In today’s episode, we’re unpacking one of the most misunderstood concepts in the online space: embodiment and authority and why so many women believe they’re not the embodiment of their work simply because they’re not “winning” in the way they think they should be.

This conversation is for the woman who’s built something real but feels disconnected, boxed in, or fragmented in her content, messaging, or leadership.

Because embodiment isn’t just high months, screenshots, or being “on a new one.”
Embodiment is transformation, and transformation has ebbs and flows.

Inside this episode, we unpack:

• Why embodiment is often mistaken for constant winning

• The subconscious rules you may be playing by that aren’t actually yours

• How defining authority through one narrow lens creates burnout and fragmentation

• Why building offers around identity (not just results) creates longevity and culture

• How Wildfire evolved from a 3-month program into a long-term home space and now a multi day event

• Why seasons of discomfort, quiet, and uncertainty are required for real leadership

• The danger of hiding your evolution behind a “high-vibe” facade

• Why your audience connects more deeply to the journey than the highlight reel

• How embodiment actually lives in range, honesty, and lived transformation

If you’ve been questioning whether you’re still an authority because things feel quieter
If you’ve been holding shame for being human while leading others
If your content feels disconnected from who you actually are right now

This episode will radically reframe what embodiment really means and why your evolution is not a liability, but your greatest source of power.

🎧 Listen in if you’re ready to stop performing authority and start embodying it.

Today, I’m telling you a story about being called a two-faced bitch and how that moment became one of the most important messages that altered the trajectory of my life.

We talk a lot about signs from the universe.
The angel numbers.
The song lyrics.
The moments that feel good, validating, and light.

But what if some of the most powerful messages you’ll ever receive, don’t come in the light at all?

In this episode, I share the story of a brief friendship during the pandemic that ended abruptly right after one pivotal message was delivered. A message that led me to a book that completely rewired my understanding of identity, creation, manifestation, and the way we experience reality.

Inside this episode, we unpack:

• Why most people are only listening for messages when things feel good

• How the universe communicates just as loudly through discomfort, conflict, and abrupt exits

• Why messengers don’t always arrive gently (and often don’t stay)

• The difference between focusing on the hurt vs. receiving the message

• How challenges, endings, and exits often mark the exact moment the lesson is complete

• What it means to live a life that’s open to both the light and the dark

If you’ve had a situation, person, client, or relationship enter, then suddenly exit and you’ve been stuck on how it happened instead of why, this episode will reframe everything.

You don’t have to like the messenger to receive the message.
And if you’re only listening when things feel good, you’re only hearing half the conversation.

🎧 Listen in if you’re ready to open yourself up to all of the magic not just the parts that come wrapped in light.

Today we’re talking about the thing every woman hits when she starts scaling: self fcking expression.
Self-trust. Self-honoring. And the moment you realize you can’t keep self-abandoning in business, even in the sneaky ways.

Because here’s what I’m seeing: 2025 shifted the online space.
The market matured. Options exploded. AI flooded the internet. And now in 2026? It’s painfully obvious who has a real voice and who outsourced theirs.

This episode is a call to rise, not through more strategy, but through truth.

Inside this episode, we unpack:

• Why “perfect positioning” without a expression is making women feel dead inside

• How AI + over strategy is killing critical thinking (and creativity)

• The difference between being strategic vs. being under-expressed

• Why women aren’t burned out from doing too much… they’re burned out from performing

• TikTok as a self expression platform (and why that’s why it works)

• The real fear behind playing it safe: “What if I show who I really am and it doesn’t work?”

• Why you’re already a category of one because you exist

• The choice that changes everything: stop teetering between strategy + self-expression and go all in

If you’ve been looping between “fuck it, I want to say what I want” and “let me go back to my strategy doc,” this is your reminder:

Both might make you money.
But only one will set you free.

🎧 Listen if you’re ready to stop performing, stop self-abandoning, and start getting paid to be who you actually are.

In today’s episode, I’m giving it to you straight (when do I not) your biggest contraction is actually the gateway to your biggest expansion and the longer you avoid it, the longer you stay stuck inside it.

We’re talking about why challenge isn’t in the way, it is the way, and how most women handle storms the exact wrong way: they pull over, put the four ways on, and sit in the discomfort instead of driving through it and getting to the other side.

Inside this episode, we unpack:

• Why avoiding the hard thing keeps you in it longer

• The “storm” story (and why stopping is actually more dangerous)

• The two types of contraction: what you chose vs. what life brings

• Sales avoidance, playing small, and what's secretly keeping you up at night

• The moment I looked in the mirror and told myself: “Get in the game and win, or go the fck home.”

• How cycle breakers shift out of resentment and into a new identity loop

If you’re in a season where something feels heavy, uncomfortable, or like it’s demanding more of you this episode is your reminder that what you’re resisting is likely the exact thing that’s here to expand you.

🎧 Listen if you’re ready to stop sitting in the storm and start driving through it.

