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You’re not “an irritable person.”

If you’ve been snapping, withdrawing, or feeling emotionally tight, there’s usually a deeper reason: your system is keeping score.

In this episode, we talk about the kind of irritation women experience when they’ve been carrying too much for too long, and why “just communicate better” often doesn’t fix it.

You’ll learn:

· Why irritation is often a cover emotion for resentment

· The 3 ways resentment disguises itself

· A simple tool to translate irritation into one clean boundary

· A micro-action you can take today to reduce emotional load

Next step: Take the Burnout Assessment here to pinpoint where you’re overgiving and what needs to change.

If this episode resonated with you, don’t rush past it.

This podcast is part of a deeper body of work supporting women who are capable, accomplished, and emotionally exhausted from overgiving.

If you’d like to explore what this work looks like in a more personal way, you’ll find the next step below.

Take the Burnout Assessment here.

Learn more about my book Claws Out, Thriving in a World That Wants You Tamed on this link.

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The 5 Seconds That Decide Your Whole Day

Those five seconds, when you say “sure,” smile, or say “it’s fine,” can set your emotional baseline for the entire day.

In this episode, I cover 6 emotional signs you may be paying for those moments:
low-grade dread, irritability, numbness, feeling emotionally responsible for everyone, resentment (and guilt), and rumination/quiet loneliness.

You’ll also learn a simple 5-second reset to stop the emotional hangover and respond with self-trust rather than reflexively.

Next step: If you want support to rewire this in one real situation, book a 70-minute Reset Session on this link. We’ll pinpoint the exact moment you override yourself and build one clear response you can hold without guilt or overexplaining.

If this episode resonated with you, don’t rush past it.

This podcast is part of a deeper body of work supporting women who are capable, accomplished, and emotionally exhausted from overgiving.

If you’d like to explore what this work looks like in a more personal way, you’ll find the next step below.

Take the Burnout Assessment here.

Learn more about my book Claws Out, Thriving in a World That Wants You Tamed on this link.

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There’s a specific kind of silence that high-achieving women master.

Not the “I have nothing to say” silence, the strategic silence. The polished one. The one that keeps things smooth.

Because somewhere along the way, you learned that being fully expressed comes with a risk: misunderstood, judged, rejected, or labeled “too much.”

In this episode, we’re naming the pattern behind self-silencing:
how capable women start editing their emotions, minimizing their needs, and softening their truth until they can’t feel themselves clearly anymore.

You’ll hear:

• Why “too much” is often a signal of someone else’s limited capacity—not your flaw
• The subtle ways self-silencing shows up (even when your life looks successful)
• What it creates over time: resentment, distance, numbness, and the feeling of carrying love alone
• A simple practice to stop over-explaining and start speaking with clean clarity: The One-Sentence Truth

If this hit close to home, don’t rush past it.

Next step: Take the Burnout Assessment linked in the show notes. It will show you exactly where you’re leaking yourself, and what needs to shift first.

If this episode resonated with you, don’t rush past it.

This podcast is part of a deeper body of work supporting women who are capable, accomplished, and emotionally exhausted from overgiving.

If you’d like to explore what this work looks like in a more personal way, you’ll find the next step below.

Take the Burnout Assessment here.

Learn more about my book Claws Out, Thriving in a World That Wants You Tamed on this link.