This episode is a bold, heartfelt reflection on knowing when to step out of the fear and into your own power—especially as a therapist torn between agency life and building your dream private practice. Alicia shares her raw story, struggles, fears, and ultimate leap of faith that might just inspire your next move.
In today's episode:
The red flags and early signs you might be in the wrong agency job
How burnout and feeling unsafe in your environment signal it’s time to pivot
Alicia’s personal story from dream job at the VA to quitting while pregnant
How to recognize when your agency work drains your energy and vision
Practical steps for planning your exit without burning bridges
The importance of trusting your intuition and research when making big moves
Building your practice on the side as a safety net and motivation
Why keeping your “why” front and center fuels your courage
Resources to help you prepare and launch your private practice
A powerful Reddit thread on encouraging therapists to move forward
Timestamps:
00:16 - Welcome and today's honest talk about leaving agency work
01:13 - My surgery and motherhood chaos—back to the topic
02:11 - Who this episode is for: therapists feeling stuck in agency roles
03:08 - My journey: from grad school to VA—what it really looked like
04:01 - The red flags early in my VA job—red flags you might miss
05:15 - Discovering I was unprepared and safety issues in the community role
06:42 - Shadowing and realizing I was underqualified for community work
08:31 - The political environment and how it eats up your soul
09:45 - The burnout spiral—calling my best friend to admit I hate my job
10:33 - Building my private practice alongside my agency role
11:04 - The secret side hustle—quietly creating my future
12:24 - How agency strife fueled my motivation to leave
13:37 - The chaos of bureaucracy and how it stifles good clinicians
14:04 - The reality: resilience and surviving tough agency environments
15:00 - The toll of drained therapists and unused client benefits
16:06 - Practical tools: Mentaya helps therapists reclaim their market value
17:15 - The decision-moment: when I knew I had to leave
18:23 - The pregnancy revelation—how life changed my plans
19:23 - The frustration of working unsafe conditions while pregnant
20:12 - Dropping the “I can’t do this anymore” bomb
21:29 - Financial planning and making the leap manageable
22:37 - Why I took a part-time job to ease the transition
23:14 - Building my practice quickly—what it took
24:39 - The fears: pensions, stability, and risk—yet I went for it
25:08 - Burning bridges vs. keeping doors open and how I handled it
26:24 - The courage and trust needed to leap into private practice
27:45 - Starting early: plan, prepare, and don’t wait too long
28:37 - Resources for launching and growing your private practice
29:30 - Therapist in the Threads: an empowering Reddit story about moving on
30:52 - Final encouragement: move your practice forward, no matter what
31:51 - Thanks for listening—your next step starts now