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Our friend John, husband to Ashlie Sweetie, is currently in the ICU fighting for his life. He’s in a coma, a father of four, and a hardworking diesel mechanic whose family is now facing overwhelming medical bills while he’s unable to work.

John and Ashlie have both been guests on this podcast and are part of the LifeInStyleSTL community. When someone in this community needs help — we show up. Period.

👉 Please donate or share their GoFundMe if you’re able:
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Even sharing the link helps more than you think. Thank you for supporting them.

🎙️ ABOUT THIS EPISODE

Tonight’s episode is different — and it needed to be.

We’re talking honestly about how the lifestyle changes people over time… and how sometimes the most mature, healthiest decision is admitting that something that once worked no longer does.

This episode covers:

Why opening up isn’t always linear

Closing doors without calling it failure

Burnout, health, finances, kids, and shifting priorities

Changing boundaries without blowing everything up

Taking breaks, leaving the lifestyle, or redefining what it looks like for you

Why conditional consent is still valid

And why outgrowing something doesn’t mean you failed

This is a real, grounded conversation — not clickbait, not fantasy, not pressure.

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🧠 LIFESTYLE LINGO

Fluffer
Originally a porn-industry term, now used in lifestyle spaces to describe someone who provides sexual, emotional, or ego support behind the scenes.

🔥 HOT OR NOT

HOT: No alarm clocks
NOT: Zyn

🧠 WORDS OF WISDOM

This episode closes with a serious conversation about masculinity, emotional restraint, responsibility, and why actions matter more than feelings — especially for men navigating relationships, families, and leadership roles.

It’s not sugarcoated. It’s not trendy. It’s honest.

📣 FINAL ASK

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This week on the Swingz Podcast, Drew & Erika sit down with JustaBarbi and DaddyChev — two creators who look intimidating as hell at first glance… and then completely flip the script once you actually get to know them.

What started as skepticism before a Florida trip turned into one of the most eye-opening weeks we’ve had in the lifestyle. We talk first impressions, content creation, long-term ambition, “Dommy Mommy” energy, traveling for collabs, and why vibes matter more than appearances every single time.

If you’ve ever judged someone too quickly — or been judged yourself — this episode hits home.

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Go show them some love — and tell them Swingz sent you.

🧠 What We Cover in This Episode

Why JustaBarbi & DaddyChev are constantly misread

Traveling for collabs and what it reveals about people

How Florida changed everyone’s perspective

“Dommy Mommy” explained (confidence vs control)

Choosing collabs intentionally to avoid burnout

Long-term growth vs chasing short-term hype

AVN prep, ambition, and playing the long game

Why vibes beat looks every damn time

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🥂 EPISODE OVERVIEW

This week, we’re breaking down two chaotic nights at the LifeInStyleSTL New Year’s Eve takeover — glass-walled hotel rooms, wild energy, questionable food decisions, emotional moments, and the kind of stories you only get when you put open-minded people together for 48 straight hours.

From Drew driving four hours for a hookup, to Erika powering through New Year’s Eve while feeling like absolute trash, to dance floors, orgies, masquerade vibes, and everything in between — this episode is a full, unfiltered NYE recap.

If you’ve ever wondered what lifestyle hotel takeovers are really like… this one’s for you.

🕛 WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE

• Two-night swinger hotel takeovers
• LifeInStyleSTL NYE party recap (Night 1 & Night 2)
• Holiday chaos & four Christmas celebrations
• Golf, hookups, and questionable decisions
• Lifestyle lingo: Brat / Bratty explained
• Emotional New Year’s moments
• AVN voting & why it actually matters
• Hot or Not: two-day events vs bad party food
• Drew’s Words of Wisdom on confidence & posture

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🔥 Episode 60: Shark Fishing, Friendship Blowups & Navigating the Lifestyle Together

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Last week we didn’t miss an episode because we were lazy — we missed it because we were stress-testing friendships in Florida.

In Episode 60, Drew & Erika are joined by TanaNicoleSTL and FeralJesse to break down everything that happens when travel, alcohol, late nights, and real conversations collide. From shark fishing and hot tubs to emotional “crash outs” and honest conflict resolution, this episode dives deep into what real friendships in the lifestyle actually require.

This isn’t a highlight reel — it’s the truth about communication, growth, and why friendships aren’t built on perfection… they’re built on how you handle the messy parts.

