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Summary: In this episode, we talk about why survivors stay so long in narcissistic and abusive relationships, and how kids can change the decision. Sara shares what it was like when her children finally told her what was happening behind the scenes, how isolation and self-doubt keep parents stuck, and what recovery looks like when a parent and kids become a team.

Takeaways
- The impact of children can be a significant reason for staying in toxic relationships.
- Narcissistic parenting can severely affect children's mental health and development.
- Emotional abuse often leads to isolation from family and friends.
- Recognizing the signs of emotional abuse is crucial for recovery.
- Leaving an abusive partner is a complex and challenging process.
- Support from family and friends is vital during recovery.
- It's important to prioritize mental health over the idea of keeping a family together.
- Children are perceptive and can sense the dynamics of their parents' relationship.
- Rebuilding relationships after leaving an abusive partner is possible and necessary.
- Trusting one's intuition is key in forming new friendships and relationships.

Chapters
00:00
Welcome to Two Queens in a Joker
00:34
Why Do We Stay in Toxic Relationships?
02:38
The Impact of Children on Relationships
07:40
Recognizing Narcissistic Behavior
11:24
The Struggles of Leaving
15:48
Legal Challenges and Moving On
23:36
Finding Support and Rebuilding Relationships
26:20
Closing Thoughts and Future Topics
26:36
Golden Grass
Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

Follow for support and resources:
Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter

Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.

Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

Follow for support and resources:
Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter

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Summary

In this episode of 'Two Queens and a Joker', Brenda and Sara discuss the complexities of recognizing narcissistic abuse, the importance of community support, and the power of language in healing. They share personal experiences and insights on how to identify abuse, the struggle with self-doubt, and the significance of open communication with loved ones. The conversation emphasizes the need for empowerment and the importance of acknowledging one's experiences as valid.

Takeaways

Many people struggle to identify their experiences as abuse.

• Self-doubt is common in relationships with narcissists.
• Community support can significantly lighten the emotional burden.
• Recognizing abuse is the first step towards healing.
• Language plays a crucial role in validating experiences of abuse.
• It's important to communicate openly with family about past abuse.
• Setting boundaries is essential for mental health.
• Healing takes time and often requires support from others.
• Acknowledging one's experiences does not diminish their worth.
• Empowerment comes from recognizing and naming the abuse.

Chapters

00:00 Welcome Back and Introduction

01:26 Identifying Abuse and Self-Doubt

04:43 The Struggle to Recognize Abuse

09:00 The Importance of Community and Support

12:26 Understanding Narcissistic Behavior

17:07 The Power of Language in Healing

20:54 Breaking the Cycle of Abuse

24:41 Communicating with Family After Abuse

27:25 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks

Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.

Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

Follow for support and resources:
Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter

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SUMMARY
In this episode, Brenda and Sara delve into the complexities of narcissism, exploring its impact on relationships and emotional well-being. They discuss the phenomenon of narcissistic collapse, emotional immaturity, and the cycle of abuse, while also reflecting on their personal experiences. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, support, and the need for open dialogue about mental health issues. They invite listeners to engage with their stories and seek help if needed.

TAKEAWAYS
- The episode contains a warning about discussions of suicide and mental health crises.
- Brenda and Sara express gratitude for their global audience and local listeners.
- They discuss the concept of narcissism and its effects on individuals and relationships.
- Narcissistic collapse is a significant theme, highlighting emotional immaturity and inability to handle grief.
- The hosts reflect on their personal experiences with narcissistic partners and the cycle of abuse.
- They emphasize the importance of self-acceptance and not masking one's true self.
- The conversation touches on the emotional toll of people-pleasing behaviors.
- Listeners are encouraged to recognize the signs of narcissism and seek support.
- The hosts invite audience engagement and sharing of personal stories.
- The episode concludes with a message of support and openness to discussions about mental health.

CHAPTERS
00:00
Introduction to Narcissistic Collapse
05:40
Understanding Narcissistic Collapse
12:55
The Emotional Toll of Narcissism
13:23
Understanding Narcissistic Behavior
16:55
The Impact of Grief on Narcissism
21:12
Substance Abuse and Emotional Collapse
24:15
Consequences of Narcissistic Actions
27:27
Exploring Narcissistic Collapse

Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

Follow for support and resources:
Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter

Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.

Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.

The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.

We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.

Follow for support and resources:
Facebook: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
TikTok: @narctraumarecovery
Instagram (Podcast): @2queensandajoker
Instagram (Recovery): @narcrecoverycenter