Episodi

  • The Power of Your Story: Why Sharing Your Life Matters EP 9

    The Power of Your Story: Why Sharing Your Life Matters EP 9
    Nov 30 2023
    Have you ever worried about sharing the minutiae of your daily life? You're not alone. In this engaging episode, Nika dives into the question that often plagues those seeking to build a meaningful online presence: "Why would anyone care about my life?" While mundane details like lunch choices might not be captivating, there's something much deeper at play. Tune in as we explore the profound impact of sharing your story and the unique insights, challenges, and experiences that make you, well, you. Nika shares practical strategies for effectively sharing your life story, including what to emphasize and how to connect on a deeper level with your audience. If you're ready to unlock the true power of your story and share yourself unapologetically with the world, then this episode is a must-listen. Join us as we explore the transformative potential of your authentic narrative and why the world truly needs more of YOU. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    9 min
  • Leading with Vulnerability: Sharing Wounds in Real-Time EP 8

    Leading with Vulnerability: Sharing Wounds in Real-Time EP 8
    Nov 23 2023
    In a world where leadership is often associated with unwavering strength and unblemished success, it's time to challenge the status quo. Join us in this episode of "Actually I Can" as we delve into the powerful concept of leading with vulnerability. Nika explores the idea that leaders don't have to wait until their hardships are neatly resolved before sharing their stories. In this thought-provoking episode, we unravel the common belief that leaders should only reveal their challenges after they've triumphed over them. Discover why the idea of sharing wounds in real-time is gaining traction and how it can create profound connections with those who follow your journey. Nika shares personal experiences and insights, highlighting the authenticity and transformative potential of embracing vulnerability. Learn how transparency during challenging times can break down barriers, inspire empathy, and foster a deeper sense of community. If you've ever wondered about the impact of sharing your journey as it unfolds, rather than waiting for the scars to heal, this episode is a must-listen. Explore the incredible power of leading with your true, imperfect self and discover how sharing your wounds in real-time can elevate your leadership status and inspire countless others along the way. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    9 min
  • Creative Escapes EP 7

    Creative Escapes EP 7
    Nov 16 2023
    Creative outlets are more than just distractions. They're tools for healing, helping us process complex emotions, envision alternate realities, and establish connections with deeper parts of ourselves that are more able to cope with our situation. These practices aren't about escaping reality but about reshaping our perceptions and gathering strength from within (and having fun). In this episode, you'll discover the myriad ways creative expression can act as a lighthouse during stormy nights. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    13 min
  • Evolving in Business: The Art of Reinvention EP 6

    Evolving in Business: The Art of Reinvention EP 6
    Oct 26 2023
    In today's episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of reinventing your business model. Why should entrepreneurs consider breaking from traditional strategies, and how can they navigate this bold transition? We'll explore the compelling reasons to reinvent, the risks and rewards, and practical steps to make the shift. Embracing disruption can lead to authentic growth. Join us as we challenge the notion of 'fixed rules' in business and celebrate the art of change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    13 min
  • Stand Out with Chocolate Flowers EP 5

    Stand Out with Chocolate Flowers EP 5
    Oct 19 2023
    Have you noticed how low we've gone with customer service? Workers are doing the bare minimum, and expecting rewards. What a great opportunity for us to stand out. In this episode of Actually I Can, I discuss how you can add "chocolate flower" experiences for your clients. These are things that cost practically no money, time, or effort, but create big impact. What small things can you do to make your customers feel great - and even talk about you to their friends? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    9 min
  • Rewrite Your Story EP 4

    Rewrite Your Story EP 4
    Oct 12 2023
    Can you rewrite your life’s story and shape your own destiny? Actually, you can! That’s what I’m sharing on today’s episode. I am so grateful for all of you who reached out about my health after hearing the first episode of this show. I am well and currently considered cancer-free. For that I am grateful. My journey continues both with medication, and with reconstruction. It’s my new normal and sometimes things don’t go as planned, but overall, I am in a very good place. Today I want to talk about the power of our words. We can choose to describe our situation any way we want. It’s literally your choice. I’m not advocating lying to yourself or anyone else. I am encouraging you to write your story. You are not just the actor; you are also the creator of your experience. Every day we face challenges both tiny and significant. One of the biggest ways I got through my diagnosis and surgeries and associated treatments was by choosing the words around the story I told myself and others. How many times have you heard (or said) “I’m so stupid” or “I’ll never be able to . . . “ The way we talk to ourselves and to others matters. For better or worse, we internalize those messages over and over again. Hear how this worked for my husband and I when we bought our dream home and had to sell our townhome. Shifting how I talked about this changed everything for us. The same thing happened when I was faced with an unexpected bill for my chemotherapy. My energy and language around this made things better at a very difficult time. How can you choose different words to describe your situation to yourself? The words you use when you talk to yourself have so much more power than we realize. I encourage you to use words that empower you. Rewrite your story with words that bring you hope, courage and power. What words will you choose?  Connect with Nika Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    18 min
  • Why My Most Imperfect Posts Work Best (And yours will too!)