🦈 In This Episode:

• Florida shark-fishing chaos (yes, we caught one)
• Trip dynamics that accelerate friendships — for better or worse
• What happens when tension goes unspoken
• Lifestyle Lingo: “Crash Out” — and why emotional spirals kill connections
• Real talk on friendship conflict between Drew & Jesse
• Preparing for AVN as first-timers
• Why silence ends friendships faster than arguments
• How to tell who’s actually happy for your growth
• Why real friends don’t compete — they celebrate

🧠 Words of Wisdom:

Pay attention to who shrinks when you grow.
That information is priceless.

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If this episode hit home, drop a comment — we read them on the show.
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Keep it filthy, keep it bold — we’ll see you out there.

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Tonight we're diving into a BIG one — online safety, age-verification laws, predator awareness, protecting kids on the internet, lifestyle misunderstandings, and the chaos of our week… including Erika’s first Jiu-Jitsu class and prep for our Florida shark-fishing collab trip.

This episode blends real-world seriousness with Swingz humor and storytelling, so get comfy — it’s a ride.

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🎧 Audio Versions (New Episodes Every Wednesday):
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Read live during every episode and keep the show growing!

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Tonight’s episode is all about how one random DM can spark friendships, adventures, chaos, and memories that last a lifetime. We’re joined by TanaNicoleSTL and Jesse, a couple who went from sending a bold message… to becoming some of our best friends in the lifestyle and content world.

From gaming marathons to tattoo guns, bonfire hookups to Florida shark-fishing trips, and even a donkey named Gilbert—this episode is packed with stories about connection, chemistry, and the kind of friendships that feel like family.

This is one of the most fun, wholesome, chaotic episodes we’ve recorded. You’ll laugh, you’ll relate, and you’ll probably message your friends by the end of it. ❤️

🧨 What We Cover in This Episode

How a bold DM sparked a real-life friendship

Why lifestyle friendships hit deeper than vanilla friendships

Fortnite → bonfires → family dinners → lifelong bonds

Tana’s tattoo journey + content creator origin story

Drew almost ignoring the DM that started it all

The 2am “meet up” message

Shark fishing in Florida + planned collabs

Why shy people thrive in the lifestyle with the right circle

Naked dirt bike stories

Lady-boners, truck shopping, Black Friday chaos, and more

💬 Comment of the Week

Erika reads your reactions to Episode 57’s chaos — from shark orgy predictions to the Cynthia Erivo debate that shocked everyone.

Drop a comment on THIS episode to be featured next week!

🔥 Tip of the Week

“The grass isn’t always greener. Don’t let ‘perfect’ ruin ‘good.’”
Drew breaks down why chasing perfection destroys friendships, relationships, and community — and why appreciation is the real key to happiness.

⭐ Support the Show

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Huge shoutout to our Patreon supporters:
Brandon Gilbert • John McCollum • Jake • Jerry Ryan • Dale Jackson

And to our YouTube Members:
562JRyan • Daddy D • Isaiah Roy IV • Alexis Black • Brandon Scott

You keep this show alive.

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December 13 • Full hotel takeover • Heated indoor pool
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Tonight’s episode is a full Swingz tornado — sex theaters disappearing, Florida shark trips forming into collab chaos, holiday madness, and Drew going on an unexpected rant about Cynthia Erivo.

From wild lifestyle stories to behind-the-scenes creator talk, we’re breaking down the week’s insanity and what’s coming next for the Swingz crew.

🎙 Hosts: DrewSwingz & ErikaSwingz
🎥 Watch Live Every Week: / @swingzpodcast

🔥 THIS EPISODE:

• The death of classic sex theaters — what they used to be, why they’re fading, and whether they should evolve or retire with dignity
• Our Florida shark fishing trip — plus the lineup of spicy collabs being planned
• The great “collab” debate — what the word actually means in the lifestyle & creator world
• How to survive a swinger vacation — naps, testing, packing, boundaries, and avoiding waterline disasters
• Weekly Recap: Trust fund adulting, vending business launch, OF live chaos, board game night flashing, and more
• Hot or Not: Thanksgiving vs. Cynthia Erivo 😬
• Tip of the Week: Why you should NEVER play near the waterline

📢 CTA — JOIN THE COMMUNITY

💬 Comment your wildest sex shop or sex theater story
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“Keep it filthy, keep it bold… and watch out for sharks, theaters, and Cynthia Erivo.”