Welcome to another episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, where we dive deep into topics that help men over 40 navigate the aftermath of divorce. In this transformative episode, host David sits down with Joshua Rodriguez, founder of Foundations of the Liberated Man (FOTL), who is redefining what it means to be a man in today’s world.

Joshua shares his deeply personal journey of healing, growth, and unlearning toxic beliefs about masculinity. From growing up in the hyper-masculine culture of 1980s New York to using vulnerability as a tool for connection and empowerment, Joshua’s story is packed with eye-opening insights. 💡

Here’s what to expect in this episode:

✅ The role of vulnerability and community in healing after divorce.

✅ How toxic masculinity impacts relationships and personal growth.

✅ The importance of self-awareness, self-forgiveness, and self-worth in redefining life after divorce.

✅ Practical steps for men to build deeper, meaningful connections.

✅ Why faith, mentorship, and introspection are key to becoming your best self.

Joshua also explains how his work in creating safe spaces for men of all backgrounds—straight, gay, bi, trans, and queer—has helped redefine masculinity in today’s world. Through powerful storytelling, he reveals the common fears and challenges men face and how they can reclaim their power to lead fulfilling, purpose-driven lives.

🛑 Don’t let divorce define you. This episode is your guide to rediscovering your strength, purpose, and joy as a man.

Joshua's Website: https://fotlm.com/

💬 CALL TO ACTION:

What does masculinity mean to you? How do you practice self-forgiveness and growth in your life? Share your thoughts in the comments below! 👇 Let’s start the conversation.

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💔 Going through a divorce after 40? Wondering how your business factors into the settlement? In this episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, host David teams up with valuation expert Matt Springer to uncover the crucial role of business valuations in divorce proceedings. Whether you're a small business owner or the head of a larger operation, your business may be one of the most significant marital assets at stake.

Matt Springer, a seasoned business valuation expert with nearly 20 years of experience, explains the complexities of valuing businesses during divorce cases. From understanding fair market value to differentiating between enterprise goodwill and personal goodwill, this conversation breaks down everything you need to know to protect your wealth and avoid costly mistakes.

🚨 Key topics covered in this episode:

1️⃣ Why business valuation is often overlooked but critical in divorce cases.

2️⃣ How to distinguish between community property and separate property in business ownership.

3️⃣ The normalization process: How experts adjust financials to determine true business value.

4️⃣ Common misconceptions about business valuations in divorce.

5️⃣ The difference between fair market value and fair value—and why your state’s laws matter.

6️⃣ How to assess intangible assets like brand reputation and goodwill.

7️⃣ Why hiring the right valuation expert can make or break your case.

Matt also shares real-life stories from his career, offering a behind-the-scenes look at the challenges and surprises he’s encountered while navigating the world of valuation and litigation support. 🎙️

💡 Why this episode is a must-listen for men over 40:

Divorce can be emotionally and financially draining, but knowledge is power. By understanding how your business is evaluated, you can make informed decisions and avoid being blindsided during negotiations or litigation. This episode is packed with practical advice to help you safeguard your financial future.

🔥 Call to Action:

If you found this discussion helpful, let us know in the comments! What’s your biggest question about business valuations during divorce? Have you faced challenges with dividing assets in a divorce? Share your story below and let’s help each other navigate this difficult time. Don’t forget to like 👍, subscribe, and hit the notification bell 🔔 for more episodes on divorce recovery and financial empowerment for men over 40.

🎧 Listen to the full podcast now and take control of your financial future!

Matt Springer Contact Info...

https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewspringer/

https://litigationservices.visionpointcapital.com/

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💔 Rebuilding After Divorce: A Survival Guide for Men Over 40 💪

In this episode of the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast," host David sits down with Bill Simpson, a renowned relationship coach for men and host of the "Men on the Path to Love" podcast. Bill shares his incredible insights on helping men rebuild their lives after divorce by breaking free from unhealthy relationship patterns and regaining emotional confidence.

Having been through three divorces himself, Bill knows firsthand the struggles men face after a breakup. He shares his own journey of heartbreak, emotional healing, and eventual transformation into a thriving relationship. His story shows that recovery isn’t just about "moving on"—it’s about moving forward with clarity, purpose, and a new sense of self.

Key Takeaways from This Episode:

• 🛑 Break free from unhealthy relationship patterns by identifying the root causes of your behavior.
• 🧠 How emotional awareness can improve your relationships and prevent distance from your partner.
• 💡 Practical tools like mindfulness and Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT) to cultivate self-awareness and emotional confidence.
• 🤝 The importance of self-compassion and self-respect in rebuilding your identity after a breakup.
• 🚀 The difference between "moving on" and "moving forward"—and why one leads to lasting change while the other doesn’t.

Bill also emphasizes the importance of healing before jumping back into dating, sharing how taking time to process grief and pain can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships in the future. He offers practical tips on communication, emotional growth, and identifying what you truly want in a relationship.

