On this week’s episode of The Slut Show journalist, activist & neurodivergent feminist: Kaia Manoeli Stafford (she / her) takes over the show, interviewing host Ellen Moore (she / her) about her experiences being a (late diagnosed) woman with ADHD. The two discuss how ADHD impacts their sex lives, what struggles they encounter and how they overcome them. From submissiveness to dirty talk, from getting tied up to smoking weed and from distractions to (faking) orgasms – ALL tea will be spilled. This and WAY Mo(o)re, live now!

Please note: this episode may be considered triggering to those struggling with ADHD and the interpersonal impact thereof. Below you find a layout of that which is discussed on this week’s episode of The Slut Show, trigger-warnings included.

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On this episode of The Slut Show

00:00-00:16 Intro (tune) 00:16-01:33 Introducing this week’s guest: Kaia Manoeli Stafford 01:33-01:49 Leader (tune) 01:49-04:31 What’s the most empowering thing you did lately?

TRIGGER-WARNING ! From 02:20-02:24 Kaia briefly describes a public r@p3 case

TRIGGER-WARNING ! At 02:26 Ellen mentions the word r@p3

04:31-13:58 Slutty Science: ADHD & Sex 13:58-15:11 Sex & ADHD cognitive behavioral therapy 15:11-17:28 How ADHD & sex relate for Kaia 17:28-19:16 Kaia on coping with ADHD during sex 19:16-20:05 Daytime- vs. nighttime-sex 20:05-21:39 3PM: sexy o’clock 21:39-23:20 Weed, sex & ADHD 23:20-24:31 Addiction & ADHD 24:31-25:14 Exclusive: Watch The Slut Show! 25:14-28:21 Ellen’s ADHD diagnosis Story 28:21-29:22 How it felt to hear “you have ADHD” 29:22-30:00 How ADHD & sex relate for Ellen 30:00-30:38 Orgasmic dysfunction & ADHD 30:38-32:10 Faking orgasms 32:10-32:35 How Ellen was raised in regards to sexuality & feminism 32:35-33:45 Why it took Ellen 23 years to get diagnosed 33:45-34:31 Ellen on coping with ADHD during sex 34:31-35:32 Dirty talk 35:32-36:02 Moaning & growling 36:02-37:20 Ellen confessing her favorite nasty word 37:20-38:22 Gender & ADHD 38:22-39:22 Inattentive ADHD & misdiagnosis amongst women 39:22-40:37 Sexism in medicines 40:37-43:07 Mail: Do you get impatient & out of the mood too? 43:07-44:26 Dealing with guilt 44:26-45:01 Swallow or spit? 45:01-46:44 Stopping or finishing? 46:44-47:54  How do you see the future? 47:54-48:33 What Ellen would tell her younger self 48:33-49:32 A message to all women with ADHD 49:32-49:57 Next week on The Slut Show 49:57-50:56 Where else to find + support us