In this heartfelt conversation, Author and Spiritual Director Michelle Ruetschle shares her journey of love, resilience, and caregiving after her husband Steve's life-altering motorcycle accident that left him a quadriplegic. From her childhood as a global nomad to the challenges of losing every material marker in her life, Michelle discusses the importance of faith, community support, and the emotional toll of caregiving. She reflects on the dark moments of her journey, the healing power of writing, and the ongoing challenges of intimacy and relationships post-injury. Through it all, the amazing author, wife, and mother emphasizes the significance of gratitude, resilience, and the need for caregivers to find their own rhythms, support, and engage in self-care.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to an Inspirational Journey

02:00
A Global Nomad's Childhood

02:55
Falling in Love and New Beginnings

04:15
Life in the Philippines

04:37
The Accident: A Life-Changing Moment

05:53
The Reality of Paralysis

08:03
Family Support and the Power of Prayer

09:46
Explaining the Situation to the Children

11:01
Facing Uncertainty and Loss

11:57
The Long Road to Recovery

14:06
Community Support and Caregiving

14:40
First Outing: A Trip to the Zoo

16:41
Strengthening Bonds Through Adversity

18:15
Navigating Caregiver Challenges

20:01
Finding Restoration Amidst Caregiving

21:50
Wrestling with Faith and Grief

23:08
The Dark Night of the Soul

24:52
Writing as a Healing Process

27:02
Living Richly Within Suffering

28:19
Steve's Ongoing Challenges

30:12
Intimacy and Relationship Changes

32:12
The Importance of Open Conversations

33:18
Spiritual Direction and Support

35:33
The Role of Community in Caregiving

36:55
Optimism for the Future

38:15

CONTACT:

Michelle Ruetschle

Portland, OR

Spiritual Director

michelleruetschle@gmail.com