In this heartfelt conversation, Author and Spiritual Director Michelle Ruetschle shares her journey of love, resilience, and caregiving after her husband Steve's life-altering motorcycle accident that left him a quadriplegic. From her childhood as a global nomad to the challenges of losing every material marker in her life, Michelle discusses the importance of faith, community support, and the emotional toll of caregiving. She reflects on the dark moments of her journey, the healing power of writing, and the ongoing challenges of intimacy and relationships post-injury. Through it all, the amazing author, wife, and mother emphasizes the significance of gratitude, resilience, and the need for caregivers to find their own rhythms, support, and engage in self-care.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to an Inspirational Journey

02:00
A Global Nomad's Childhood

02:55
Falling in Love and New Beginnings

04:15
Life in the Philippines

04:37
The Accident: A Life-Changing Moment

05:53
The Reality of Paralysis

08:03
Family Support and the Power of Prayer

09:46
Explaining the Situation to the Children

11:01
Facing Uncertainty and Loss

11:57
The Long Road to Recovery

14:06
Community Support and Caregiving

14:40
First Outing: A Trip to the Zoo

16:41
Strengthening Bonds Through Adversity

18:15
Navigating Caregiver Challenges

20:01
Finding Restoration Amidst Caregiving

21:50
Wrestling with Faith and Grief

23:08
The Dark Night of the Soul

24:52
Writing as a Healing Process

27:02
Living Richly Within Suffering

28:19
Steve's Ongoing Challenges

30:12
Intimacy and Relationship Changes

32:12
The Importance of Open Conversations

33:18
Spiritual Direction and Support

35:33
The Role of Community in Caregiving

36:55
Optimism for the Future

38:15

CONTACT:

Michelle Ruetschle

Portland, OR

Spiritual Director

michelleruetschle@gmail.com

Summary

In this candid and pragmatic conversation, actress Antoinette Green Fisher shares her journey through love, marriage, and the challenges of caregiving for her husband who developed dementia in his late 40's/early 50’s. She reflects on their early relationship, the impact of his illness on their lives including physical violence, and the emotional toll it took on her as a caregiver. Antoinette discusses the importance of seeking support, legal considerations, and the necessity of self-care during such a challenging time. Ultimately, she emphasizes the need for hope in discovering life after loss.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction to Dementia and Personal Stories

05:18

The Early Years: Love and Friendship

06:19

Building a Life Together

07:43

The Onset of Dementia

09:50

Navigating the Challenges of Caregiving

12:27

The Decision to Seek Help

14:26

Coping with Loss and Grief

16:48

Finding Support and Resources

18:23

The Journey of Acceptance

20:25

Life After Loss and Moving Forward

34:18

Dave Ziaya wasn't buying it, until he witnessed the transformation first hand. The powerful impact that horse therapy can have on people with a wide range of conditions, including his son - Andrew who suffers from seizures from Dravet Syndrome.

In this candid , and at times, emotional conversation Tracey Neale takes us to Cloverleaf equine Center, to see how a group of special horses offer physical and emotional benefits to young Andrew, and to - get this - Tracey's elderly mother battling dementia and how technology is enhancing these therapeutic experiences.

You'll be encourage caregivers to consider equine therapy as a viable option for improving the quality of life for your loved ones.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Equine Therapy

00:55
Understanding Equine Therapy Types

02:33
Real-Life Impact: Andrew's Journey

07:06
The Emotional Bond Between Horses and Riders

08:56
Physical Benefits of Riding for Special Needs

11:55
Broad Applications of Equine Therapy

13:13
The Role of Technology in Equine Therapy

13:55
Future of Equine Therapy for Andrew

16:17
Encouragement for Caregivers

18:58
Final Thoughts and Reflections