In this episode, Katie Murray explores the nuances of self-sabotage, focusing on how our nervous system anticipates experiences and influences our actions. She discusses the concept of anticipatory emotions, the emotional weight we carry, and how our capacity to handle tasks can fluctuate based on our internal states. The conversation emphasises the importance of presence and awareness in navigating these feelings, suggesting that movement towards our goals often requires acknowledging and sitting with our emotions rather than forcing ourselves to act.

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In this episode, Katie Murray explores the common yet often private struggle of repeating behaviours that one wishes to change. She emphasises that these behaviours are not indicative of weakness or failure but are rooted in nervous system patterns developed over time. The conversation delves into the importance of awareness, the origins of these patterns, and how familiarity can hinder change. Katie advocates for a gentle approach to understanding these behaviours, focusing on safety and regulation as key components for sustainable transformation.

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In this episode, Katie Murray explores the concept that you don't get what you want, instead you get what you practice. She delves into how life presents challenges as opportunities to embody qualities like courage, patience, and self-worth. Through personal anecdotes and practical strategies, Katie emphasizes the importance of responding consciously to life's tests, highlighting that growth often feels repetitive and uncomfortable, before it becomes your new normal.

Katie also introduces the Self-Sabotage Solution, a program designed to help individuals navigate identity shifts safely, reinforcing that self-sabotage is a protective response rather than a flaw.

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This round of the Self-Sabotage Solution starts on Monday the 19th of January 2026, with doors closing at midnight on the 18th of January 2026.

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