In this second episode of Season 2, we continue exploring communication — but not just between men and women.

We start somewhere deeper.

After a chaotic week of moving (and rescuing an injured kitten in the middle of traffic), Rachel shares an unexpected realization: communication doesn’t begin with your partner — it begins with how you speak to yourself.

From internal negative self-talk to relationship triggers, from motherhood and marriage strain to the power of prayer and reframing your words — this episode dives into the real roots of communication breakdown.

If we tear ourselves down internally, how can we build others up externally?

This conversation explores:

• The impact of negative self-talk on relationships
• How childhood wounds shape adult communication styles
• Why men often retreat into silence
• The tension that can arise in marriage after children
• Love languages, safety, and emotional maturity
• Why prayer softens hearts and strengthens partnership

Rooted in Proverbs 18:21 — “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” — this episode challenges us to speak life over ourselves, our partners, and our homes.

Episode Chapters

00:00 – Season 2, Episode 2: Women & Communication
02:00 – The Kitten Story and Stress Under Pressure
05:00 – The Realization: Communication Starts With Self-Talk
06:30 – Negative Internal Monologue and Society’s Breakdown
08:00 – Reframing Thoughts Instead of Criticizing Yourself
09:30 – Death and Life Are in the Tongue (Proverbs 18:21)
11:00 – Setting Boundaries and Speaking Kindly
13:30 – Childhood Wounds and People-Pleasing
17:00 – Men’s Silence vs Women’s Interpretation
20:00 – Communication Styles: Passive, Aggressive, Assertive, Collaborative
24:00 – The “Crazy Cycle” in Relationships
28:00 – Marriage, Safety, and Commitment
32:00 – What Happens When Kids Enter the Marriage
36:00 – Feeling Alone Inside Partnership
38:30 – Setting the Tone at Home
41:00 – Love Languages and Emotional Needs
45:00 – The Power of Prayer in Relationships
50:00 – Grace for Yourself and Your Partner
53:00 – We Takes and Solutions

Key Topics Discussed

• Women and communication
• Negative self-talk and emotional triggers
• Marriage after children
• Love languages in relationships
• Men’s communication through silence
• Collaborative vs aggressive communication
• Prayer in marriage
• Emotional safety and vulnerability
• Christian perspective on relationships

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Welcome to Season 2 of We Take the Stairs.

After wrapping Season 1 and exploring deeper conversations through Let’s Break Bread, Rachel returns with a new focus: revisiting last season’s themes — but this time through a female perspective.

In this premiere episode, Rachel is joined by co-hosts Dusty Ramirez and Breonna Garcia for an honest conversation about what it means to be a modern woman balancing relationships, work, motherhood, marriage, and the invisible mental load that so often goes unnoticed.

Together, they explore the cultural “girl boss” expectation, the pressure to do it all, and the reality that women often carry more than they show. The episode also dives into the communication breakdown between men and women — not as a gender war, but as an invitation to bridge the gap with empathy, rituals, reassurance, and healthier messaging.

This episode is rooted in Romans 12:18:
“Do your best to live at peace with everyone.”

A conversation about roles, validation, emotional safety, and learning how to encourage one another instead of training, withholding, or shutting down.

Episode Chapters

00:00 – Welcome Back: Season 2 Begins
02:00 – Introducing Dusty Ramirez and Breonna Garcia
04:30 – Why This Season Shifts to a Female Perspective
06:00 – The “Girl Boss” Label and Women in Corporate Life
08:30 – Can Women Really Do It All?
10:00 – The Mental Load and the Need for Reassurance
11:30 – Where Men and Women Miscommunicate
13:00 – Creating Safe Space for Hard Conversations
15:00 – “Do You Want Me to Listen or Fix It?”
17:00 – Men’s Emotions and the Double Standard
20:00 – Timing, Tone, and Emotional Overwhelm
23:00 – Hyper-Independence and Doing Everything Alone
25:00 – Traditional Roles, Modern Pressure, and Choice
30:00 – Motherhood as the CEO of the Home
34:30 – Why Women Struggle to Ask for Help
37:30 – Encouraging Men Instead of “Training” Them
41:00 – Small Acts That Matter: Trash, Groceries, Support
44:00 – Setting Rituals: Tea, Candles, Phones Down
49:00 – We Takes: Final Reflections and Solutions
54:00 – Preview: Women and Communication Next Week

Key Topics Discussed

• The mental load women carry in marriage and motherhood
• Corporate life and female leadership
• Validation vs reassurance in relationships
• Hyper-independence and burnout
• Men as problem-solvers vs women as emotional processors
• Creating rituals for healthier communication
• Encouraging men instead of withholding affection
• Building peace and mutual understanding at home

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We Take the Stairs Podcast – Let’s Break Bread

We are more connected than ever, yet we’ve never felt more alone. We’ve traded community for confirmation bias, creating a “table for one” that leaves no room for difference.

In this special “Side Quest” episode recorded in New York City, Rachel and Junior sit down with Trey and Haley—two new friends from different corners of the world—to discuss the breakdown of modern communication.

This organic conversation tackles:

• Why we shut down when we don’t “see ourselves” in the conversation

• The cultural shift from “Yes We Can” (The We) to the era of “All About Me”

• How algorithms and confirmation bias are fueling isolation

• The lingering impact of the pandemic on our ability to be vulnerable

• Why fear is the seed of hate, and shame is the root of separation

• The difference between fighting against an enemy and fighting for a community

If you feel exhausted by polarization or lonely despite being online, this episode offers a hopeful path toward real connection.

Timestamps / Chapters

00:00 – Welcome to NYC: A Special Side Quest
02:15 – Meet the Guests: Trey & Haley
05:40 – The Communication Breakdown: Why We Shut Down
09:00 – The Shift from “We” to “Me”
11:30 – Algorithms, Confirmation Bias, and the “Table for One”
16:15 – The COVID Effect: Why We Are Still Running Scared
24:00 – Fear is the Seed, Shame is the Root
28:00 – How to Have Conversations with People You Disagree With
38:30 – Fighting For Something vs. Fighting Against an Enemy
43:00 – The Crippling Effect of Shame on Community
51:00 – Gender Dynamics: Why Men and Women Aren’t Hearing Each Other
58:00 – The Pendulum Swing of Power and Oppression
64:00 – “We Takes”: Final Thoughts on Trust and Intention

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• How to expand your “frame” to invite others to the table

• Why discomfort is necessary for growth and connection

• How to identify when you are seeking confirmation rather than truth

• The importance of face-to-face conversation in the age of AI

• How to move past fear to rebuild trust in your community

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