Executive Board for the International Volunteer Programs Association (IVPA) and actively engaged with organizations like the Building Bridges Coalition and United Nations ESOC Consultative Status Committee and variety of other nonprofit boards focused on international service, community development, and environmental improvement.

Selected press about Globe Aware:

· ABC: More Americans Take Volunteer Vacations

· BBC: BBC Travel Show - Passengers with a Purpose

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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In this podcast episode, Stephanie Olson introduces the conversation with Dylan Yeomans from United Insurance Agency, sharing insights and experiences in the insurance industry.

Takeaways

Stephanie Olson hosts a podcast with Dylan Yeomans.
The conversation revolves around the insurance industry.
Dylan Yeomans shares his experiences at United Insurance Agency.
The podcast aims to engage listeners with informative content.
Listeners can expect valuable insights from the discussion.
The introduction sets a positive tone for the episode.
Dylan's expertise in insurance is highlighted.
The podcast format allows for an engaging dialogue.
Stephanie expresses her enjoyment of the recording process.
The episode serves as an introduction to the insurance field.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
00:49 Engaging with Dylan Yeomans
01:05 Overview of United Insurance Agency

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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In this conversation, Stephanie Olson and Rebecca Saunders explore the multifaceted nature of gratitude, discussing its importance in daily life, especially during challenging times. They emphasize that gratitude is not just about recognizing the big blessings but also appreciating the small, everyday things. The discussion delves into the psychological benefits of gratitude, including its impact on mental health and emotional well-being, supported by scientific research. The hosts encourage listeners to cultivate gratitude through practices like journaling and to reflect on what they are thankful for, fostering a positive mindset and resilience.

Takeaways

Gratitude is about recognizing the good amidst challenges.
Even small things, like having a refrigerator, are worth appreciating.
A negative mindset can cloud our perception of life.
Focusing on blessings can shift our perspective.
Gratitude can be cultivated through intentional practices.
Gratitude journaling has proven psychological benefits.
Finding gratitude can help during times of grief and loss.
Support systems can help us recognize what to be grateful for.
Gratitude doesn't have to be about grand gestures.
Everyday moments can be sources of gratitude.

Sound Bites

"What do you have to be grateful for?"
"It doesn't have to be fancy."
"I'm grateful for you."

Chapters

00:00 The Essence of Gratitude
04:02 Finding Gratitude in Adversity
07:34 Everyday Gratitude: The Little Things
09:49 The Science of Gratitude
12:58 Gratitude in Difficult Times
15:36 Closing Thoughts on Gratitude
15:50 R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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In this conversation, Dr. Greg Linkowski shares his profound insights on legacy, resilience, and the importance of family and community support. He reflects on his personal journey through trauma, the challenges of parenting a child with special needs, and the role of faith in navigating life's difficulties. The discussion emphasizes the significance of advocating for oneself and loved ones, the impact of childhood experiences on adult life, and the power of forgiveness and acceptance in fostering growth and healing. Dr. Linkowski's story serves as a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the importance of leaving a positive legacy for future generations.

Takeaways

Legacy is about what we leave behind for future generations.
The importance of advocating for loved ones in the medical system.
Faith and community support are crucial during difficult times.
Childhood experiences shape our adult lives and relationships.
Acceptance of family members' identities fosters growth and understanding.
Forgiveness is essential for personal healing and growth.
It's important to seek help and not navigate life alone.
The journey of parenthood can be filled with challenges and joys.
Life's struggles can be woven into a narrative of resilience.
Attitude and perspective can transform our experiences.

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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In this episode of Resilience and Relationships, hosts Stephanie Olson and Rebecca Saunders delve into the complexities of autonomy, boundaries, and the importance of allowing children to express their comfort levels in physical interactions. They discuss the backlash received from a controversial podcast episode, emphasizing the need for respectful dialogue and understanding in discussions about consent and familial affection. The conversation highlights personal experiences, societal expectations, and the significance of teaching children about their rights to say no, ultimately aiming to foster a safer environment for all.

Takeaways

The backlash from the podcast highlighted societal discomfort with discussions on autonomy.
Intrinsic value and human nature are central to understanding personal boundaries.
Children should be taught they have the right to say no to unwanted affection.
Healthy family dynamics include respecting children's comfort levels with physical touch.
Online discourse can often devolve into hostility rather than constructive dialogue.
Personal experiences shape our understanding of consent and boundaries.
Teaching children about consent can prevent future trauma and abuse.
Cultural differences influence perceptions of familial affection and respect.
Respectful disagreement is essential for healthy discussions.
The importance of emotional intelligence in navigating relationships.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Controversy
01:24 The Impact of Social Media Feedback
02:22 Understanding Boundaries and Consent
05:45 The Importance of Dialogue
12:20 Personal Stories and Their Impact
18:43 Cultural Perspectives on Affection
25:03 Conclusion and Call for Kindness
27:54 R&R Outro.mp4

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Everyone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!

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