Sound Bites

"I was probably spending £400 a month on wine from the wine club."

"Alcohol is readily accessible, isn't it? We all use it to self-medicate don't we?"

"Alcohol is a toxic substance, it's actually carcinogenic."

Keywords

autism, coping mechanism, education, drinking habits, root causes, mindset, faith, alternatives to alcohol, support, sobriety

Summary

In this conversation, Carol shares her personal journey with alcohol and how it was influenced by her son's autism diagnosis.

She discusses how she used alcohol as a coping mechanism and the challenges she faced in her son's education.

Carol emphasizes the importance of understanding the reasons behind our drinking habits and the need to address the root causes.

She also highlights the power of mindset and the role of faith in overcoming habitual habits & behaviours.

Carol provides practical tips for finding alternatives to alcohol and seeking support on the journey to moderation or taking a break from drinking.

Takeaways

Using alcohol as a coping mechanism for stress and challenges can lead to a slippery slope of relying on alcohol.

Understanding the root causes of our drinking habits is crucial for long-term change.

Mindset work and addressing the emotional reasons behind drinking are essential for breaking free from our habitual drinking habits.

Finding alternatives to alcohol and seeking support from coaches or communities can aid in the journey to controlling your drinking.

Leaning on faith and drawing strength from God can provide comfort and guidance in difficult times.

LINKS FROM THE EPISODE

William Porter’s website with links for his books.

Alcohol Explained – The definitive, groundbreaking guide to alcohol, alcoholism and addiction

Rick Warren devotional: Daily Hope with Rick Warren - Devotional - Pastor Rick's Daily Hope

Rick Warren Daily Hope App: Pastor Rick's Daily Hope – Apps on Google Play

Rick Warren Book The Purpose Driven Life: https://amzn.eu/d/0NEgkMc

⁠I offer a £99 Exploratory Call to anyone who would like to make changes around their drinking patterns & behaviours.

This is a call where we look at your habits & challenges around your drinking & you leave the call with a plan and a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or techniques to make the changes you need.

Please follow the link below for further information. ⁠https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠

Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode.

Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠

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Summary

In part 2 of this episode, Carol discusses the Christian perspective on changing behaviour and overcoming habitual drinking.

She emphasizes the importance of addressing the root of the problem rather than focusing on behaviour modification.

Carol uses the analogy of removing the roots of a passionflower to illustrate the need for deep change.

She highlights the role of belief systems and neural pathways in forming habits and suggests that spiritual transformation can lead to lasting change.

Carol also encourages listeners to draw strength from the Holy Spirit and seek support from other Christians.

She concludes with a prayer for victory over habitual habits.

Takeaways

Changing behaviour requires addressing the root of the problem, not just modifying behaviour.

Belief systems and neural pathways play a significant role in forming habits.

Spiritual transformation can lead to lasting change.

Drawing strength from the Holy Spirit and seeking support from other Christians is essential in overcoming habitual drinking.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Recap

01:23 The Difficulty of Changing Behaviour

04:27 Changing Neural Pathways

06:01 Spiritual Transformation

07:12 Drawing Strength from the Holy Spirit

08:15 Defining and Breaking Habits

10:04 Identifying Triggers

11:22 Seeking Support from Other Christians

13:05 Alcohol as a False God

14:37 Taking Control and Seeking God's Help

16:20 God's Power Over Habits

Here is the link to Craig Groeschel talking about bad habits: https://youtu.be/kVobe_Qz7Cw

I offer a £99 Exploratory Call to anyone who would like to make changes around their drinking patterns & behaviours. As it’s my second business anniversary I am offering 50% off my Exploratory Calls in March so check out the link to get booked in!⁠

This is a call where we look at your habits & you leave the call with a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or techniques to make the changes you are finding a challenge.

Please follow the link below for further information. ⁠https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠

Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode.

Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠

Follow me on socials here:

Website - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Warrior Mum Coaching Main Page⁠

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PLEASE NOTE MY CHRISTIAN TAKE ON THIS EPISODE WILL BE DELIVERED IN PART 2. (A SEPERATE RECORDING) PLEASE CHECK BACK SOON TO LISTEN IN. 🙏

Summary

In this conversation, Carol discusses various topics related to mindset and behavioural change.

She provides a personal update and shares her son's assessment and university plans.

Carol emphasizes the importance of getting out and socializing, especially for young people.

She then delves into the power of mindset and the need to change our thinking at its root cause.

She discusses the influence of perspective, self-talk, and negative thinking on her first marriage and mental health.

