Men and women are often described as opposites — but what if the truth is more nuanced? In this episode, Chloe and Dagmar explore how women and men are different, where they overlap, and why understanding those differences can deepen connection instead of creating division.

From friendships and dating to intuition, nervous system safety, and emotional communication, this conversation invites you to stop forcing roles and start trusting what feels aligned.

Topics We Cover

• Why gender differences aren’t the real issue
• Friendship vs. attraction between men and women
• Dating expectations and unspoken pressure
• Emotional vs. analytical communication styles
• Why chemistry can’t be negotiated
• Masculine and feminine energy in everyone
• Trusting your nervous system, not timelines
• Why connection matters more than labels

In This Episode, You’ll Hear

• Why Chloe values male friendships
• Dagmar’s perspective on shared human traits
• How dating pressure creates disconnection
• The difference between intimacy and sex
• Why “if it doesn’t feel right” is enough

Timestamps

00:00 Intro
01:45 Why women and men are labeled as different
03:30 Friendship, gender, and perspective
06:00 Can men and women really be just friends?
09:00 Dating expectations and pressure
14:00 Masculine vs feminine energy
18:10 Chemistry, attraction, and intuition
23:00 Trusting your nervous system
25:00 Final thoughts

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What does it really take to believe in yourself when the pressure is real and the path is hard?
In this episode, we sit down with 18-year-old Simone Moss to explore grit, faith, discipline, and the mindset required to grow — no matter your age.

Simone shares how competitive sailing, military college life, and her Christian faith have shaped her mental resilience, confidence, and ability to stay grounded while striving for big goals.

Topics We Cover:

• What grit really means (and how to build it)
• Competing mentally, not physically
• Faith as a foundation for resilience
• Discipline vs. motivation
• Why excuses keep us stuck
• The power of realistic goals
• Female friendships and sisterhood
• Confidence without external validation
• Balance, pressure, and self-respect

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why believing in yourself isn’t enough without action
• How Simone learned to stop chasing validation
• What women of any age can learn from younger generations
• Why hard work is never something you regret
• How faith can guide everyday decisions

Timestamps:

00:00 Intro
02:00 Simone’s journey into competitive sailing
05:00 Competing against men & mindset strength
08:30 Discipline, excuses, and early mornings
11:00 Faith, God, and personal responsibility
15:30 Friendship, maturity, and emotional intelligence
20:30 Dating, confidence, and self-focus
28:00 Grit, goals, and realistic expectations
33:00 Final takeaways & belief in yourself

Guest:
Simone Moss — Competitive sailor, military college student, and young woman redefining resilience.

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You feel it.
That quiet knowing that this isn’t all there is — even if you can’t name what’s missing yet.

In this episode, Chloe and Dagmar explore the tension between gratitude and desire, comfort and curiosity, and why wanting more doesn’t mean something is wrong with your life. It means something is waking up.

Topics We Cover:

• Wanting more without clarity
• Comfort zones and personal growth
• Why comparison fuels dissatisfaction
• Trusting intuition over outside noise
• Dating, relationships, and modern confusion
• Simplicity vs adventure personalities
• Decision fatigue and overthinking
• Letting desire unfold naturally

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• Why “more” often shows up before clarity does
• How leaving your comfort zone reveals truth
• The danger of forcing decisions too early
• Why intuition matters more than advice
• How modern dating complicates self-trust

Timestamps:

00:00 Intro
01:04 Wanting more but not knowing what it is
03:12 Comparison and “grass is greener” thinking
07:06 Leaving the comfort zone
11:52 Overchoice and decision fatigue
13:19 Dating, relationships, and expectations
19:49 Defining what you want before seeking more
22:43 Trusting intuition and the nervous system
24:35 Closing reflections

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Dogs feel anxiety just like we do — and most of the time, they’re responding to us. In this episode, master dog trainer Jeff Nelson breaks down what dog anxiety really looks like and how confident, calm leadership can change everything.

We talk about leash training, environment, emotional energy, and why anxious behaviors are often unintentionally reinforced.

Topics We Cover:

• What anxiety actually looks like in dogs
• Why barking, pulling, and reactivity are stress signals
• How leash walking builds confidence
• The role of human energy and consistency
• Dogs, kids, and overstimulation
• Traveling with dogs (cars, planes, airports)
• Summer heat safety and stimulation alternatives
• Introducing a new dog into your home

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why soothing an anxious dog can make anxiety worse
• How structure creates emotional safety
• Simple obedience tools that reduce stress fast
• What most dog owners misunderstand about calm behavior

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
03:20 What dog anxiety really looks like
06:00 Leash walking and confidence
08:10 Dogs, kids, and overstimulation
15:40 Traveling with dogs
20:15 Summer heat and safe stimulation
24:00 Puppies and early anxiety
29:30 Adding a second dog
39:10 One key takeaway for anxious dogs

Podcast Guest:
Jeff Nelson is a master dog trainer and founder of Palm Beach Dog Academy. You can find Jeff on Instagram at @muttsandjeff and on TikTok at @DogTrainingMastery.

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What if peace comes when you stop chasing—approval, people, trends, or timelines?
In this end-of-year conversation, Chloe and Dagmar reflect on growth, self-trust, and why presence is the real power move as we step into a new season of life.

