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If you’re consistently drawn to the men who don’t choose you…

and oddly unmoved by the ones who do,

this episode is for you.

This pattern isn’t bad luck.

It isn’t “chemistry.”

And it isn’t because something is wrong with you.

It’s a learned attraction — and once you see how it was formed, you can’t unsee it.

In this episode, we’ll explore why desire so often locks onto unavailability, how that pattern gets mistaken for love, and what actually has to shift for secure, lasting connection to become genuinely attractive — not just logically appealing.

Nothing to fix.

No standards to lower.

No games to play.

Just a deeper understanding of what’s been driving your attraction… and how it changes when your system does.

Let’s get into it.

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Why do so many connections feel close… but never quite arrive where you want them to go?

He cares.

There’s chemistry.

There’s history.

And yet — no commitment.

This episode isn’t about what you should say, do, or demand.

It’s about a deeper question most people never stop to ask.

What actually makes commitment possible in the first place?

And why does it seem to appear effortlessly for some people — and remain just out of reach for others?

We’ll explore the quiet dynamics that shape readiness, attraction, and timing…

and the moment when things either click into place — or fall apart.

No tactics.

No chasing.

No blame.

Just a perspective that may change how you see men, commitment, and your role in the equation.

If you’ve ever wondered why it felt so close but never became real, this episode is for you.

Click here to learn about taking the Inspired Love Journey in 2026

Most women don’t enter a new year hoping to become someone else.

They enter it quietly wondering what’s still wrong with them.

Why love hasn’t landed yet.

Why you still feel anxious, attached, or unsettled.

Why all the work you’ve done hasn’t delivered the thing you want most.

Somewhere underneath it all is the belief that there’s still something you need to heal…

something you need to fix…

And you’re not wrong.

There is something that needs to change.

But it’s probably not what you think.

Once you see what it actually is — and stop relating to yourself the way you always have — the entire pattern begins to unwind.

In this episode, we’ll explore that shift together, so you can step into this year differently than you ever have before.

Not with another resolution.

Not with more effort.

But with a kind of clarity that changes everything.

Welcome back to the show. Let’s dive in.