EP212 – Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode)

Hotwife is everywhere right now, searches are rising, events are multiplying, creators are rebranding, and porn studios are showing up in lifestyle spaces looking for “talent.” So is this a genuine shift in the lifestyle… or is porn culture and trend chasing bleeding into swinging?

Our Hottakes bonus episode, we unpack what hotwifing actually is (and isn’t), why the label is suddenly trending, and whether separate play dynamics are becoming more normal at couples events, or if it’s mostly just branding and algorithms.

• What hotwifing means (and how it’s different from cuckolding and “just separate play”)
• Why “hotwife” searches spiked in 2024–2025 (Google Trends nerd moment)
• The rise of hotwife-specific events, hall passes, and separate-play meetups
• Are we seeing more hotwifing in real life — or just more people using the label?
• Porn studios entering lifestyle spaces (including a couples-only cruise sponsor)
• Content ownership + why “signing talent releases” can follow you forever
• Our 10-year hotwife journey and whether we’re “missing opportunities”
• Why hunting hall-pass husbands at couples events makes zero sense (and feels messy)
• The big question: authentic evolution… or opportunistic trend

Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/

Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/

Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder

Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122

Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine

Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26

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EP211 – Club Rejection, MFM Lessons & Lifestyle Drama at a Swingers Club

What happens when you get rejected from a swingers club, have an MFM at home that doesn’t quite land, and then walk into one of the most chaotic club nights you’ve had in 10 years?

In this episode, we kick off 2026 by unpacking getting denied entry to a Belgium club, lessons from a recent MFM, and a wild swingers club night that included a consent violation, staff intervention, and a serious conversation about safety and responsibility in lifestyle spaces.

And wrap up with a quick 2025 recap, 2026 goals, and why “approaching the unapproachable” (and being the ugliest one in the orgy) might be the new vibe.

In this Episode:

• Getting rejected from a swingers club (and what photos clubs actually want)
• MFM lessons & why home play can be harder than hotels
• Condom fit issues & why your hoe bag needs options
• Dressing down at clubs without killing the vibe
• A consent violation and how quickly things escalated
• What responsibility club owners have for creating safer spaces
• 2025 recap + 2026 goals and lifestyle plans

Club Eroxx Review (Belgium): https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-club-review/club-eroxx-review/

Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/

Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/

Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder

Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122

• Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine
• Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26

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What really happens inside a swingers hotel takeover?

In this episode, Cate sits down with multiple attendees from our recent Libertine Events takeover to share raw, funny, and deeply honest stories from inside a lifestyle weekend.

You’ll hear from brand-new swingers, long-term lifestyle couples, empty nesters, solo explorers, and couples still finding their dynamic — all discussing their playroom experiences, nerves, sexy wins, confidence breakthroughs, and what they wish they’d known before their first event.

Expect heartfelt conversations, hilarious confessions (including an accidental cock-block and a 12-hand massage), and genuinely useful advice for navigating hotel takeovers with confidence, clarity, and connection.

• Real-life swinger stories from a full hotel takeover
• Relationship dynamics & long-term lifestyle journeys
• Playrooms vs private rooms
• Lingerie catwalk moments
• Introverts in the lifestyle
• Handling mismatched attraction & veto moments
• Host vibes, accidental interruptions & how to speak up
• Open-door hotel rooms

• Libertine Events – swingers hotel takeovers & parties: https://libertineevents.com/
• Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/
• Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & lingerie content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder
• Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
• Rob and Linz https://www.instagram.com/anything.but.vani11a/
• Hot Couple Chronicles Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/0egGy8ukwpdUVfUAndCV2V

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