On Episode 9 of Tapped In With Tom Flies, the crew dives into one of the internet's biggest relationship debates following the Big Tigger situation and asks: is going through your partner's phone ever justified?

From trust issues and relationship boundaries to wild personal stories, the conversation takes plenty of unexpected turns. We also get into Ray J's viral story, double standards, and the craziest things we've done in relationships.

As always, it's a room full of honest opinions, laughs, and conversations that probably shouldn't happen, but we're glad they did.

In this episode, we dive into:

• The Big Tigger Debate: Was the viral situation blown out of proportion, and where do we draw the line between protecting your privacy and demanding answers?
• Going Through Phones: Is checking your partner's phone ever justified? The crew shares personal stories, hot takes, and plenty of questionable decisions.
• Crazy Relationship Confessions: From pulling up unannounced to following exes and catching people in the act, everyone admits the wildest thing they've done for love.
• Trust, Red Flags & Double Standards: We unpack relationship boundaries, cheating, jealousy, and why men and women often see the same situations differently.
• Ray J's Viral Story: An honest conversation about attraction, honesty, and navigating uncomfortable situations in today's dating world.
• Real Talk on Accountability: The episode closes with a conversation about domestic violence, toxic behavior, and why accountability should apply to everyone.

From hilarious stories to serious conversations, Episode 9 is packed with laughs, debates, and moments that'll have you arguing with the crew from start to finish.

Drop a comment below: Is going through your partner's phone ever justified, or is that an automatic deal breaker? Let us know where you stand.

Episode Chapters

00:00 – Welcome Back & Introducing the Crew
Tom Flies welcomes everyone back, shouts out the previous episode, and introduces the guests for another unfiltered conversation.

02:05 – Mental Health Check & What's New
The crew checks in with each other, talks about life lately, getting money, and setting the tone for the episode.

03:40 – Can Friends Borrow Money?
A conversation about lending money to friends turns into a debate about trust, boundaries, and who's actually getting paid back.

07:05 – The Big Tigger Situation
Breaking down the viral Big Tigger incident and whether the headlines matched what was shown in the video.

08:35 – Is Taking Your Partner's Phone Ever Justified?
The room debates privacy, trust, and whether grabbing someone's phone crosses the line in a relationship.

13:00 – Going Through Phones & Finding Receipts
Everyone shares their experiences snooping through phones, searching messages, and discovering things they probably wish they hadn't.

20:40 – The Craziest Things We've Done for Love
From following partners to surprise pop-ups, the crew admits the lengths they've gone to in relationships.

25:00 – Cheating, Hidden Clues & Relationship Red Flags
Stories about finding suspicious items, catching partners slipping, and the subtle ways people expose themselves.

31:00 – Ray J's Viral Story & Honest Conversations
The panel reacts to Ray J's viral interview and discusses honesty, attraction, and uncomfortable relationship conversations.

37:00 – Embarrassing Stories & Telling Your Friends
How long do you keep an embarrassing relationship story to yourself before the group chat finds out?

40:00 – Men Can Be Victims Too
The conversation shifts to domestic violence, accountability, and why abuse against men deserves to be taken seriously.

46:30 – Toxic Traits We Know We Have
The crew reflects on their own relationship habits, self-awareness, and whether people really change.

52:00 – Final Thoughts & Wrapping Up
One last round of laughs before closing out another episode of Tapped In With Tom Flies.

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