in this week's episode of what's my 100%, dené explores the question: how do we reconcile a deep belief in sovereign, non-attached love with the very real, very human biology of attachment? drawing from her work with couples, addiction recovery, and her own personal path, she offers a compassionate and grounded framework for navigating the tension between who we want to be in relationships and what our nervous systems are actually doing.

she explores:

• why falling into attachment and craving connection is not a personal failing but a physiological reality
• how the pull toward another person can be just as powerful as withdrawal from a drug and how it deserves the same compassion with the same toolkit
• how we often use our partners the way we use substances and why tending to our inner child first is what allows us to show up in love rather than survival mode
• the power of community and being witnessed by others in our relational work
• why another person can never be our purpose or our salvation and how making someone the center of our universe pulls us out of alignment with our own soul's work
• the importance of building and maintaining a non-negotiable spiritual toolkit including daily practices, rituals, and ways of returning to ourselves

upcoming workshops and events:

• April 14-June 9 // sovereign: the couples intensive
• May 17-21 // redefining relationship workshop with dene logan & joel cross at kripalu

you can find more information on these events and connect with dené further at the links below:

web: denelogan.com

IG: @dene.logan

TikTok: @denelogan

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Meadowlark Monaghan is the founder of Otherwise, Academy of Arts & Psychology and OR Consulting. Her career is dedicated to providing personal development tools for artists. She also develops and refines mental health content, initiatives, and programs for brands and nonprofits, alike. In addition to these roles, she also defines herself in relation to her love for a flaky croissant, ability to curate a fantastic playlist, and being raised by wolves.

in this week's episode of what's my 100%, dené sits down with her beloved friend and creative collaborator meadowlark monaghan for a wide-ranging, soul-nourishing conversation.

together they explore:

• Brian Weiss' book Many Lives, Many Masters, the difference between spirit and soul, and how understanding that distinction can completely transform the way we hold grief, death, and our relationships with those we've lost
• the way many systems of power have been designed so that we forget our innate wholeness, wisdom, and power
• the importance of integrating spirituality into mental health conversations
• why art is one of the most powerful forms of resistance available to us and how having hope and a vision of the world we want to build is essential to actually creating it
• the deep discomfort and necessity of staying in community with people we fundamentally disagree with
• the growing danger of AI as a relational substitute

you can connect with dené and meadowlark further at the links below:

meadowlark

web: otherwise.academy

IG: @itsmeadowlark

dene

web: denelogan.com

IG: @dene.logan

TikTok: @denelogan

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

in this week's episode of what's my 100%, dené explores a question she encounters often in her work: should I stay or should I go? drawing from her experience sitting with couples and individuals, she offers a soul-centered reframe of this deeply personal dilemma.

she explores:

• why the question of should I stay or should I go? is often times less about the relationship and more about a deeper invitation from life to know yourself more intimately
• how relationships can become a sneaky and convenient hiding place from our own shadow work
• the importance of taking responsibility for the patterns and dynamics we may be participating in
• why a lack of attraction to your partner can be a signal worth your curiosity and how cultivating your own aliveness can shift an entire dynamic
• how to trust that life will make your next steps clear when it is time

upcoming workshops and events:

• April 14-June 9 // sovereign: the couples intensive
• May 17-21 // redefining relationship workshop with dene logan & joel cross at kripalu

you can find more information on these events and connect with dené further at the links below:

web: denelogan.com

IG: @dene.logan

TikTok: @denelogan

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

in this week's episode of what's my 100%, dené explores the state of men and masculinity from a deep well of compassion and a genuine desire to shift the collective conversation.

she explores:

• why the male loneliness epidemic and the explosion of pornography addiction are not character flaws, but rather symptoms of a society that has conditioned men to suppress half of their emotional being
• how the "protect, provide, procreate" template of male worthiness is dangerously limiting, and how the shame men carry around falling short of this template drives disconnection, avoidance, and addiction
• how our own deeply held beliefs shape what we experience in our relationships and why the work of healing our relationships has to begin with an honest inventory of our own conditioning and projections
• how both shaming someone's struggles and over-functioning on their behalf actually perpetuates a prolonged adolescence rather than inviting them into their own initiation
• the importance of showing up with "i believe in you" instead of "here's what you need to fix" and how sovereign, agenda-free community is the real antidote to the loneliness and disconnection

upcoming workshops and events:

