What if peace comes when you stop chasing—approval, people, trends, or timelines?
In this end-of-year conversation, Chloe and Dagmar reflect on growth, self-trust, and why presence is the real power move as we step into a new season of life.

This episode is a reminder that nothing is missing—and you don’t need to run after what’s meant to meet you.

Topics We Cover:

• The emotional cost of chasing approval
• Why women over 40 are done proving themselves
• The difference between chasing and seeking
• Friendships, boundaries, and self-respect
• Dating, dynamics, and self-worth
• Stress, health, and listening to your body
• Letting go of urgency and pressure
• What really matters as we enter a new year

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why chasing creates burnout and resentment
• How presence changes everything
• The freedom of self-responsibility
• A powerful end-of-year mindset shift

Timestamps & Chapters

00:00 Intro
03:08 The art of not chasing
06:00 Chasing approval & trends
11:45 Seeking vs. chasing
15:06 A health wake-up moment
18:00 Self-responsibility & relationships
26:00 Redefining family and care
31:00 Dating, effort, and self-worth
33:00 2026 intentions
34:25 Closing reflections

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