I had this idea of having a husband that would be home every night for dinner. A husband that would have weekends off. A husband that I would see every day with some exceptions. A husband I would be able to attend events with.

This is not what it's like for us.

In singleness, I had this idea of what I thought my marriage would look like. Don't get me wrong, my husband is the perfect man for me, but our life is not what I expected.

While I was waiting for my husband, God had me in a season of preparation. At the time I didn't know what I was preparing for, but now I do! I share what God did to prepare me and how I am living that out to this day even in marriage!

Allow God to prepare you for what he has coming!

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It is possible to long for a husband AND be content in singleness.

You are waiting for a spouse. You have a deep desire to be married, but you don’t know how or when. You may be asking yourself, “Will I be single forever?” You have days you feel okay with your situation. Other days are a struggle and you often cry out of frustration or disappointment.

Regardless, this is the season you are in, so how do you make the most of it?

I was in this season of waiting for a spouse for many years. I watched friends get married, and I was in a number of bridal parties. I had many moments of doubt and frustration. I cried in bed at night thinking it would never happen for me. I had a matchmaker, dating coach, and a mentor. I went on dating apps, attended events, until one day something changed in my heart and mind.

I share what I did and how I learned to wait well in singleness. My desire and longing for a husband didn’t go away, but I was able to shift my focus and enjoy the life I did have.

Get the document here with steps to wait well.

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As Christians we are told to surrender, but how do we do that?

Surrender is a heart posture. It’s letting go of what you think you know and giving it to God. It’s inviting the Holy Spirit into every part of who you are. It’s trusting God has your life in his hands and the ultimate plan for you.

Surrender is not a one and done situation. It is daily. How do we do this? I will share what it looked like for me during my season of singleness. I will share how I got to the most desperate place while still having a desire for a husband.

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