Episodi

  • Why can't they just get it — is it them or is it me?
    Jul 22 2026

    Do you feel like your team still does not fully understand the vision, even after you have explained it?

    In this episode, John explores why communication is one of the biggest challenges for business owners and why real alignment comes from clarity, consistency, and repeating the vision often. He also looks at what can get in the way, including ego, people-pleasing, and waiting until everything feels perfect before you lead the conversation.


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    00:01:00 — Why Communication Matters

    00:03:05 — Clarity, Conciseness, and Consistency

    00:04:05 — Why They Still Do Not Get It

    00:06:05 — Bringing Vision Into the Conversation

    00:09:40 — The Cost of Misalignment

    00:11:05 — Seeing Yourself as the Visionary

    00:14:00 — Sharing the Vision Means Sharing Yourself

    00:15:35 — Letting Go of People-Pleasing

    00:18:10 — The Leadership Alignment Workshop



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    22 min
  • Letting go to get your energy back - with Barry Finnegan
    Jul 15 2026

    What happens when the pressure of business starts affecting your health?

    In this episode, John walks with Barry Finnegan, founder of a technology business based in County Meath, to explore what it really means to carry responsibility without letting it consume you. Barry shares how a mild heart attack became a wake-up call to rethink stress, personal responsibility, health, and the way he was holding on to outcomes in business.

    Together, they talk about letting go of what you cannot control, staying grounded in gratitude, building a business without losing yourself, and learning to define success from the inside out.


    Interested in joining our next Grounded Man Hike? Click here for more: https://www.derunation.com/TGM-Hike


    00:00:42 — Welcome to The Grounded Man Podcast

    00:01:20 — Meet Barry Finnegan

    00:05:35 — Walking at Lough Crew

    00:09:30 — Barry’s Health Wake-Up Call

    00:15:30 — Letting Go of the Outcome

    00:17:30 — Gratitude and Control

    00:20:20 — Talking Through Problems

    00:24:00 — Taking Personal Responsibility

    00:27:20 — Finding Balance Again

    00:30:55 — Defining Success from Within

    00:34:10 — Inner Pride and Daily Action

    00:40:15 — Advice for Men Under Pressure

    00:42:45 — The Grounded Man Hike



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    43 min
  • If There's Not Enough Hours in the Day — You're Counting Them Wrong
    Jul 8 2026

    Do you feel like there are never enough hours in the day?

    In this episode, John explores why so many business owners feel trapped by their own calendars, constantly chasing time, success, and opportunities outside of themselves. He explains why your real value is not in the number of hours you work, but in your presence, focus, strengths, and ability to choose what truly deserves your energy.


    For more on the Deru approach to leadership from the inside out, visit https://www.derunation.com/TGM-Hike


    00:01:04 — When There’s Never Enough Time

    00:03:00 — Amazon vs. Rolex and Ferrari

    00:06:25 — The Signs You Have a Problem with Time

    00:08:35 — Stop Chasing Success

    00:10:14 — What Really Built Your Business

    00:13:20 — Letting Go of Proving Yourself

    00:16:15 — The Hierarchy of Waste

    00:20:10 — The Three Buckets of Work

    00:22:30 — Making the Hours Count

    00:23:55 — The Grounded Man Hike



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    25 min
  • Your financial pressure has nothing to do with money
    Jul 1 2026

    Do you ever feel like cash flow, sales, and money pressure are keeping you up at night?

    In this episode, John explores the deeper mindset behind financial pressure in business. He explains why money is not something to be chased, but a byproduct of the value we create. He also talks about underpricing, saying yes to the wrong clients, avoiding the numbers, and learning to shift from a scarcity mindset into a more abundant way of leading yourself, your team, and your business.


    For more on the Deru approach to leadership from the inside out, visit https://www.derunation.com/TGM-Hike


    00:01:00 — Sales, Cash Flow, and Money Mindset

    00:03:30 — Financial Pressure as a Symptom

    00:05:30 — Money Is a Byproduct of Value

    00:07:30 — Business Is About Solving Problems

    00:10:30 — Seeing Money as a Tool

    00:13:30 — Underpricing and Saying Yes to the Wrong Clients

    00:16:00 — Lack of Financial Visibility

    00:18:00 — Letting Go of Scarcity

    00:20:00 — Giving Yourself Permission to Receive



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    23 min
  • Am I the only one that cares about the business?
    Jun 24 2026

    Do you ever feel like you are the only one who truly cares about your business?

