In this episode, Roxie and Amanda delve into the themes of overcoming FOMO and people pleasing, exploring how these behaviors can be forms of manipulation and self-preservation. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, the role of peacemaking in creative endeavors, and the challenges of navigating personal and professional relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for reflection, understanding one's values, and the significance of asking questions to make informed decisions. Ultimately, they highlight the growth that comes from facing adversity and the importance of staying true to one's values in the pursuit of creativity and ethical living.

Content Warning: Amanda quotes the movie, Cold Mountain, and one adult word is used.

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Transcript

Takeaways

• People pleasing can be a form of manipulation.
• Self-awareness is crucial in overcoming people pleasing.
• It's important to reflect on one's values regularly.
• Peacemaking should not compromise personal values.
• FOMO can lead to overcommitting and burnout.
• Asking questions is essential for informed decision-making.
• Growth often comes from uncomfortable experiences.
• You can lead a revolution without compromising your values.
• Understanding the impact of opportunities is vital.
• It's okay to walk away from situations that don't align with your values.

Chapters

00:00 Overcoming FOMO and People Pleasing

12:25 The Role of Peacemaking in Creativity

18:54 Navigating FOMO in Personal and Professional Life

30:31 Reflection and Growth Through Adversity

Keywords: FOMO, people pleasing, self-awareness, manipulation, peacemaking, creativity, values, personal growth, ethical choices, reflection

In this episode, Roxie and Amanda reflect on their journey over the past year, revisiting the importance of saying no and maintaining boundaries. They discuss the launch of their Creativity First Studio, the significance of accountability in personal growth, and the challenges of managing chaos in their lives. The conversation emphasizes the need to recognize red flags in relationships and the dangers of people-pleasing, ultimately providing listeners with actionable takeaways to prioritize their creative energy and well-being.

Creativity First Studio - The Waitlist Is Open!

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⁠⁠Transcript⁠⁠

Takeaways

• Creativity First Studio waitlist is OPEN!
• Saying no helps maintain focus on goals and boundaries.
• Understanding the deeper reasons behind saying no is crucial.
• Accountability partners can help reinforce boundaries.
• It's essential to manage one's own chaos before helping others.
• Recognizing red flags can prevent future chaos.
• People-pleasing can lead to personal burnout.
• Setting boundaries is necessary, even mid-commitment.
• Creative energy should be prioritized for personal fulfillment.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Unfinished Business

01:45 Launching Creativity First Studio

02:22 Reflecting on Growth and Boundaries

05:04 Understanding the Depth of Saying No

07:44 The Importance of Accountability

09:31 Managing Chaos in Our Lives

12:51 Recognizing Red Flags

15:36 The Dangers of People-Pleasing

19:00 Setting Boundaries in Relationships

20:49 Trail Mix Takeaways

This episode is about: unfinished business, creativity, boundaries, personal growth, accountability, chaos management, people pleasing, red flags, setting boundaries, creative energy

Join Roxie and Amanda for an inspiring conversation on trailblazing in creative endeavors. In this episode, they unpack the journey of carving new paths in the creative landscape, sharing anecdotes, and offering valuable insights for those seeking to make their mark in the world of creativity. This is Part 2 of a two-part Floor Talk.

About Floor Talk:

Step into our world with Floor Talk, a series of bonus episodes from Roxie and Amanda Make It Up As They Go, where we take our chats from the floor to your ears! Join Amanda and Roxie for a delightful 10-minute deep dive into specific themes. It's like those casual, insightful floor conversations we love—where the vibes are relaxed, the ideas are flowing, and it's just like chatting with friends. Get ready for a playful yet meaningful exchange on creativity, mindset, and more!

Join Roxie and Amanda for an inspiring conversation on trailblazing in creative endeavors. In this episode, they unpack the journey of carving new paths in the creative landscape, sharing anecdotes, and offering valuable insights for those seeking to make their mark in the world of creativity. This is Part 1 of a two-part Floor Talk.