• April 14-June 9 // sovereign: the couples intensive
• May 17-21 // redefining relationship workshop with dene logan & joel cross at kripalu

you can find more information on these events and connect with dené further at the links below:

web: denelogan.com

IG: @dene.logan

TikTok: @denelogan

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

in this week's episode of what's my 100%, dené explores what can be one of the most destabilizing and complex experiences in relationships — infidelity. drawing from her work with couples, she offers a compassionate, soul-centered framework for understanding affairs that moves beyond the traditional victim and villain narrative into a deeper inquiry about truth, authenticity, and the soul's curriculum.

she explores:

• how infidelity often reveals where both people have been outsourcing a sense of validation, safety, or authenticity
• how our earliest attachment patterns train us to suppress our authentic selves and how that suppression becomes the foundation of relational disconnection over time
• why we place an impossible burden on our romantic partners to be our higher power
• how infidelity can become life's sacred invitation to reclaim that power and return to a deeper relationship with ourselves
• how that curiosity opens a pathway to understanding the core wounding beneath the behavior
• how to hold the question of whether to stay or go through the lens of the soul's growth

upcoming workshops and events:

• Thursday, March 19th 4pm-5:30pm PT // Embodying the Love You Want free workshop
• Tuesdays April 14-June 9th // 8-week couples intensive

you can find more information on these events and connect with dené further at the links below:

web: denelogan.com

IG: @dene.logan

TikTok: @denelogan

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

in this week's episode of what's my 100%, dené explores the journey of returning to wholeness, especially in the context of relationships. she shares her personal path through sobriety, divorce, and sacred solitude and how each experience brought her closer to the truth that wholeness is a birthright, not something to be found in another person.

she explores:

• how we are conditioned to believe we are incomplete without a partner, and why reclaiming the memory of our innate wholeness is the real work
• why learning to sit with ourselves in solitude and confronting what pema chödrön calls the "white hot loneliness" is one of the most transformational things we can do for our healing
• how the belief that we are not whole on our own creates patterns of extraction in our relationships, and why true love cannot come from a place of scarcity or fear
• the power of going back for your inner child and reconnecting to who you were before the world shaped you as a pathway to self-trust and wholeness
• how fear can be alchemized into purpose by shifting from "what do i need?" to "how do i serve?" as a doorway to personal power and healing

upcoming workshops and events:

• Thursday, March 19th 4pm-5:30pm PT // Embodying the Love You Want free workshop
• Tuesdays April 14-June 9th // 8-week couples intensive

you can find more information on these events and connect with dené further at the links below:

web: denelogan.com

IG: @dene.logan

TikTok: @denelogan

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

in this week's episode of what's my 100%, dené explores the current moment in history as a pivotal time for collective consciousness and personal responsibility. she discusses the potential for a nonviolent revolution rooted in empathy and understanding, emphasizing the importance of focusing energy on what we want to build rather than what we are afraid of.

she explores:

• how we are living through a prophetic moment in history that invites us to pay attention to what we are paying attention to
• how we have power to shift the collective consciousness by intentionally directing our energy toward what we want to see more of rather than what we oppose
• the concept of mythic time, divine timing, and the importance of slowing down to be present with what is
• what it means to show up as love even when it's difficult, seeking to understand the humanity and fear in those we disagree with as a pathway to collective healing

you can connect with dené further at the links below:

web: denelogan.com

IG: @dene.logan

TikTok: @denelogan

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

in this week's episode of what’s my 100%,

dené discusses themes of evolving dynamics of relationships, cultural perceptions around love and partnership, and invitations to prepare ourselves for the love we desire.

she explores:

• how relationships are no longer about survival or status symbols
• James Hollis' concept of the "magical other" and how we are moving toward a more conscious approach to love
• how a lot of relational psychology reinforces the idea of the "magical other" in an inadvertent way
• the ways relationships of all kinds act as mirrors that invite us to understand more about ourselves and what we believe about the world
• the shift in consciousness around relationships and the journey toward self-actualization
• what it means to be emotionally available and what is required for the type of felt experience of the epic love that people often want

you can connect with dené further at the links below:

web: denelogan.com

IG: @dene.logan

TikTok: @denelogan

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.