    In this episode, John explores the loneliness and pressure that can come from carrying too much responsibility alone. He explains why business is not just a machine built on systems and output, but a living thing built on people, trust, relationships, and purpose. He also talks about letting go of the belief that you are missing something, reconnecting with your deeper purpose, and learning to grow the people first so the people can grow the business.


    For more on the Deru approach to leadership from the inside out, visit www.derunation.com


    00:01:13 — Feeling Like the Only One Who Cares

    00:03:10 — Loneliness in Business

    00:04:06 — Separating Yourself from the Business

    00:05:00 — You Are Already Enough

    00:06:15 — Business Is Built on People

    00:08:13 — The Cost of Isolation

    00:12:18 — Creating Vision and Purpose

    00:14:02 — Treating Business Like a Living Thing

    00:15:14 — What Would You Do If Nothing Was Missing?



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    17 min
  • Running on empty - or just dirt in the fuel line?
    Jun 16 2026

    Do you feel like there is more energy, focus, and power inside you, but something is blocking it from coming through?

    In this episode, John explores burnout, overwhelm, and the hidden blocks that stop men from operating at their full potential. Using the story of a tractor losing power because of dirt in the fuel line, he explains how men can have the energy, vision, and ability inside them, but still feel drained when fear, control, and pressure get in the way.

    John talks about the difference between physical tiredness and deeper mental drain, why trying to control everything can leave you exhausted, and how people pleasing, proving, perfectionism, and protecting can quietly steal your energy. He also shares why trusting the process, accepting where you are, and giving energy back to yourself is the key to moving from burnout back into freedom.


    For more on the Deru approach to leadership from the inside out, visit www.derunation.com


    00:01:20 — Running on High or Running on Empty

    00:02:30 — Dirt in the Fuel Line

    00:04:15 — Burnout and Overwhelm

    00:06:35 — Alignment and Energy

    00:08:45 — Trusting the Process

    00:10:30 — Control and Mental Drain

    00:13:05 — The Four Cloaks of Fear

    00:16:10 — Giving Energy Back to Yourself

    00:18:20 — Permission to Trust Life



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    21 min
  • Why It's So Hard To Not Doubt Yourself
    Jun 10 2026

    Do you find yourself stuck because you are afraid of making the wrong decision, even when you know something needs to change?

    In this episode, John explores how decision-making shapes the lives of hardworking men who feel trapped despite their success. He talks about how decisions keep life moving forward, why fear of letting people down can lead to hesitation, and how trusting yourself allows you to lead with more confidence, courage, and freedom.


    For more on the Deru approach to leadership from the inside out, visit www.derunation.com


    00:00:00 — The Importance of Decision-Making

    00:01:14 — Identifying Your Tribe

    00:02:10 — The Fear of Letting People Down

    00:06:43 — The Cost of Indecision

    00:12:25 — Building Certainty in Yourself

    00:14:23 — Fear vs. Intention

    00:17:03 — Your Tribe Wants You, Not Perfection

    00:19:01 — Closing Remarks



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    21 min
  • Doing everything you can and still feeling like it’s not enough
    Jun 3 2026

    Do you feel guilty for not doing enough, even when you are already carrying so much for your business, your family, and the people around you?

    In this episode, John explores how guilt can quietly eat away at your energy, confidence, and ability to grow. He talks about the impossible expectation of keeping everyone happy, the danger of constantly giving without receiving, and why letting go of guilt helps you return to the present moment with renewed focus.


    For more on the Deru approach to leadership from the inside out, visit www.derunation.com


    00:01:18 — Guilt and Self-Worth

    00:03:09 — Impossible Expectations

    00:06:32 — When Guilt Becomes Identity

    00:08:18 — Guilt and Financial Pressure

    00:10:07 — How Guilt Blocks Progress

    00:11:57 — The Danger of Constant Giving

    00:13:53 — Guilt as Judge, Jury, and Jailer

    00:15:41 — Accepting Your Limitations

    00:17:28 — Wipe the Slate Clean

    00:18:19 — Closing Remarks



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    19 min