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If you’re consistently drawn to the men who don’t choose you…

and oddly unmoved by the ones who do,

this episode is for you.

This pattern isn’t bad luck.

It isn’t “chemistry.”

And it isn’t because something is wrong with you.

It’s a learned attraction — and once you see how it was formed, you can’t unsee it.

In this episode, we’ll explore why desire so often locks onto unavailability, how that pattern gets mistaken for love, and what actually has to shift for secure, lasting connection to become genuinely attractive — not just logically appealing.

Nothing to fix.

No standards to lower.

No games to play.

Just a deeper understanding of what’s been driving your attraction… and how it changes when your system does.

Let’s get into it.

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Why do so many connections feel close… but never quite arrive where you want them to go?

He cares.

There’s chemistry.

There’s history.

And yet — no commitment.

This episode isn’t about what you should say, do, or demand.

It’s about a deeper question most people never stop to ask.

What actually makes commitment possible in the first place?

And why does it seem to appear effortlessly for some people — and remain just out of reach for others?

We’ll explore the quiet dynamics that shape readiness, attraction, and timing…

and the moment when things either click into place — or fall apart.

No tactics.

No chasing.

No blame.

Just a perspective that may change how you see men, commitment, and your role in the equation.

If you’ve ever wondered why it felt so close but never became real, this episode is for you.

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Most women don’t enter a new year hoping to become someone else.

They enter it quietly wondering what’s still wrong with them.

Why love hasn’t landed yet.

Why you still feel anxious, attached, or unsettled.

Why all the work you’ve done hasn’t delivered the thing you want most.

Somewhere underneath it all is the belief that there’s still something you need to heal…

something you need to fix…

And you’re not wrong.

There is something that needs to change.

But it’s probably not what you think.

Once you see what it actually is — and stop relating to yourself the way you always have — the entire pattern begins to unwind.

In this episode, we’ll explore that shift together, so you can step into this year differently than you ever have before.

Not with another resolution.

Not with more effort.

But with a kind of clarity that changes everything.

Welcome back to the show. Let’s dive in.

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Ever been in a situationship? Of course you have!

Contrary to popular opinion, these are not bad, wrong, or even a mistake. They are highly relevant experiences in your journey to love that allow you to transform yourself within the context of relationship and come into a greater experience of personal worth and value.

It's not about judging these relationships or yourself for being in them but truly understand what this relationship was for, the purpose it served in your life, and being able to recognize when it's run it's course and extract the value from it. When you do this, every "situationship" you find yourself in will be short lived, incredibly valuable, and accelerate your journey toward the right person. When you don't know how to do this, these relationships become highly destructive and crushing to your worth and value.

I hope you enjoy this exciting discussion as we break down the situationship and how to use it to empower yourself and accelerate your growth.

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If the love you were seeking didn’t arrive this year, this episode is for you.

Not to explain why.

Not to tell you what you did wrong.

Not to convince you that “everything happens for a reason.”

Just to remind you of something most people forget when things don’t unfold the way they hoped.

If you’re ending this year feeling tender, disappointed, reflective, or unsure how to carry yourself into the next one, this is a simple message from the heart, meant to help you exhale.

No advice.

No strategy.

No fixing.

Just a reminder that wherever you are right now, it's ok to be you.

With love and best holiday wishes, thanks for listening this year.

Shane

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What if the thing you’ve been calling “love” your whole life… wasn’t actually love at all?

What if the intensity, the longing, the fear of losing someone, the obsession with being “enough,” the way your entire body lights up when a man chooses you — and collapses when he doesn’t — wasn’t about love…

…but about something far older, deeper, and more painful?

In this episode, we’re exploring a pattern almost every woman carries yet almost none ever name.

A pattern so woven into your relationships that you don’t even know you’re doing it.

A pattern that shapes who you chase, who you tolerate, how you attach, and why you stay.

And the real question isn’t:

“Why do I love him so much?”

It’s:

“Why do I fall apart when I’m not chosen?”

What happens when that spell finally breaks?

What do you find on the other side of the chase — in the quiet space where the illusion falls away?

And what does love feel like when it’s no longer built on fear?

Listen closely.

This one may change the way you understand every relationship you’ve ever had.

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If you've ever wondered exactly what it is that calls for a man's devotion, respect, commitment, and trust, the answer is in this episode.

There is a lot of information in the mainstream culture right now and most of it is honestly very disempowering for women in their relationships with men. In this episode, we'll debunk the common myths that are perpetuated by supposed alpha males and dating "gurus" and break down the seven timeless principles that signal feminine power, worthiness, and move a man toward the deepest levels of devotion.

These 7 power codes are a cheat sheet for what the highest caliber of men respond to but even more than that, they are the ways that a woman honors herself in relationship with men and signal to her own unconscious that she is worthy of love and devotion.

And truthfully, that's a much bigger flex than any man's approval.

Tune in and see which ones you embody most and which you're still growing toward. This is sure to be an enlightening and inspiring listen.