Inconsistent income doesn’t mean you’re failing — it means you’re living in the real world.

In this episode, Phoebe shares a story about a friend who couldn’t cover rent and bills after a rough business year, and unpacks what so many freelancers, business owners, contractors, creatives, and commission earners experience: feast-and-famine income is normal.

The solution isn’t shaming yourself or trying to budget like you’re on a salary. It’s building a system that doesn’t panic when income wobbles. You’ll learn how to find your “minimum survival” number, create a cash cushion that calms your nervous system, separate earning from spending, and give every dollar a job so you can stay stable in quiet months and smart in big months.

This is how you stop spiralling, start financially adulting, and build calm, confident control — even when your pay isn’t consistent yet.

This New Year episode is a real conversation about what happens after the big change when the noise stops, the adrenaline wears off, and you’re left asking, “Who am I now?”

After selling my mortgage broking business at the end of 2024, I stepped into a season I didn’t fully expect. Less hustle. More space. And a whole lot of identity recalibration. This episode is about that in-between phase — the one we don’t talk about enough where growth doesn’t look productive, but absolutely is.

We unpack why active rest isn’t quitting, slowing down, or losing your edge. It’s a strategic pause. A deliberate decision to let your nervous system catch up to your life. To stop forcing clarity and allow it to land.

I talk about identity lag that disorienting gap between who you were and who you’re becoming — and how it quietly influences money decisions, self-worth, and the pressure to “do something” before you’re ready. Especially for women who’ve built success by being capable, busy, and useful.

This episode is an invitation to stop making decisions from an outdated version of yourself.

Because sustainable wealth doesn’t come from grinding harder. It comes from alignment. From choosing work, money, and lifestyles that actually fit the woman you are now not the one you had to be to survive.

If you’re in a season of change, reinvention, or quiet rebuilding, this one’s for you. You’re not behind. You’re not lost. You’re recalibrating.

And that might be the most powerful move you make all year.

Episode Chapters

00:00 – Welcome to 2026 and why this year feels different 00:19 – When life changes faster than your identity 01:13 – What really happens after you sell the business 02:37 – Active rest: not lazy, not indulgent, essential 06:43 – Identity lag and the money choices it messes with 10:03 – Why alignment is the real wealth strategy 13:16 – Permission to grow into who you’re becoming

The holiday season has a way of turning the volume up on everything, especially money.

Suddenly you’re spending more time with family than usual, old dynamics are bubbling up, and money starts to feel heavier. Conversations that normally roll off your back hit differently. You might feel judged, defensive, small, resentful, or weirdly emotional about things you thought you’d already dealt with.

That’s because money is never just money - especially in families.

Money is safety. Money is power. Money is love, shame, obligation, history.

And the holidays press every single button.

In this episode, we unpack why family gatherings magnify money stress and how your early money wounds shape the way you react, not just to spending, but to expectations, comparison, and unspoken tension.

You’ll learn how the four core money wounds show up in families during the holidays:

• Scarcity — the hyper-responsible one who feels like money could disappear at any moment • Worth — the status-seeker who spends big to feel enough • Shame — the avoider who hopes money will sort itself out later • Neglect — the one who hands money decisions to others and feels overwhelmed by it all

You’ll start to recognise these patterns not just in yourself but around the table.

Most importantly, this episode isn’t about fixing anyone or starting heavy conversations over Christmas lunch. It’s about awareness. Because when you understand what’s really going on, you stop taking everything personally.

You get to keep your peace.

You’ll walk away with practical ways to regulate your nervous system, set quiet boundaries, and step out of old patterns so you can move through the holiday season grounded, clear, and fully yourself.

In this episode we dioscuss whyt you are not broken or bad with money, you are responding exactly as you learned to survive.

And once you understand that, you get choice.

If this episode resonates, head to the website to download the Money Mindfulness workbook or take the Money Types quiz (find it on our website at phoebeblamey.com.au and remember: understanding money gives you language, and language gives you power.

This week’s episode is basically a Christmas ornament box full of truth bombs: sparkly, slightly chaotic, and filled with things you forgot you put away years ago… until you open it and go, “Oh damn, there’s my dream.”

Phoebe dives into the messy, magical moment she realised she has stepped into the life she dreamed of five years ago — without even noticing it happening. Hosting the founding round of the Million Dollar Conspiracy, surrounded by powerhouse business women, she had that rare, spine-tingling moment where past-you and present-you finally high-five across the timeline.