If you’re doing “identity work” but you only ever look at who you are when life is going well, you’re missing the part that actually changes everything.

In this episode, I’m breaking down a truth that shocked me the first time I saw it clearly:

Your default reaction in the inconvenience is actually your truest identity.
Your automatic thought, emotion, and belief when something goes sideways is where the deepest programming lives.

And once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why identity isn’t just “business identity” or “content identity” it’s the whole damn woman

• How the patterns in your relationships, family, and life mirror the patterns in your business

• Why the minor inconveniences are the fastest way to spot your blind spots

• The difference between “accepting what’s presented” vs holding a higher standard

• Why your default emotion is your deepest programming

• Your body is chemically addicted to an emotion (anger, anxiety, etc.)

• How people unconsciously recreate situations just to feel what’s familiar

• Why “the dark side” (shadows, triggers, contraction) is where the gold actually is

🎧 Listen if you want to actually shift your identity at the root not just perform it when things are easy.

PS: This episode pairs perfectly with the next one because we’re going straight into how your contraction is actually your biggest expansion.

If you’re building something big, a culture, a world class offer, an event, a body of work and you know you’re not here to play the same game as everyone else, this episode is for you.

In this episode, I break down the real meaning behind the Ferrari mentality and why speed in business isn’t about doing more, louder, or better

It’s about craftsmanship, mastery, and choosing a completely different lane.

I share the personal story behind the Ferrari analogy (including driving a Ferrari through Florence), how experience patterns speed and visibility into the body, and why most women are still stuck playing the “school bus” game without realizing it.

We talk about:

• Why being better is a trap and being different is the advantage and how it actually makes you faster

• The difference between building a body of work vs. pumping out offers

• What Ferrari teaches us about mastery, status, and long-term leadership

• The Formula 1 lesson most entrepreneurs miss when they try to scale

• How to identify where you’re still playing in the same arena as everyone else

• Why the women who go fastest stop competing altogether

If you’re a disruptor, shapeshifter, or category of one leader who knows she’s here to build something that lasts, this episode will hit.

🎧 Listen if you’re ready to stop playing the school bus game and build the Ferrari of your industry.

If you want to host retreats, lead rooms, speak on stages, or spend more time in person, this episode is required.

I’m sharing how I prep before, during, and after in person and how I personally handle extended output seasons from back to back events, international travel, keynote stages, and retreats and leading my own multi day event, without letting my energy leak everywhere.

Inside this episode, we cover:

• Why in person leadership exposes everything you can hide online

• The “flip the switch” mentality I use before events, calls, and leading in the rooms

• How athletes think about output, recovery, and capacity (and why entrepreneurs should too)

• The boundaries I’ve built so my business supports travel, not fights it

• Why it’s not a flex to come home jet lagged and jump straight on calls the next day

• The exact rituals I use to downshift after events and reset my nervous system

This is about leadership standards.

Because when people are flying across the world to be in your room, your energy is part of the experience, and it’s your responsibility to take that seriously.

🎧 Listen if you want to lead rooms with a high standard of how you lead and to have the actual stamina to be in output mode, not exhaustion mode

In this episode, I’m unpacking one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned as a leader when it came from hosting my first multi day international event, Wildfire Live.

I shed light on the standards of 'success', the ones you consciously or subconsciously took on from the industry and started using as proof of whether you’re “successful” or not.

I’m sharing the full story of launching Wildfire Live in Costa Rica from publicly declaring a goal of 100 women in the room and not hitting it, holding months of pressure, shame, and self-judgment to ultimately hosting an experience with 30 women that changed everything.

Inside this episode, we talk about:

• Why borrowed industry benchmarks quietly run your nervous system

• The difference between surrender and throwing in the towel (they feel similar in the body, but they are not the same)

• How athlete mentality shaped the way I set goals and where it didn’t apply

• The moment I realized the number I was chasing wasn’t even mine

• Why “bigger” doesn’t always mean better and when depth is the actual metric

• The shame women carry when they don’t hit public goals (and why it’s unnecessary)

• How giving your all matters more than hitting the number

• Why the universe sometimes gives you exactly what you asked for, just not how you expected

I share what it was like leading up to the event, selling all the way through, questioning myself, feeling the weight of expectations, and then what happened when I finally saw the room filled with the exact women who were meant to be there.

This episode is also where I explain the shift I’m making now:
I’m no longer creating “events.”
I’m no longer doing intimate retreats or large-scale conferences.

I’m building retreats at scale, experiences designed for depth, integration, masterminding, and real transformation, without the burnout, hype cycles, or information overload.

If you’re:

• Launching something big

• Hosting an event, retreat, or program

• Chasing a number you think you should want

• Or questioning whether you’re failing because you didn’t hit a goal…

This episode will reframe everything.

🎧 Listen if you’re ready to stop proving yourself to borrowed standards, and start building from what actually creates transformation