We were raised strict but with our own kids, we are parenting differently.

Today, 98% of millennial parents now talk to their kids about mental health, compared to just a fraction of their own parents. In this episode, We get into what it actually looks like raising black children in America as millennial West African women.

We discussed the difficulties we experienced in talking to kids about race and how our upbringing influences our parenting philosophies; From liberating ways to encourage confidence and open dialogue, to breaking free from fears we inherited. We also delve deeper into what gentle parenting is; why it’s hard and if we are for it or not.

This one is for every mom in diaspora, who’s figuring it out in real time, without a village, without a manual, and without anyone who truly gets the specific thing you're navigating.

We still don't have all the answers. In fact, we want yours. If you've raised older kids in the diaspora, we need your advice. Drop it in the comments.

#GentleParenting #BlackParenting #parentingpodcast

56% of adults in the US have no estate planning documents whatsoever. If that's you, this episode is the push you've been waiting for.

In this eye-opening episode, We dive into the emotional and practical sides of estate planning, revealing why so many avoid it and how to start the process without feeling overwhelmed. This episode isn’t just for the wealthy, it’s for anyone who cares about their family’s future. If avoiding this conversation has left you feeling overwhelmed, this episode offers clarity and actionable tips to get started today.

Whether you're just starting out or updating your plan, these insights will help you make empowered decisions and avoid costly mistakes.

This is the episode for every adult who knows they should have a will and keeps finding reasons not to.

Tune in now for the simplest steps to start protecting what matters most.

*Note: This is not legal advice. Please consult a licensed estate planning attorney.*

#estateplanning #will #guardianship #WillAndTrust #EstateplanningTips #ProtectYourFamily #WillPlanning

Many women are now earning more than ever, and this is causing a shift in traditional marriage roles. Even while this is happening, so many couples still hold on to old expectations.

What happens when the breadwinner is the woman? And how do stay-at-home dads challenge the norms?

In this episode, We have an honest conversation about these dynamics in households, and how they are reshaping marriages today.

We delve deeper into decades-old stereotypes around gender, money, and power in marriage. From eye-opening data: 16% of US marriages now have women as the primary breadwinners, and stay-at-home dads are on the rise. We share personal stories, cultural expectations, and practical advice on how couples can adapt, communicate, and thrive in the evolving relationship landscape.

This episode emphasizes the opportunities this new dynamic opens, and the pitfalls to avoid. Whether you’re single and planning or married and want to lead a healthier, more flexible partnership, you’ll walk away with actionable insights and fresh perspectives.

Are you ready to redefine what marriage means in your life?

#ModernMarriage #BreadwinnerWife #StayAtHomeDad

Most of us get stuck in feeling like changing our minds is a failure but what if it’s actually a sign of growth?

In this episode, We explore why changing your mind isn’t weakness, but rather a powerful indicator that you’re learning, growing, and refining your understanding of what’s right for you. We explore the delicate balance of making bold decisions in marriage, navigating fears, and respecting the impact on loved ones.

This episode is perfect if you’re at a crossroads: considering a career pivot, rethinking family plans, or simply wondering if you’ve lost your way. Whether you're a high-achiever or someone grappling with societal expectations, you'll leave motivated to see change as a sign of your resilience.

It’s time to challenge the narrative around failure and discover how your evolving mind can lead to your most authentic life. Tune in and start seeing change as a stepping stone, not a setback.

85% of working mothers left full-time employment within 3 years of having a baby — even though 98% of them said they wanted to go back. This is mostly Because the practical realities of motherhood from child care costs to work flexibility and societal expectations often make fulfilling career ambitions feel impossible.

In this eye-opening episode, we explore how organizations unintentionally sideline moms through inflexible policies, and how the absence of community and support can derail both career progress and personal well-being.

We also break down practical strategies for navigating the balancing act; from negotiating your return after maternity leave, to re-strategizing for promotions, and planning your career in seasons rather than all at once.

This episode is important because the current system often overlooks the real costs of motherhood. From sleep deprivation, career gaps, societal judgments, and the financial burden of support. It is Perfect for working moms, aspiring parents, HR professionals, and anyone committed to reshaping the narrative around women, work, and family. If you’ve ever wondered how to thrive in your career while raising children or want to support someone on that journey, this episode will equip you with the mindset and tools to do just that.

More women are realizing the power of financial protection before marriage and demanding prenups.

Simone and Doyin discuss the purpose of prenups, how they impact trust, and why more women are asking their partners to sign them even in cultures where the idea still feels taboo. We discuss how modern women are reshaping the story around marriage and money.

This episode is perfect for women in their 30s who are reevaluating what financial security means for their future. If you're ready to challenge old perceptions, educate yourself on navigating money conversations, or simply want to understand how to safeguard your assets without sacrificing love, this is your must-listen episode. Hit play now.

Most of us are caught in the quiet storm of unmet expectations, making us feel like we're falling short despite all our efforts. If you're grappling with where you thought you'd be by now, this episode is your wake-up call.

In this episode, Doyin and Simone get honest about one of the most common but least talked about feelings among women in their 30s.

They uncover startling research showing only 25% of women hit all four traditional milestones (career, marriage, home, children) while exploring why societal pressures often shape our self-worth more than our personal goals.

In this episode, you'll discover how to identify whether these expectations are self-imposed or inherited, and how to reframe them to fit your unique journey. Whether you're frustrated about career stagnation, timing around family, or simply feeling behind with honest insights and practical advice show you how to manage these feelings without guilt.

Most people secretly struggle with discussing their income, yet they also miss out on valuable insights from friends who understand their financial realities. What if honesty about money could unlock better opportunities, deeper trust, and smarter decisions without judgment or shame?

In this eye-opening episode, Simone and Doyin share personal stories, from Nigeria and Cameroon to the US, revealing why conversations about earnings are often viewed as taboo and how that costs us opportunities and growth.

Don't let silence keep you from the opportunities and relationships you deserve. Hit play and start transforming your financial conversations today.