    Why My Most Imperfect Posts Work Best (And yours will too!)
    Oct 5 2023
    How do you show up and shine? Are you excited to let the world see your brilliant and unique self? Some of you might be an exited yes, but I know many of you feel anxiety instead. That’s why I’m talking about this important topic. How we show up is everything! We have been conditioned to believe that to be taken seriously we have to be perfect. Or do we? The magic happens when we let go of the pressure to be flawless and embrace our authenticity. I’m going to guide you through the fun of showing up as your true self. Here’s what that can do for you: ·        Make more authentic connections. ·        Get the recognition you deserve. ·        Inspire the right people who will be eager to work with you. ·        Be seen as an inspired leader. I was always taught that I needed to be perfect. Owning a small business just added to that pressure. To be trusted means you have to know everything and never show any doubt, right? My experience has shown me that’s just not true. My most engaging posts and videos with the largest views are when I share my less-than-perfect self. Yep. Now, for many of you that’s going to be a scary thought. After all, showing up as our very real, imperfect selves takes vulnerability. Most of us (maybe all of us?) were taught to never let someone see us as the messy, imperfect people we are.   Vulnerability is a tremendous strength. When we show up as our real selves others see us as approachable, interesting and relatable. You create a space where they feel okay to show up as their imperfect self. People are more likely to relate to you, not less! Accept your imperfect self, flaws and all. The more you share the things that you thought you should hide; the more people will be drawn to you. Being part of a community is a great step to help you manage fear. When you have a tribe on your side, it’s so much easier. Lastly, be easy on yourself. Treat yourself with kindness and understanding on this journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    10 min
  • Rewriting the Rules of Adversity EP 1

    Rewriting the Rules of Adversity EP 1
    Oct 5 2023
    Where did the “actually, I can” approach to life begin for Nika? Her husband joins her and explains that her journey with cancer transformed her, and he shares (as only a husband can) that the elements were already inside her and it was extraordinary to see and experience firsthand. As Nika explains, all the rules are made up so why not write your own? You can do what Nika has done, and that’s what they cover on this episode. They go back to 2019 and Nika shares how great life was for her at the time. She felt great and her family was well, and her business was successful. Always an optimist, Nika believed being positive in all situations was key to her good life. She embraced challenges the same way. What can I take from this and how can I turn this into something that will make life better was her approach when things didn’t go as planned. “What can I focus on that’s good about this (supposedly) negative situation?” – Nika Stewart Then, she was diagnosed with cancer. Her first reaction was curiosity and adventure which she acknowledges sounds a bit crazy. There was also a sense of urgency and Nika knew that she had to get into action. She was determined and became her own advocate for getting the tests and treatment she knew she needed. This is where Nika chose to rewrite the rules which led to her positive outcome. Hear what’s considered “normal” in this situation, and what Nika did instead. She reminds us that this is a choice. You don’t have to do what’s expected. Instead, you can choose to flow with the situation. Nika decided to embrace instead of accepting the effects of chemotherapy. She focused on the joy. Yes, the joy of chemo! She attributes this approach to the positive attitude she was able to maintain. The assumption that anything is negative is made up. Nika’s approach; focusing on the good is what works for her. She also took a long-term view and now considers her diagnosis and treatment a positive part of her journey. Great things continue to come out of this experience. She’s garnered millions of views on her YouTube channel, hundreds of thousands of followers, and she’s gotten to do lots of unexpected things like throwing out the first pitch at a charity softball game. What matters most to Nika? The comments from others who shared that they felt better after seeing her video or how much hearing her story helped them deal with their own challenges. This experience showed Nika that you really can create positivity in your life. She now lives it, and continues to embrace the “actually, I can” attitude. You can too! You don’t have to follow anyone else’s path. All the rules are made up so why not create your own?  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    36 min