Most of us have parts of ourselves we don’t like to look at.

The reactions we regret. The thoughts we don’t say out loud. The behaviors driven by shame, fear, or old coping patterns.

In this episode of No Alcohol Needed, Julie Miller and Steve Knapp are joined by Robbie Pike and Matt Shambo for an honest conversation about what it really means to face the “dark side” or shadow self, and why learning to integrate those parts of ourselves is essential for emotional growth.

They’re not trying to make the shadow disappear. They’re talking about understanding where these behaviors came from, recognizing how they once protected you, and learning how compassion makes real change possible.

Together, they explore:

• What people mean when they talk about shadow work
• How shame quietly drives many unhealthy reactions
• Why awareness without compassion can lead to self-punishment
• How to recognize shadow behaviors in real time
• The connection between recovery work and emotional healing
• Why integration leads to freedom, not self-rejection

If you’ve ever felt stuck repeating patterns you don’t fully understand, or ashamed of parts of yourself you wish you could change, this conversation offers perspective, reassurance, and a path forward.

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Why routines matter more than motivation in January

January is often when motivation fades and real life settles back in.

In this episode of No Alcohol Needed, Julie Miller and Steve Knapp are joined by Janice Dowd and Kristyna Holler for a grounded, honest conversation about healthy habits for mental health, consistency, and routines that actually support emotional wellness.

This episode is not about perfection, productivity, or rigid morning routines. It’s about the small, repeatable habits that help regulate the nervous system, protect mental health, and create stability during difficult seasons of life.

While alcohol isn’t the focus of the conversation, the episode reflects an alcohol-free lens, exploring how routines become especially important when alcohol is no longer used to cope, unwind, or transition through the day.

• Why disrupted routines are strongly linked to increased anxiety and depression
• How habits support emotional regulation when motivation is low
• Morning routines that help calm the nervous system rather than overwhelm it
• Why consistency matters more than willpower
• How to use “half habits” and micro-steps when time or energy is limited
• The role of self-compassion in building sustainable habits
• How boundaries and saying no protect your routines
• How habits and routines can carry you through grief, stress, and dark seasons
• Practical ways to interrupt negative self-talk and build emotional resilience

This episode is for anyone who:

• struggles to stay consistent with healthy habits
• feels overwhelmed by traditional self-improvement advice
• is focused on mental health and emotional wellness
• is living alcohol-free or beginning to question their relationship with alcohol
• wants routines that support real life, not ideal life

Whether you’re sober, sober-curious, or simply looking for habits that help you feel more grounded, this conversation offers perspective, reassurance, and practical tools you can use right away.

• Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? by Dr. Julie Smith

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Thinking about doing Dry January or already in the middle of it and wondering why it feels harder than you expected?

You’re not alone. Millions of people try Dry January every year, and many struggle not because they’re doing it wrong, but because they don’t have the right support, mindset, or tools going in.

In this episode, Julie and Steve are joined by Charles and Amber for an honest, no frills conversation about how to approach Dry January in a way that actually feels doable. This isn’t about willpower or white-knuckling your way through 30 days. It’s about understanding what makes this challenge hard and learning how to make it easier.

We talk about:

• Why thinking about “forever” makes Dry January feel overwhelming
• How approaching Dry January as an experiment changes everything
• Common emotional reactions like anxiety, shame, and fear of missing out
• Why planning beats hope when it comes to cravings and social situations
• How changing routines can reduce triggers, especially in the evenings
• What to replace alcohol with so you’re not just removing something
• The surprising physical and emotional benefits many people notice after 30 days
• How to reflect on your experience so Dry January actually gives you clarity
• Why slipping doesn’t mean you failed, it just gives you information

Whether you’re sober-curious, trying Dry January for the first time, or questioning your relationship with alcohol, this episode will help you feel less alone and more capable.

You don’t have to decide anything about the future. You just have to get through today.

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