If you are afraid of AI, Dr. Tommy Rhee says that fear is the real risk, not the technology. This is his Upgraded Man Journal entry, the handoff every guest makes at the end of the show.

Dr. Tommy Rhee is a sports chiropractor with nearly twenty years of hands on pro athletes, from Olympians to NFL players to UFC fighters. He is the founder and CEO of RheeGen and the author of The Future of Regenerative Medicine.

Every guest reads what the last guest left in the journal, answers it, then leaves one line for whoever sits down next. The entry waiting for Tommy came from Florian Kemmerich, on identity being the one asset AI cannot replace.

Tommy sits with it for a few seconds, then answers straight. AI is about to blow up, and the men who are not ready for it are going to get left behind. He also talks about how he actually uses it, as a research partner that gets him to a source faster than he could get there on his own.

Chris takes the other side of the same coin. The real promise is AI taking the work that was never really us, so we get more time for the things that are.

Then Tommy leaves his own line for the next guest. It sounds easy right up until you have to answer it out loud.

This one is for the man who has been quietly worried about where his work goes from here.

In this episode:

• Florian Kemmerich's entry on identity as the asset AI cannot replace
• Why Dr. Tommy Rhee says fear of AI is the bigger risk
• How he uses AI for research in his own practice
• Chris on AI taking the tasks that were never really us
• The new question Tommy leaves for the next guest

Questions this episode answers

Should I be afraid of AI? Dr. Tommy Rhee says the men who refuse to get ready for it are the ones who will be fearful of the future.

How can I use AI in my work? Dr. Tommy Rhee uses it as a research partner that gets him to sources faster than he could find them himself.

What can AI give back to men? Chris Anderson says the hope is AI takes the tasks that were never aligned with who we are, so we get that time back.

Find Dr. Tommy Rhee at rheegen.com and physicalchiro.com, and on Instagram at @dr.rheetommy. He is a Doctor of Chiropractic, not a physician.

The Upgraded Man is hosted by Chris Anderson. Send this to a man who needs a push to get ready instead of scared. Follow the show.

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How to quiet your mind, in twelve minutes, with a rep you can run in your truck. High performance coach Steve Barton, creator of The Game of Ten, hands Chris Anderson six sentences and makes him say them on air. This is the most valuable stretch of the conversation, released as its own episode.

Steve Barton ran his father's floral business in Maine for about thirty years before he started coaching. He is seventy, and he says his job is to help a man stop punishing himself.

Chris opens with the question every man in our audience is carrying. There is a voice in my head that never stops. How do I quiet it? You cannot quiet it by trying harder. We were trained from childhood to think our way out of every problem, and that training is the reason the voice runs all day. Eighty percent of what it says is negative, and most of it is from the past.

Then he gives Chris the rep. Six phrases. About thirty seconds. Chris repeats each one on air, and by the end of it he says out loud that it worked. That is the moment this episode was built for.

In this episode:

- Why trying to stifle the voice makes it louder
- Why we were trained to think, and what that costs us
- Let go of control to be in control. The only control you have is inside you.
- Respond versus react, and what that has to do with a football sideline
- The six phrases, done live, with Chris repeating each one

Questions this episode answers

How do I quiet the voice in my head?
Steve Barton says stop fighting it. Say six short phrases out loud, starting with "I am enough," and the mind runs out of questions to ask.

Why does trying to stop overthinking make it worse?
Steve Barton says the more you try to stifle a thought, the louder it gets. Thinking your way out of thinking is rearranging the deck chairs on the Titanic.

Do the six phrases actually work?
Chris Anderson did them on air and said so. He noticed the difference before the rep was over.

Find Steve Barton at stevebartoncoaching.com. Download The Father, the Son, and the Aha Moment free at thegameof10.com. He posts every week on LinkedIn as Coach Steve Barton.

The Upgraded Man is hosted by Chris Anderson. Full episode with Steve is out now. Send this one to the friend who says he cannot shut his brain off.

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How to be more present when your head will not shut up. Brett Ashby paints two meter portraits while rolling a half pipe in front of 500 people, and he tells Chris Anderson the rule that keeps him upright: if you have a thought, you fall off.

Brett Ashby is a contemporary artist from Melbourne, Australia. He grew up on vert ramps, spent years behind a camera, then ended up in front of it painting rock stars, pro skaters, and Barack Obama. He is a cancer survivor. After treatment he could not do a push up for six years, so he put an easel on the ramp and rebuilt his life one small change at a time.

In this episode:

- Why a vert ramp teaches the same lesson as a marriage: the second you think, you fall
- How to be more present when the magic is not in the past or the future, only right now
- Four things to try this week: get away from people, get outside, write the noise down, build a ritual
- What Brett gave up to live with a light backpack, and what it lets him do
- Surviving cancer: forget everybody, the only guy who gets you through is you
- Small changes every day: remove a friend, remove some clutter, donate things, cut the TV
- How to make someone feel seen with one sentence, and the name tag rule
- Why he is never nervous in front of 500 people: there's nobody there, it's just me

Questions this episode answers

How do I stop overthinking and be more present?
Brett Ashby says dissolve the thinking, not the fear itself. On a ramp, one thought puts you on the ground. Calm and trust are what let your body do the amazing thing.

What small changes actually change your life?
Brett Ashby says remove some friends, remove some clutter, push things out, donate things, and start with the bare basics. Little changes every day, and you can soon change your entire life.

How do I make someone feel seen?
Read the name tag and say the name. Brett Ashby says when you say hello to Emily, the light bulb goes off in her and that force comes right back into you.

Find Brett Ashby at brettashby.com and on Instagram at @brettashbyartist, where he answers direct messages. His live skate-painting shows are on YouTube at @brettyashby.

The Upgraded Man is hosted by Chris Anderson. Follow the show, and send this one to the man who is in every room and never actually there.

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