Dating today feels harder than it ever used to be—especially for women over 40. Between apps, mixed signals, and emotional baggage, it’s easy to feel exhausted before you even begin.

In this ProblemSolvHer podcast episode, Chloe and Dagmar have an honest, grounded conversation about modern dating, emotional readiness, red flags, love languages, and why slowing down may be the most powerful dating strategy there is.

Topics We Cover:

• Why dating today feels more complicated than 20 years ago
• The emotional cost of dating apps and endless options
• Red flags hidden in dating profiles
• Emotional readiness and energetic alignment
• Letting go of past relationships before starting new ones
• Attachment styles and pacing yourself
• Why love languages matter more than chemistry
• Family dynamics and long-term compatibility

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why men sense emotional availability before approaching
• How unresolved baggage attracts the wrong partners
• The danger of ignoring early warning signs
• Why asking direct questions early saves years of pain
• How slowing down protects your heart

Timestamps & Chapters

00:00 Intro
02:10 Dating then vs. now
05:20 Releasing past relationships
07:45 Emotional availability & attraction
10:30 Red flags in online dating profiles
13:00 Taking your time & pacing yourself
16:00 When people finally show who they are
19:00 Love languages & unmet needs
22:20 Final thoughts & holiday reflection

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Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It reflects personal experiences and opinions, and is not intended as medical, mental health, legal, or financial advice. Please consult a licensed professional for advice specific to your circumstances.

🔎 Resources

✨ Create meaning & monetize your purpose.

🌸 Reinvent yourself & own your voice.

🌺 The Reinvention Blueprint
“How did I get here — and what’s next?” this ProblemSolvHer mini-guide was made for you.

Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It reflects personal experiences and opinions, and is not intended as medical, mental health, legal, or financial advice. Please consult a licensed professional for advice specific to your circumstances.

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