This episode is a reminder that nothing is missing—and you don’t need to run after what’s meant to meet you.

Topics We Cover:

• The emotional cost of chasing approval
• Why women over 40 are done proving themselves
• The difference between chasing and seeking
• Friendships, boundaries, and self-respect
• Dating, dynamics, and self-worth
• Stress, health, and listening to your body
• Letting go of urgency and pressure
• What really matters as we enter a new year

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why chasing creates burnout and resentment
• How presence changes everything
• The freedom of self-responsibility
• A powerful end-of-year mindset shift

Timestamps & Chapters

00:00 Intro
03:08 The art of not chasing
06:00 Chasing approval & trends
11:45 Seeking vs. chasing
15:06 A health wake-up moment
18:00 Self-responsibility & relationships
26:00 Redefining family and care
31:00 Dating, effort, and self-worth
33:00 2026 intentions
34:25 Closing reflections

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So many women over 40 carry the invisible burden of fixing everyone else — partners, friends, family, even strangers. But what if peace begins when you finally stop?

In this heartfelt ProblemSolvHer podcast holiday-season conversation, Chloe and Dagmar unpack why women become fixers, how it drains our energy, and what it really looks like to choose yourself without guilt.

Topics we cover:
• Why women become emotional fixers
• The hidden cost of over-giving
• How fixing others avoids facing ourselves
• Emotional boundaries during the holidays
• When helping turns into self-neglect
• Letting go of one-sided relationships
• Active listening vs. fixing
• Releasing guilt and perfectionism
• Choosing peace over approval

In this episode, you’ll hear:
• Why fixing people doesn’t work
• How to ask better questions instead of giving advice
• What to release before the new year
• How to protect your emotional energy
• Why inner peace is an inside job

Timestamps & Chapters

00:00 – Holiday reflections & setting the tone
03:41 – Why women become fixers
05:27 – Childhood conditioning & perfectionism
10:54 – Releasing what no longer serves you
12:40 – How to stop fixing without guilt
14:14 – Emotional energy & boundaries
18:39 – Choosing peace over engagement
22:18 – One-sided relationships & burnout
24:37 – When others try to fix you
27:45 – Quality over quantity in relationships
30:20 – Inner peace & final reflections

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Dating today feels harder than it ever used to be—especially for women over 40. Between apps, mixed signals, and emotional baggage, it’s easy to feel exhausted before you even begin.

In this ProblemSolvHer podcast episode, Chloe and Dagmar have an honest, grounded conversation about modern dating, emotional readiness, red flags, love languages, and why slowing down may be the most powerful dating strategy there is.

Topics We Cover:

• Why dating today feels more complicated than 20 years ago
• The emotional cost of dating apps and endless options
• Red flags hidden in dating profiles
• Emotional readiness and energetic alignment
• Letting go of past relationships before starting new ones
• Attachment styles and pacing yourself
• Why love languages matter more than chemistry
• Family dynamics and long-term compatibility

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why men sense emotional availability before approaching
• How unresolved baggage attracts the wrong partners
• The danger of ignoring early warning signs
• Why asking direct questions early saves years of pain
• How slowing down protects your heart

Timestamps & Chapters

00:00 Intro
02:10 Dating then vs. now
05:20 Releasing past relationships
07:45 Emotional availability & attraction
10:30 Red flags in online dating profiles
13:00 Taking your time & pacing yourself
16:00 When people finally show who they are
19:00 Love languages & unmet needs
22:20 Final thoughts & holiday reflection

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What actually works for skin and hair care for women over 40—without spending a fortune? Chloe and Dagmar share the simple, realistic routines they’ve tested (and the “old school” rituals they still swear by). From zinc and oils to hydration and food choices, this ProblemSolvHer Podcast episode is about getting results that feel doable in real life.

Topics We Cover:

• Why “expensive” isn’t always “better”
• Starting skincare early (and what to do if you didn’t)
• Reading ingredients and avoiding irritants
• Weleda and natural skincare approaches
• Oils for face, décolleté, and shoulders
• Shine Skincare (Etsy) and what Dagmar uses
• Zinc for sun protection + don’t forget the décolleté
• Black castor oil for edges, lashes, brows, nails
• Hydration habits (water + hot lemon water)
• Beauty from within: teas, juices, minerals, healthy fats

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• What Chloe wishes she’d done in her 20s about sun care
• Dagmar’s approach to testing oils for quality
• How they use black castor oil (and where not to put it)
• The inside-out habits that support skin, hair, and nails

Timestamps & Chapters
00:05 Welcome + what we’re talking about
00:57 The “stop overspending” skincare convo
02:21 Starting early, Weleda, and ingredient awareness
04:48 Shine Skincare find + results Dagmar noticed
06:59 Hats, sun, and why zinc matters
07:57 Black castor oil placements + water/lemon habit
09:37 Teas, beet juice, celery juice, minerals
11:40 Hair oil blend + scalp massage routine
13:48 Note for blondes: research which oils work for you
16:44 Beauty-from-within foods that support skin and hair
17:24 Holiday grace + digestion timing tip
19:20 Closing + happy holidays

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