Episodi

  • S3 Ep.4: Vulnerability in Men ft. Michael Sonariwo

    S3 Ep.4: Vulnerability in Men ft. Michael Sonariwo
    Jun 19 2026

    In this episode, we’re joined by Content Creator and Media Entrepreneur Michael Sonariwo for an honest conversation on vulnerability and modern masculinity. We explore the pressures men face today, the hidden costs of avoiding emotional openness, and how fear, shame, and perfectionism can shape their experiences.

    Michael shares his personal journey, including his recent experience of therapy, and what it’s teaching him about strength, relationships, and self-awareness. This episode offers a powerful perspective on redefining masculinity and creating space for men to show up more fully and authentically.


    Follow the guest on this episode

    Michael Sonariwo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sonariwoondeck/

    Michael Sonariwo on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sonariwoondeck





    Support the show

    Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola


    Follow DWHYA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dwhyapodcast/

    Follow DWHYA on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dwhyapodcast?_t=ZT-8vh1MWRkekg&_r=1.

    Follow Paula on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paula.b.martins/

    Follow Paula on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paula.b.martins?_t=ZT-8vNRscV0Hyo&_r=1

    Follow Aisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ab.popoola/

    Follow Aisha on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ab.popoola?_t=ZT-8vNRo99FZRW&_r=1
    Mostra di più Mostra meno
    1 ora e 18 min
  • S3 Ep.3: The Pressure to Appear Okay

    S3 Ep.3: The Pressure to Appear Okay
    Jun 5 2026

    In this episode, we explore the pressure to “appear okay” and the difference between performing wellness and genuinely feeling it. We discuss why it can feel safer to hide our true emotions, who benefits from this act, and who pays the emotional cost.

    We also examine how this connects to people-pleasing, when appearing okay can be protective, and when it becomes harmful. Listeners will gain insight into recognizing these patterns and what might shift if we allowed ourselves to be truly seen without explanation or justification.


    Support the show

    Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola


    Follow DWHYA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dwhyapodcast/

    Follow DWHYA on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dwhyapodcast?_t=ZT-8vh1MWRkekg&_r=1.

    Follow Paula on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paula.b.martins/

    Follow Paula on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paula.b.martins?_t=ZT-8vNRscV0Hyo&_r=1

    Follow Aisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ab.popoola/

    Follow Aisha on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ab.popoola?_t=ZT-8vNRo99FZRW&_r=1
    Mostra di più Mostra meno
    50 min
  • S3 Ep.2: The Act of People Pleasing

    S3 Ep.2: The Act of People Pleasing
    May 22 2026

    In this episode, we explore the deeper roots of people-pleasing—what it really is and how it differs from genuine kindness. We unpack where these patterns begin, what they were originally protecting us from, and the hidden costs that come with constantly putting others first.

    We also dive into the fears that keep people-pleasing in place, how it shows up in everyday moments, and what it takes to start unlearning it. This conversation offers a grounded, honest look at reclaiming your voice, your boundaries, and your sense of self.


    Support the show

    Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola


    Follow DWHYA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dwhyapodcast/

    Follow DWHYA on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dwhyapodcast?_t=ZT-8vh1MWRkekg&_r=1.

    Follow Paula on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paula.b.martins/

    Follow Paula on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paula.b.martins?_t=ZT-8vNRscV0Hyo&_r=1

    Follow Aisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ab.popoola/

    Follow Aisha on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ab.popoola?_t=ZT-8vNRo99FZRW&_r=1
    Mostra di più Mostra meno
    53 min
  • S3 Ep.1: Motherhood and Identity ft. Grace Johnson

    S3 Ep.1: Motherhood and Identity ft. Grace Johnson
    May 8 2026

    In this episode, we’re joined by Award-Winning Author and Podcast host Grace Johnson for a candid conversation on motherhood and identity. We explore the early shifts that come with becoming a mother, the tension between fulfillment and disorientation, and the quiet internal conflicts many women face.

    Grace shares insight on how cultural expectations shape identity, the pressure to make motherhood your main role, and how to stay connected to yourself through it all. Whether you’re a mother or navigating any major life transition, this episode offers a thoughtful perspective on evolving without losing who you are.


    Follow the guest on this episode

    Grace Johnson: https://www.thebinti.com/podcast

    Support the show

    Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola


    Follow DWHYA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dwhyapodcast/

    Follow DWHYA on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dwhyapodcast?_t=ZT-8vh1MWRkekg&_r=1.