🎙️ You’ll Learn:

• Why emotional confidence matters and how to cultivate it.
• How to confront feelings of failure and turn them into opportunities for growth.
• The #1 relationship skill most men overlook—and how it can transform your love life.

About Bill Simpson:

Bill is a relationship coach with over two decades of experience in helping men navigate the challenges of divorce recovery. Through his podcast, coaching, and free resources, he equips men with the skills they need to thrive in life and love.

🔥 Want more resources?

• Get Bill’s FREE guide: "5 Steps to Understanding Why Your Last Relationship Didn’t Work."
• Book a FREE Relationship Clarity Call with Bill at MenOnThePathToLove.com.

💬 Your Turn:

What’s been your biggest challenge after divorce? Comment below and let’s start a conversation! 👇 Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more episodes that help men over 40 thrive after divorce.

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Welcome to the "Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast," hosted by David!

In this episode, we dive into a powerful and deeply relatable topic for men over 40: recovering from divorce while navigating addiction. Joining us is the incredible Amber Hollingsworth, a renowned addiction recovery specialist and the creator of the popular YouTube channel, Put the Shovel Down. With over 20 years of experience, Amber has helped countless individuals overcome self-destructive behaviors, rebuild their lives, and create lasting change after setbacks.

💡 Key Topics Covered:

• The intersection of divorce and addiction recovery: Amber explains how emotional trauma, like divorce, can often lead to or exacerbate addictive behaviors.

• Breaking free from addiction: Learn why addiction is not a hopeless condition and how small, consistent steps can lead to big transformations.

• Co-parenting struggles after divorce: For men dealing with acrimonious relationships, Amber shares strategies for managing difficult dynamics, including when your ex uses your children as pawns.

• The science of addiction and recovery: Discover how addiction is more about psychological obsession than physical dependency—and how this insight can empower you to heal.

• Reframing relapse: Amber challenges the stigma surrounding relapse and reveals how it can be part of the recovery process.

Amber also shares practical tools for men over 40 to:

✔️ Recognize addictive behaviors early before they escalate

✔️ Manage emotional triggers like resentment and heartbreak

✔️ Handle co-parenting challenges with empathy and strategy

✔️ Rebuild their lives with confidence and purpose

💔 Divorce Recovery for Men Over 40

Divorce is a significant life change that often leaves men feeling lost, angry, or resentful—but it’s also a chance to rebuild. Amber’s approach combines empathy, science, and practical advice to help you take control of your life and avoid falling into destructive patterns. Whether you’re struggling with co-parenting, addiction, or finding your footing after a painful breakup, this episode is for you.

🔥 Key Takeaway: You don’t have to hit rock bottom to change your life. You just need to put the shovel down and stop digging.

💬 We’d love to hear from you!

• What’s been your biggest struggle post-divorce?

• Have you faced challenges with addiction or co-parenting?

Drop a comment below and share your experience. Let’s start a conversation that helps others in our community.

📲 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell icon to stay updated on future episodes of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast. For more incredible insights from Amber, check out her YouTube channel, Put the Shovel Down!

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Amber’s website - https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/

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Are you a man over 40 navigating the challenges of divorce? You're not alone. In this powerful episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, David sits down with Justin Thompson (Just J), a Fort Worth author, former church elder, and certified sex therapy practitioner who writes about grief, faith, and rebuilding after a loss.

Justin shares his unique perspective on masculinity, faith, and intentional living, offering practical advice for men who feel lost, broken, or unsure of how to move forward. From redefining your self-worth to embracing a new sense of purpose, this conversation dives deep into what it means to rebuild your life from the ground up.

💡 Key Highlights:

• Why "proving" yourself is less important than "improving" yourself

• How to redefine masculinity and live intentionally after a divorce

• The importance of addressing grief, not bypassing it

• Practical tips for co-parenting: "Love your kids more than you hate your ex"

• Finding stillness in the present and learning to build with purpose

Justin also discusses the concept of doing everything with intention ("Craft Everything, Rush Nothing") and how it can transform your life after divorce.

💬 Join the Conversation!

Have you gone through a divorce or are you navigating one now? What’s helped you rebuild? Drop your thoughts in the comments below and let’s support each other through this journey.

Justin's Website - https://mrgudwudz.com/

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💥 Welcome to the "Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast" with host David Webb! 💥 In this episode, we dive into the raw and relatable journey of Joe Mikitish—a powerhouse entrepreneur, mentor, and divorce survivor. If you're a man over 40 navigating the emotional and financial aftermath of divorce, this conversation is a must-watch.

🎙 Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

• Joe’s High-Conflict Divorce Story: How his 2012 divorce impacted his life and how he rebounded stronger.

• From Business Failures to Building Empires: Joe shares how he built 10 businesses, exited 6 successfully, and learned from the others.

