In this episode of the podcast, I’m joined by Nik Toth from The Aware Family – nutrition therapist, Aware Parenting practitioner, and mum – for a raw, honest conversation about fertility, birth trauma and why our babies’ tears are not the problem.
Nik shares how she was told she had blocked fallopian tubes, a thinning egg reserve, no ovulation and a partner with almost zero sperm count… and that “not even IVF” would work. Instead of accepting that as the final truth, she leaned into her background in nutritional medicine, herbs, supplements, energy work and nervous system support – and fell pregnant six weeks later.
We also dive into her birth story in Bali – a planned home water birth that turned into an emergency C-section, NICU, meconium aspiration and the most harrowing 15 minutes of her life when she thought her baby had died and nobody in the operating theatre spoke to her in English.
From there, we talk about:
- How her “colicky baby” cried 10–12 hours a day for months
- The moment she discovered Aware Parenting and decided to listen instead of constantly soothing and shushing
- What actually happens when a baby has a big cry in safe arms
- Why suppressing feelings in babies shows up later as sleep issues, behaviour and anxiety
- The link between nervous system regulation, hormones, sleep and our cycles
If you’re a cycle-aware mum, pregnant, trying to conceive, or healing a birth story – this one will land deep.
Trigger warning: We do talk about birth trauma, NICU and emergency C-section. Please listen gently.
Connect with Nik & her work:
🌐 theawarefamily.com
The freebie for exhausted parents: https://my.theawarefamily.com/3essentials
The link for the 8 free sleep audits https://niktoth.thrivecart.com/sleep-audit/?coupon=CYCLECODES
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Disclaimer:
The content shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended to substitute professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your healthcare provider or a qualified medical professional regarding any questions or concerns you may have about your cycle, hormones, or health. I speak from lived experience and training in menstrual cycle awareness—not as a licensed medical practitioner.
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