Carol also highlights the impact of thoughts on physical well-being and the misconceptions surrounding alcohol's effects.

She concludes by offering solutions and strategies for changing mindset and taking control.

Takeaways

Getting out and socializing is important for mental well-being, especially for young people.

Changing behaviour isn't the answer it requires addressing the root cause and mindset.

Negative thinking and self-talk can have a significant impact on relationships and mental health.

Positive thinking and belief systems can lead to positive changes in our drinking patterns and our well-being.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Update

02:27 Son's Assessment and University Plans

03:54 The Importance of Getting Out and Socializing

04:24 Focus on Mindset and Changing Behaviour

08:13 The Power of Mindset and Thoughts

09:41 The Influence of Perspective and Self-Talk

11:43 Negative Thinking and Its Impact on Relationships

14:07 Negative Self-Talk and Depression

21:55 The Power of Positive Thinking

23:07 The Misconception of Alcohol's Effects

27:02 The Importance of Self-Talk and Belief Systems

29:51 Changing Mindset and Taking Control

30:48 Digging Deeper to Address Root Causes

33:19 Offering Solutions and Strategies

34:19 The Power of the Mind to Physically Change the Body

I offer a £99 Exploratory Call to anyone who would like to make changes around their drinking patterns & behaviours. As it’s my second business anniversary I am offering 50% off my Exploratory Calls in March so check out the link to get booked in!

This is a call where we look at your habits & you leave the call with a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or techniques to make the changes you are finding a challenge.

Please follow the link below for further information. ⁠https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠

Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode.

Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠

Follow me on socials here:

Website - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Warrior Mum Coaching Main Page⁠

Instagram – ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching⁠

Facebook - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching⁠

LinkedIn - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach⁠

Summary

Tracy shares her journey of growing up with alcohol in the family and the embarrassment she felt as a child.

She discusses her own drinking habits, starting with cider at parties and later binge drinking in her 30s.

Tracy explains how the decision to stop drinking was influenced by her desire to have a different experience for her own child.

She talks about the challenges of peer pressure and the reactions she received from friends and family when she stopped drinking.

Tracy also discusses the changing attitudes towards non-alcoholic drinks and the importance of finding alternatives in social settings.

In this conversation, Tracy and Carol discuss their experiences with alcohol and the benefits of quitting drinking.

They talk about the peer pressure and social acceptance of alcohol, as well as the challenges of changing drinking habits.

Tracy shares how quitting alcohol has improved her sleep, weight, and overall well-being.

They also discuss the impact of alcohol on relationships and the importance of having a supportive circle of friends.

Tracy speaks about her business, which supports people with dementia, inspired by her mother's diagnosis and sad passing.

Overall, the conversation highlights the personal and societal effects of alcohol and the positive changes that can come from quitting.

Takeaways

Growing up with alcohol in the family can have a lasting impact on a person's relationship with alcohol.

Peer pressure can be a significant factor in drinking habits, but it is possible to resist and make different choices.

Changing attitudes towards non-alcoholic drinks are making it easier for people to socialize without alcohol.

Stopping drinking can lead to positive changes in relationships and personal well-being. Quitting alcohol can lead to improved sleep, weight loss, and a clear head.

Changing drinking habits can be challenging, especially when faced with peer pressure and social acceptance of alcohol.

Having a supportive circle of friends and changing friendship groups can make quitting alcohol easier.

Alcohol can have a negative impact on relationships, and quitting can lead to improved partnerships.

Educating yourself about the dangers of alcohol and giving people a choice can help promote healthier habits.

You can find Tracey here at Creative Energy Studios.

It's my second business birthday I am offering 50% off my Exploratory Calls in March (normally £99). Check out the link to get booked in!

This is a one off call where we look at your habits & you leave the call with a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or solutions to make the changes you are finding a challenge.

Please follow the link below for further information. ⁠https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠

Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode.

Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠

Follow me on socials here:

Website - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Warrior Mum Coaching Main Page⁠

Instagram – ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching⁠

Facebook - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching⁠

LinkedIn - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach⁠

Summary

In this conversation, Carol discusses the power of mindset and how it affects our behaviour, specifically in relation to our drinking habits.

She emphasizes the importance of being aware of our thoughts and the influence they have on our feelings and actions.

Carol shares her personal experience of how negative thoughts can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as drinking.

She encourages listeners to challenge their thoughts and make intentional choices to change their behaviour.

(Carol covers a short spiritual section at the end of her show for the Christian women that follow her).

Takeaways

Our thoughts have a significant impact on our behaviour and choices.