About Floor Talk:

Step into our world with Floor Talk, a series of bonus episodes from Roxie and Amanda Make It Up As They Go, where we take our chats from the floor to your ears! Join Amanda and Roxie for a delightful 10-minute deep dive into specific themes. It's like those casual, insightful floor conversations we love—where the vibes are relaxed, the ideas are flowing, and it's just like chatting with friends. Get ready for a playful yet meaningful exchange on creativity, mindset, and more!

In this thought-provoking episode, Roxie and Amanda confront the evolving meaning of self-care in a post-pandemic world. Tune in to explore how self-care has shifted and discover ways to embrace this change while maintaining a healthy creative balance.

About Floor Talk:

Step into our world with Floor Talk, a series of bonus episodes from Roxie and Amanda Make It Up As They Go, where we take our chats from the floor to your ears! Join Amanda and Roxie for a delightful 10-minute deep dive into specific themes. It's like those casual, insightful floor conversations we love—where the vibes are relaxed, the ideas are flowing, and it's just like chatting with friends. Get ready for a playful yet meaningful exchange on creativity, mindset, and more!

In this insightful episode, Roxie and Amanda dive into the world of people-pleasing and the fear of missing out (FOMO). Join their candid conversation as they dissect the impact these tendencies can have on creativity and explore strategies to navigate these common challenges.

About Floor Talk:

Step into our world with Floor Talk, a series of bonus episodes from Roxie and Amanda Make It Up As They Go, where we take our chats from the floor to your ears! Join Amanda and Roxie for a delightful 10-minute deep dive into specific themes. It's like those casual, insightful floor conversations we love—where the vibes are relaxed, the ideas are flowing, and it's just like chatting with friends. Get ready for a playful yet meaningful exchange on creativity, mindset, and more!

Join Roxie and Amanda for a candid discussion as Roxie shares her journey from being labeled 'competitive' to understanding the relationship between a competitive nature and a scarcity mindset. Delve into this introspective bonus episode where they unravel these complexities of creativity and outline strategies to help us all thrive.

About Floor Talk:

Step into our world with Floor Talk, a series of bonus episodes from Roxie and Amanda Make It Up As They Go, where we take our chats from the floor to your ears! Join Amanda and Roxie for a delightful 10-minute deep dive into specific themes. It's like those casual, insightful floor conversations we love—where the vibes are relaxed, the ideas are flowing, and it's just like chatting with friends. Get ready for a playful yet meaningful exchange on creativity, mindset, and more!

Episode 7: Leaving a Legacy Through Saying No

In this final episode of the series, Amanda and Roxie tie together the themes of the previous episodes and discuss how saying "no" has helped them leave a positive legacy. They offer advice on how to make a lasting impact as a trailblazer by staying true to your vision, maintaining your boundaries, and prioritizing your goals.

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Roxie and Amanda Make It Up As They Go is a Creativity First broadcast that explores the creative process and empowers listeners to unleash their own creativity. Hosted by Amanda and Roxie, two experienced creatives with diverse backgrounds, the podcast features candid conversations about their personal experiences with creativity, as well as practical tips and strategies for overcoming creative blocks, finding inspiration, and building a successful creative career…. Each episode dives into a specific topic related to the creative process, ranging from brainstorming and ideation to project management and marketing. Through engaging storytelling and insightful commentary, Amanda and Roxie share their unique perspectives on creativity and offer valuable insights for anyone looking to unleash their own creative potential.

Series #1 The Trailblazer's Guide to Saying No

The Trailblazer’s Guide to Saying No aims to provide practical advice and insights for listeners who want to become more effective trailblazers by learning how to say "no" in a strategic and intentional way. Amanda and Roxie draw from their own experiences as creatives and entrepreneurs to offer relatable and actionable tips, while also sharing inspiring stories of successful trailblazers who have mastered the art of saying "no."

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