• The Link Between Divorce & Business Stress: Why failing businesses and failing marriages often have similar root causes—and how to overcome them.

• Gratitude & Mindset Hacks: Joe’s proven methods, including starting a gratitude journal and focusing on small daily wins, to regain stability after life-altering events.

• Financial Freedom After 40: Learn how Joe transitioned to living entirely off passive income through dividend investing.

Joe also opens up about the importance of mentorship, community, and creating accountability-driven cultures in both personal and professional life. Whether you’re recovering from a divorce, trying to rebuild a business, or just looking for actionable strategies to create a more balanced life, this episode is packed with value.

💡 Key Takeaways for Men Over 40:

• How to bounce back from failure with resilience and purpose.

• The critical role of community in overcoming loneliness as a business owner.

• Practical steps to achieve financial independence and stability after divorce.

Joe’s story will inspire you to turn pain into power and use your experiences as a stepping stone to build a better future. His insights are perfect for men who want to reclaim their lives, rebuild their confidence, and design a life of freedom.

Blue Collar Connect - http://www.bluecollarconnect.com/
Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/joemikitish

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/josephmikitish/

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🎙️ Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast"! Hosted by David, this podcast is dedicated to helping men over 40 heal, rebuild, and thrive after divorce. In this powerful episode, we are joined by the inspiring Zulma Williams, a true warrior who overcame incredible challenges to live her best life. 🌟

Zulma’s story is one of resilience, courage, and transformation. Born in Buenos Aires, Argentina, she immigrated to the U.S. at 31, pursued her dreams against all odds, and overcame cancer, abusive relationships, and cultural stigmas. At 42, she earned her Bachelor’s degree, and by 50, she completed her Master’s in Social Work—all while battling life’s toughest obstacles.

Today, Zulma is the founder of Dragonfly Therapy Services, specializing in helping others conquer trauma, anxiety, and depression. In this episode, she shares:

✅ How to discover your inner warrior and rebuild after life's setbacks.

✅ Breaking free from toxic relationships and the power of self-love.

✅ Why vulnerability is strength, not weakness, especially for men over 40.

✅ Self-forgiveness and letting go of the past to embrace a brighter future.

✅ Practical tips to navigate co-parenting, emotional healing, and more.

Zulma’s mantra? 💬 "It’s never too late to become the person you were meant to be."

💡 Whether you're a divorced dad trying to connect with your kids, a man struggling with feelings of failure, or just someone looking for inspiration to take the next step in life—this episode is for YOU.

⚡ Key Takeaways for Men Over 40:

🔑 It’s okay to ask for help—therapy isn’t weakness, it’s wisdom.

🔑 Stop personalizing other people’s actions. You are not your ex’s reflection.

🔑 Embrace change, rediscover your passions, and reclaim your happiness.

🔥 Are you ready to start your journey of healing and growth? Drop your thoughts in the comments below! What resonated with you in this episode? Share your story—your voice could inspire another man to take that first step.

👋 Find Zulma Williams Online:

🌐 Website: dragonflytherapyservices.net

📸 Instagram: @TheSwearingTherapist

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"Welcome to the 'Don't Pick the Scab Podcast' with your host, David! 🎙️ This episode is a must-watch for divorced fathers over 40 who are navigating the rocky road of recovery, co-parenting, and spiritual growth. 💔👨‍👧‍👦

In this episode, I’m joined by special guest Allen Brokken, a Christian storyteller, author, and technology strategist. Together, we dive into:

✅ How to rebuild your life after divorce with purpose, strength, and hope 🙌

✅ The importance of reconnecting with your children and being a leader in their lives 👨‍👦

✅ Balancing technology use in the home while fostering deep, faith-based connections 📱✝️

✅ Using biblical wisdom to guide your parenting journey and help your kids thrive 📖💡

✅ The dangers of over-reliance on screens and how to build healthier family habits 🛑📱

Allen shares powerful insights from his experience as a father, author, and tech professional, offering practical advice for dads struggling to connect with their kids while staying true to their faith. 🙏💪 Whether you’re dealing with co-parenting challenges, trying to establish boundaries with technology, or simply seeking encouragement, this episode is packed with actionable wisdom.

Highlights Include:

• The role of biblical storytelling in building stronger relationships with your children 📖

• Why boredom is a GOOD thing for your kids and how to foster curiosity naturally 🎯

• How to balance being a father vs. being a friend to your child (and why it matters!) 👨‍👧‍👦

• Tips for divorced dads to set higher standards and lead by example 💡

If you’re a dad over 40 feeling stuck or overwhelmed, this podcast is your guide to starting fresh, reconnecting with your kids, and finding hope through faith and intentional action.

👉 Ready to rebuild your life with purpose? Start here!

💬 Let us know in the comments: What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced as a divorced dad, and how have you worked through it? Let’s support each other on this journey! 🙌

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