But this isn’t really an episode about manifestation (although she absolutely manifested the pants off this). It’s about desire. It’s about honouring the dream you keep trying to ignore because life feels like one long “everything everywhere all at once” montage, complete with end-of-year glitter and emotional whiplash.

Phoebe breaks down:

• Why your side hustle matters more than you want to admit

• Why ignoring your dream doesn’t make it polite — it makes it loud

• Why your future self is already living the life you want, waiting for you to catch up

• How giving your dream a notebook, a folder, a Sunday morning ritual can change the whole direction of your life

• Why beginning badly is still infinitely better than not beginning

• The brutal but freeing truth about competing commitments (yes, binge-watching is a commitment)

• Why ideas don’t disappear — they get adopted by someone else if you don’t claim them

• And the tiny, brave, rebellious move you need to make this week

This is your invitation to stop half-assing your dreams.

Because the life you want won’t arrive when everything is quiet and calm and aligned. It arrives when you decide you’re done waiting for clarity… and you take the first step anyway.

Your future self is pouring the champagne. She’s already there. She’s waiting.

Christmas in midlife is not a Hallmark movie.

It’s three family lunches in one day, a group chat on fire, 47 “last chance” sales emails, and somehow you’ve become the caterer, the Uber driver, the therapist and the bank. Again.

In this Christmas special of Midlife Wealth Revolution, Phoebe breaks down why this time of year is such a pressure cooker for women in midlife – and how you can do it differently.

She explores how old family roles, money wounds and expectations collide in December, and gives you a practical, grounded plan to protect your money, your energy and your future without turning into the Grinch.

Inside this episode, you’ll hear about:

• What really sits underneath the family fights, money tension and silent resentment at Christmas

• How financial pressure, “helping out” and unequal treatment between siblings can turn into full-blown money wounds

• Why adults don’t need another useless gift, and how to shift from performative spending to meaningful, low-cost giving

• How to stop being the unpaid Christmas project manager and start sharing the emotional, financial and practical load

• A simple Christmas money plan you can map out in ten minutes so you don’t roll into January broke, exhausted and furious

This episode is your permission slip to say no, set limits and build a Christmas that works for you too – not just everyone else.

If you’ve been working on your money this year, this is where you hold the line.

Because you are not the family ATM. You are not the default caterer and clean-up crew. You are a woman in midlife building real wealth, and that includes how you handle December.

OK so you are not a numbers person - I can show you how to start making some good money decisions anyway! Welcome to the leading money podcast for mid life women in Australia. This week we dig deep into money myths, why a move into your divine feminine might feel like you are NOT doing better with your money, how not knowing can be dangerous and what are the three steps you can take right now to understand your finances.

If you are a mid life woman looking for financial freedom, start here!

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It’s finally here… the financial Olympics of the year. Black Friday to Cyber Monday is loud, chaotic, tempting, and honestly? It can be BRILLIANT — if you shop with strategy instead of spiralling.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the psychology behind the sales, how retailers use scarcity + urgency to make us overspend, and why midlife women are uniquely targeted (and uniquely powerful when we shop intentionally).

We cover:

• Why your brain goes wild during sales

• How identity buying creeps in (hello, future self fantasies)

• Why Australian women are conditioned to “only buy on sale”

• Emotional spending in November — and how to stop it in its tracks

• The real-life system for getting what you actually want

• The best hacks for Black Friday through Cyber Monday

• How to avoid the Afterpay hangover

• What small businesses need from us

• And how to walk out of the sales feeling empowered, not regretful

This is your no-guilt, no-shame guide to spending with intention, clarity, and agency.

Because when you shop intentionally, you’re not just buying things — you’re building trust with yourself.

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There are four steps to financial freedom and none of them involve being good!

Today, on Australia's leading money podcast for mid life women let’s bust a myth. There is no right way to do money. The only right way is the one that fits your life, your experiences, and your dreams.

We’ve been told for too long that money follows a straight path: get a job, buy a house, build a portfolio, retire. But life doesn’t work that way and neither does your money.

This episode takes you inside your Money Matrix a model for how money actually moves through your life: Stability, Security, Growth, and Freedom. It’s emotional, practical, and energetic. It flows with you, not against you.

And most importantly? You get to decide to be wealthy.

Because wealth isn’t greed. It’s liberation. It’s your power, your safety, your legacy and the foundation for the impact you want to make in your family, community, and the world.

A wealthy woman with a conscience is the patriarchy’s worst nightmare.

Wealth isn’t about survival - it’s about sovereignty. When women have wealth, families thrive, communities change, and the world begins to heal. So start your journey here!

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