Your reputation walks into the room before you do. So who's going to vouch for you when it gets there?
Recorded live at the Women in Construction event in Sacramento, Heather and Jerry sit down with Debbie Holden, Vice President of Expansion & Development at the Rancho Cordova Community Food Hub, former Sacramento Regional Builders Exchange board chair, and the self-described (and LinkedIn-official) Super Connector of the Sacramento construction community.
Debbie shares how she works a room full of strangers, why she always looks for the person who seems lost, and why she'd rather "ditch the pitch" and get people talking about themselves. The conversation gets into why a text isn't a relationship, why handwritten notes and phone calls still win, and how an 18-year connection with Heather and Steve turned into Tankersley Build Co building the Community Food Hub.
They also talk about being the only woman in the room, using being underestimated to your advantage, finding an advocate who believes in you, and why the best relationships Jerry has in construction are with women project managers and owners.
The industry is smaller than you think. Never waste a lead, pay it forward, and remember that one conversation can change everything.
In this episode:
• What it actually means to be a super connector
• How to walk into a room where you don't know anyone
• Why you should look for the lost person, not the big group
• Ditch the pitch: getting people to talk about themselves
• Why texting is transactional and real relationships need more
• Referrals, reputation, and lending your name to someone else
• Don't burn a bridge: why construction is a small, tight-knit industry
• Being underestimated as a woman in construction and using it as the underdog
• Finding an advocate and asking the questions others won't
• What men in leadership can do to create more opportunities for women
• Preparing before a conference and following up after
• Getting involved with SRBX and paying it forward
Where to find Debbie Holden & the Community Food Hub:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debbieholden
Rancho Cordova Food Locker | Community Food Hub: https://www.ranchocordovafoodlocker.org
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The Build Line is a construction business podcast hosted by Heather Tankersley and Jerry Brewer, featuring real conversations about building better companies, better teams, and better projects.