(www.welcomed.com) Dan is a single guy who has many women in his life. They talk to him, tell him what they want and some want to have sensual experiences with him. As he learned the technique of DOing and about Deliberate Orgasm, his skills with women got sharper. In this interview he candidly describes key points to answer the age-old question-- What does a woman want in a man?

"Through thinking about it and me deliberately doing it. I did have performance anxiety at first. I didn’t think that I was going to be bad at DOing. The truth is I had these tools. I knew that that was going to go well and I also knew that no matter how badly I performed, my finger was going to touch her clit. She was going to feel good."

"Fixing her has been a huge thing that I have been flashing about in my mind since the Common Sensuality course. Don’t fix her. She doesn’t need fixing. A woman doesn’t need fixing and that is huge. That has become my personal internal credo, and then do whatever it is that I am going to do or then I approve. That’s the first thing that I think of. It’s working well for me. It is a viewpoint that I am being deliberate about now and I am looking forward to making it a part of who I am."

Online access to educational DOing videos and the entire transcript for this episode are available at the The Welcomed Consensus Podcast

(www.welcomed.com) Sensual researcher, Elle, gives us a candid account of exactly what inspired her to make an advanced female masturbation video. She describes how she masturbates, the specifics of doing an exercise called connections to create a full body orgasm and how it adds to her sex life with her partner.

“I love connections because it makes other sex acts even more sensitive and more sensual. I love it when I kiss somebody and I can feel that sensation, a direct connection to my clitoris…” ~Elle

Watch this educational video Connections for Full Body Orgasm online.

The entire transcript for this episode and online access to the educational video is available at the The Welcomed Consensus Podcast

(www.welcomed.com) Deborah talks of finding love with a partner who has sensual training. She expresses that DOing has added to her sex life. It makes sexuality an integrated part of love and their relationship. She has this wonderful sensual energy and connection with her partner throughout the day with DOing.

Here are some excerpts...

Deborah: One of the first concepts that stood out for me is about seduction because it has to do with me allowing the man to put all of his attention on me. It’s actually something that is a very new concept. But as soon as it started happening, I felt with my partner, because he has had a lot of training in this work, I felt like it was this thing that I’ve always wanted. It felt so right and yet very different from how I’ve been living my life and how I’ve been looking for a partner. So that whole way of putting the attention on the woman in order for both people to find happiness or to find pleasure is extraordinary and I think revolutionary.

Deborah: So what I mean when I say that my partner has training is that he’s gone through years of courses with The Welcomed Consensus and also living in the community. So that means that he is trained to give Deliberate Orgasm and also trained in a high level of interpersonal communication skills. He has a vision for how he wants to live his life that’s very specific and chosen and that is very rare for anybody.  Specifically, I think for me, and if more men would do it, they’d find more women that really wanted to be with them. So I feel really lucky that I found one.

The entire transcript for this episode is available at the Welcomed Consensus website www.welcomed.com/podcasts/