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If sex feels uncomfortable, overly complicated, or more like a workout than pleasure… it might be the position.

In this episode, we break down supportive, realistic sex positions designed for real bodies. No acrobatics. No performance pressure. Just angles, stability, connection, and actual pleasure.

We cover comfort-based positions, angle-focused positions, and intimacy-centered positions that make orgasms easier and strain less likely.

Because stable beats flashy. Every time.

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Valentine’s Day is sold as the ultimate test of love, but let’s be honest, it’s mostly a marketing calendar wrapped in roses and guilt.

In this episode, we break down where Valentine’s Day actually came from, how it became a billion-dollar industry, and why so many people feel pressured, disappointed, or straight-up uncomfortable when February 14th rolls around.

We talk performative romance, overpriced expectations, social media pressure, and why consistent love beats one grand gesture every time. Whether you’re partnered, single, or happily ignoring the whole thing, this one’s for you.

No Hallmark fluff. No guilt spending. Just real talk.

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Valentine’s Day isn’t the problem, the pressure is.

In this episode, we break down why Valentine’s Day feels so loaded, what people actually want from it (hint: it’s not expensive gifts), and how small gestures create real connection in long-term relationships.

We talk about acknowledgment, emotional intimacy, micro-gestures, expectations, and why being seen might be the most underrated form of foreplay. Whether you’re partnered, single, or somewhere in between, this is a no-pressure, no-performance take on making Valentine’s Day actually feel good.

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What happens when honesty becomes a career risk?

This conversation dives into why so many gay men in professional sports remain closeted—and why the issue has nothing to do with masculinity, toughness, or talent. Using the cultural impact of Heated Rivalry as a lens, we unpack visibility, power, locker-room culture, emotional safety, and what actually happens when athletes come out while still playing.

From real statistics to real-world examples, this episode explores why being “the first” still carries so much weight—and why stories like this matter far beyond fiction.

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Ever been told you’re asking for too much in the bedroom?

This episode was sparked entirely by listener comments, and wow, did they expose some deep-rooted double standards around sex, pleasure, emotional labor, and communication.

We’re breaking down:
• Why having standards isn’t entitlement
• The emotional labor women carry into the bedroom
• Why “just communicate” isn’t that simple
• The truth about sex toys, shame, and masculinity
• How performance pressure hurts everyone

If you’ve ever felt judged for how you show up sexually, this episode is for you.

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Most people treat anal like a bucket-list stunt.
Try it once, decide forever, never revisit it.

That’s the problem.

In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we break down why anal play isn’t about bravery or pressure, it’s about skill, anatomy, communication, and going slow enough for your body to actually enjoy it.

We cover:
• Why your first attempt doesn’t mean anything
• How different bodies experience anal stimulation
• What actually makes it pleasurable (and what makes it painful)
• Beginner to advanced toy progression
• Pegging, prostate play, and safety that actually matters

No fear tactics. No shame. No nonsense.

🎧 Let’s make anal make sense.

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What if orgasms were one of the most powerful wellness tools you’re not using enough?

In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, we break down the science behind orgasms, stress relief, nervous system regulation, and why pleasure is not extra, it’s essential.

We’re talking hormone cocktails, pelvic floor health, immune support, myth-busting, and introducing our boldest idea yet: the 200 Orgasm Challenge for 2026.

Solo or partnered. Fun and factual. Zero shame.

Welcome to pleasure on purpose.

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The holidays are loud, exhausting, and wildly unsexy… or are they? In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we dive into real listener questions about holiday quickies, exhaustion, zero privacy, and why social media makes everyone feel broken. Spoiler: you’re not broken. You’re just tired.

We talk delegation, scheduling sex, five-minute escapes, realistic expectations, and how connection doesn’t disappear just because the house is full. If you’re surviving December and wondering where intimacy went, this episode is for you.

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