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This conversation explores a toxic relationship where the person involved was dating someone twice their age. The relationship began a few years ago and ended recently, leading to a healing journey. The couple was introduced by a mutual friend who had a connection to the person's ex. The relationship started with a strong connection and deep conversations, but soon turned toxic. The partner exhibited controlling behavior, constantly blowing up the person's phone and isolating them from friends. They would manipulate and gaslight the person, using tactics like pretending to be suicidal to keep them in the relationship. The conversation also touches on the role of a toxic friend who had feelings for the person and manipulated the situation. The relationship eventually led to the person's partner being charged with domestic violence and stalking, resulting in their imprisonment. Lauren shares her experiences of emotional, psychological, and physical abuse in her relationship.

Takeaways

Toxic relationships can occur regardless of age or gender
Controlling behavior, manipulation, and gaslighting are common signs of a toxic relationship
Isolation from friends and loved ones is a red flag in a relationship
Pretending to be suicidal is a manipulative tactic used to keep someone in a toxic relationship
Toxic friendships can also contribute to a person's vulnerability in a toxic relationship
Manipulative partners may use tactics such as gaslighting, isolation, and control to maintain power and control over their victims.
Recognize that even small forms of abuse are significant and should not be dismissed or minimized.
Seeking support from trusted friends, family, or professionals can be crucial in leaving an abusive relationship and healing from the trauma.

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