Negative thoughts can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as drinking.

By challenging our thoughts and making intentional choices, we can change our behaviour.

Renewing the mind through spirituality can provide strength and guidance in overcoming challenges.

Chapters

00:00 The Power of Mindset

02:10 Negative Thoughts and Behaviour

04:06 Thoughts, Feelings, and Actions

05:06 The Choice to Change

07:55 Influences on Thoughts

09:24 Challenges and Choices

10:22 Being Intentional with Attention

11:41 Making Choices a Practice

12:37 Changing Behaviour through Thoughts

13:58 Understanding Cravings

15:20 Controlling Thoughts and Choices

16:17 Renewing the Mind

I offer a £99 Exploratory Call to anyone (Christian or not) who would like to make changes around their drinking patterns & behaviours.

This is a one off call where we look at your habits & you leave the call with a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or techniques to make the changes you are finding a challenge.

PLEASE NOTE AS PART OF MY BUSINESS BIRTHDAY CELEBRATIONS ALL EXPLORATORY CALLS ARE HALF PRICE FOR THE MONTH OF MARCH. ONLY £49.50.

Please follow the link below for further information. ⁠https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall⁠

Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode.

Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠

Follow me on socials here:

Website - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Warrior Mum Coaching Main Page⁠

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Facebook - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching⁠

LinkedIn - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach⁠

Summary

In this episode, Carol discusses confirmation bias and its impact on our beliefs about alcohol.

She starts by sharing her recent experiences and introduces the concept of confirmation bias.

Carol explains how confirmation bias influences our decision-making and provides examples related to beliefs about red wine and alcohol's effects on sleep.

She also discusses the role of critical thinking and adjusting beliefs based on new information.

This is the first episode where Carol starts to share her Christian perspective and offers scripture and prayer for Christian women struggling with drinking habits.

She encourages listeners to explore alternative ideas about alcohol and seek support in their journey.

Takeaways

Confirmation bias is the tendency to seek out and interpret information that confirms our existing beliefs.

Confirmation bias can influence our decision-making and hinder critical thinking.

It is important to be open to adjusting our beliefs based on new information and to consider alternative perspectives.

For Christian women, seeking guidance from scripture and prayer can provide strength and support in overcoming drinking habits.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Recap

01:29 Introduction to Confirmation Bias

04:23 Confirmation Bias in Research

05:54 Confirmation Bias and Beliefs about Alcohol and Sleep

07:24 Confirmation Bias and Justifying Drinking

10:39 Critical Thinking and Adjusting Beliefs

13:01 Confirmation Bias and Questioning Drinking Habits

15:48 Christian Perspective on Confirmation Bias

16:04 Scripture and Prayer for Christian Women

26:05 Conclusion and Call to Action

I offer a £99 Exploratory Call to anyone who would like to make changes around their drinking patterns & behaviours.

This is a one off call where we look at your habits & you leave the call with a minimum of 3 tips/strategies or techniques to make the changes you are finding a challenge.

Please follow the link below for further information. https://warriormum.kartra.com/page/ExploratoryCall

Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode.

Want to get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠

Follow me on socials here:

Website - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Warrior Mum Coaching Main Page⁠

Instagram – ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.instagram.com/warriormumcoaching⁠

Facebook - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.facebook.com/warriormumcoaching⁠

LinkedIn - ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/carol-urry-alcohol-free-coach⁠

Summary

In this conversation, Carol discusses the changes she has made to her coaching practice, specifically focusing on her Christian faith.

She shares her personal journey with Christianity and how it has influenced her coaching approach.

Carol emphasizes the importance of faith and spirituality in coaching and how it can provide an extra dimension for clients.

She clarifies that while her coaching is tailored for Christian women, her Exploratory Call is open to all women with or without a belief.

Carol also mentions her intention to include scripture and prayer at the end of her podcast episodes.

Takeaways

Faith and spirituality can play a significant role in coaching, providing an extra dimension for clients.

Coaching specifically for Christian women allows for the incorporation of scripture and prayer in the coaching process.

Carol Exploratory Call is unchanged and open to all women not just Christian women.

Carol plans to include scripture and a short prayer at the end of her podcast episodes for those interested in the spiritual aspect.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:23 The Importance of Faith

06:14 Coaching for Christian Women

09:08 Exploratory Call for All Women

11:03 Incorporating Scripture and Prayer

12:30 Conclusion and Call to Action

Please do leave me a review if you have enjoyed the episode.

Want get in touch? Email ⁠⁠carol@kicking-habits.com⁠⁠

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