You already know the truth — you’ve just been avoiding it.
This episode is a wake‑up call for anyone living a life that doesn’t feel like theirs.
If you’ve been shrinking, settling, or pretending “it’s fine,” this is the moment everything changes.

No fluff.
No comfort.
No sugar‑coating.

Just the truth you’ve been running from — delivered straight to your chest.

This is the episode you listen to when you’re finally ready to stop lying to yourself and start choosing the life you were meant to live.

If it hits you… it was supposed to.

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You keep saying you’re tired of dating—but the truth is, you’re not tired of dating. You’re tired of choosing wrong.In this episode, Stop Blaming Dating—It’s You Who Keeps Choosing Wrong, we dive deep into the real reason dating feels exhausting. It’s not the apps. It’s not the endless swiping. It’s not even rejection. It’s the cycle of settling for people who are “tolerable” when you’re too drained to hold out for what you actually want. I’ll break down how dating fatigue distorts your judgment, why anxious attachment and scarcity mindset trick you into lowering your standards, and how self‑abandonment shows up disguised as relief. You’ll hear the story of someone who shifted from exhaustion to empowerment by dating more—but intentionally—and how that reset changed everything.By the end, you’ll know how to spot the signs of dating fatigue in yourself, how to stop negotiating against your own non‑negotiables, and how to reframe dating as data instead of disappointment. Because dating isn’t meant to drain you. It’s meant to refine you. So if you’re ready to stop blaming dating and start reclaiming your choices, press play.

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If you’ve been telling yourself you’re “healing,” I want you to pause for a moment—because this episode is about the uncomfortable line between doing the work and avoiding it.

In this conversation, I break down how emotional availability has turned into a buzzword in modern dating, and how a lot of people have started confusing avoidance with growth. We talk about emotional laziness—what it actually looks like, why it’s so common, and how it quietly damages connection.

I walk you through:

• What emotional availability really is (and what it isn’t)

• Why healing doesn’t mean disappearing, disengaging, or withholding effort

• How emotional laziness shows up in dating—even when it sounds reasonable

• Why having “capacity” without action doesn’t count

• How to tell if you—or the person you’re dating—are healing… or hiding

This episode isn’t about shaming you. It’s about helping you get honest with yourself and take responsibility for how you show up in relationships.

You don’t need to rush.
You don’t need to be perfect.
But if you want real connection, you do need to show up—consistently, clearly, and honestly.

Move slowly if you need to.
But move honestly.

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Entitlement is killing modern dating — and nobody wants to talk about it honestly.

In this first episode of the new year, I’m calling out the transactional mindset that has taken over dating on both sides.
Men who think money buys access.
Women who believe their value is tied to expensive dates.
And everyone wondering why dating feels empty, exhausting, and broken.

Dating was never meant to be a business deal.
It was never meant to be an exchange of money for intimacy or status for attention.

Real dating is an exchange of energy, time, curiosity, and intention.

In this episode, we break down:

• Why entitlement is poisoning modern dating

• How transactional thinking leads to resentment, cheating, and disappointment

• Why coffee dates aren’t “cheap” — they’re intentional

• How leading with money, looks, or demands attracts the wrong partners

• The difference between pure intention and performative dating

• How to reset your dating energy and start the year clean

If you want real connection, stability, and something that actually lasts — this episode is your wake-up call.

This year isn’t about dating harder.
It’s about dating better.

Drop the entitlement.
Drop the transactions.
Start leading with intention.

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Cuffing season promises warmth, validation, and someone to stand beside you during the holidays. But beneath the surface, it often hides compromise — chemistry mistaken for compatibility, comfort mistaken for connection.

In this episode, I expose the illusion of cuffing season and reveal why “good for now” always costs you later. Through raw storytelling and practical coaching, you’ll learn how to spot the difference between seasonal comfort and genuine alignment — and how to protect your standards when the pressure to settle feels strongest.

This isn’t about shame. It’s about clarity. It’s about refusing to rent comfort and choosing connection that lasts.

If this conversation sparks something in you, share it with someone who needs that reminder too. And for those ready to go deeper — to journal, reflect, and build your blueprint for connection — visit joeyfrancess.com.

Remember: love yourself first, live with clarity, and confidently choose what’s best for you.

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You’ve been told to wait until you’re “ready” before dating — but here’s the truth: readiness is a myth. In this episode, I’m breaking down why keeping people at arm’s length only keeps you stuck, and how healing actually shows up when you connect.

I’ll walk you through reflection prompts that reveal what you need right now, and share practical tips for dating without losing yourself. This isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being honest. Because love doesn’t wait for you to be ready. It waits for you to be real.

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We don’t just date — we audition.
We perform for love, approval, and safety.
But performance doesn’t lead to intimacy. It leads to exhaustion.

In this episode, I break down the psychology behind why we perform in dating — and what it’s costing us. From emotional labor to misaligned connections, we unpack the real reason dating feels so hard.

Then we shift gears:
You’ll get a coaching framework to stop performing and start connecting.
You’ll learn how to date with clarity, emotional fluency, and self-respect.
And you’ll walk away with prompts, somatic cues, and a closing story that hits deep.

If you’re ready to stop rehearsing and start resonating — this one’s for you.

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The first month of dating feels electric — but is it real?

In this episode, Joey Francess breaks down why the first 30 days aren’t about falling in love — they’re about staying grounded. From chemistry confusion to emotional spiraling, self-abandonment to pacing, this is your masterclass in dating with clarity, not fantasy.

You’ll learn:
– Why chemistry isn’t clarity
– How to stop spiraling after one good date
– What emotional pacing actually looks like
– The power of walking away early — without guilt

Whether you’re newly single or deep in the dating pool, this episode will help you protect your peace, honor your standards, and stop calling it love when it’s just anticipation.

🎧 Listen now and come back to yourself.

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