In Episode 2 of Val-You Based Care, Dr. Kimberly Ku sits down with Marie—a current patient who has been courageously living with cancer for several years—for a deeply human conversation about illness, meaning, and the power of communication.
Rather than centering fear or tragedy, this episode explores what happens when difficult diagnoses are met with honesty, presence, and perspective. Marie shares how she relates to her cancer without carrying it as something negative, approaching life with peace, gratitude, and openness—even as the reality of young adult cancer remains uncomfortable for many to acknowledge.
Through their dialogue, Dr. Ku reflects on the evolving role of physicians—not as friends, but as trusted advisors—and how patients themselves often become teachers in moments that demand empathy, clarity, and courage. The conversation also addresses why doctors struggle with young patients, how families navigate uncertainty together, and why meaningful communication can transform moments that might otherwise feel overwhelming.
When the Patient Becomes the Teacher is a powerful reminder that bedside manner is not small talk—it’s a skill, a responsibility, and a cornerstone of truly human care.
Chapters:
0:00 - Introduction
1:06 - Communication with your doctors
6:32 - Marie's experience while Dr. Ku was away on maternity leave
10:40 - Marie's journey with cancer
17:38 - Dealing with a cancer diagnosis as a young person
24:28 - Medical professionals learning the skill of communication
33:20 - The importance of simply 'trying'
35:39 - Closing remarks