    Follow Paula on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paula.b.martins/

    Follow Paula on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paula.b.martins?_t=ZT-8vNRscV0Hyo&_r=1

    Follow Aisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ab.popoola/

    Follow Aisha on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ab.popoola?_t=ZT-8vNRo99FZRW&_r=1
    Mostra di più Mostra meno
    1 ora e 4 min
  • S2 Ep 16: 2025 in Review + What Surprised Us This Year

    S2 Ep 16: 2025 in Review + What Surprised Us This Year
    Dec 19 2025

    We look back on the moments and trends that shaped 2025, highlighting what mattered most and what caught us completely off guard. From unexpected shifts to key lessons learned, this episode reflects on the year that was and what it may signal for what’s ahead.

    Support the show

    Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola


    Follow DWHYA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dwhyapodcast/

    Follow DWHYA on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dwhyapodcast?_t=ZT-8vh1MWRkekg&_r=1.

    Follow Paula on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paula.b.martins/

    Follow Paula on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paula.b.martins?_t=ZT-8vNRscV0Hyo&_r=1

    Follow Aisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ab.popoola/

    Follow Aisha on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ab.popoola?_t=ZT-8vNRo99FZRW&_r=1
    Mostra di più Mostra meno
    48 min
  • S2 Ep 15: Healthy Competition vs Envy vs Jealousy

    S2 Ep 15: Healthy Competition vs Envy vs Jealousy
    Dec 5 2025

    Is competition always healthy, or does it quietly create distance between us? Can envy fuel growth, or does it blur into jealousy and insecurity? In this episode, we unpack these powerful emotions and explore how they shape our relationships and, more importantly, our self-worth and personal growth.

    Support the show

    Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola


    Follow DWHYA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dwhyapodcast/

    Follow DWHYA on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dwhyapodcast?_t=ZT-8vh1MWRkekg&_r=1.

    Follow Paula on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paula.b.martins/

    Follow Paula on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paula.b.martins?_t=ZT-8vNRscV0Hyo&_r=1

    Follow Aisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ab.popoola/

    Follow Aisha on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ab.popoola?_t=ZT-8vNRo99FZRW&_r=1
    Mostra di più Mostra meno
    53 min
  • S2 Ep 14: Do Our Expectations Influence How We Perceive Outcomes?

    S2 Ep 14: Do Our Expectations Influence How We Perceive Outcomes?
    Nov 21 2025

    What exactly are expectations, and why do they hold so much power over how we experience life? In this episode, we explore the connection between our expectations and the way we perceive outcomes.

    We unpack the difference between healthy standards and rigid expectations, and discuss how shifting from a mindset of control to one of curiosity can transform the way we navigate challenges, relationships, and personal growth.

    This is a conversation about perspective, flexibility, and finding freedom in letting go of the outcome.

    Support the show

    Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola


    Follow DWHYA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dwhyapodcast/

    Follow DWHYA on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dwhyapodcast?_t=ZT-8vh1MWRkekg&_r=1.

    Follow Paula on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paula.b.martins/

    Follow Paula on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paula.b.martins?_t=ZT-8vNRscV0Hyo&_r=1

    Follow Aisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ab.popoola/

    Follow Aisha on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ab.popoola?_t=ZT-8vNRo99FZRW&_r=1
    Mostra di più Mostra meno
    48 min
  • S2 Ep 13: Sexual Trauma and Its Impact on Sexual Health in Relationships

    S2 Ep 13: Sexual Trauma and Its Impact on Sexual Health in Relationships
    Nov 7 2025

    Of all the topics we could explore, this one feels both necessary and overdue. Sexual trauma touches so many lives, directly or indirectly and it’s time we create space to talk about it with honesty and care.

    In this episode, we unpack what sexual trauma is, how it shapes our relationships, our sense of safety, intimacy, and sexual expression, and how healing practices can help survivors reclaim safety, connection, and even pleasure in their bodies.

    This is a conversation about awareness, compassion, and the possibility of healing.


    Support the show

    Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola


    Follow DWHYA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dwhyapodcast/

    Follow DWHYA on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dwhyapodcast?_t=ZT-8vh1MWRkekg&_r=1.

    Follow Paula on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paula.b.martins/

    Follow Paula on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paula.b.martins?_t=ZT-8vNRscV0Hyo&_r=1

    Follow Aisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ab.popoola/

    Follow Aisha on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ab.popoola?_t=ZT-8vNRo99FZRW&_r=1
    Mostra di più Mostra meno
    51 min