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Our friend John, husband to Ashlie Sweetie, is currently in the ICU fighting for his life. He’s in a coma, a father of four, and a hardworking diesel mechanic whose family is now facing overwhelming medical bills while he’s unable to work.

John and Ashlie have both been guests on this podcast and are part of the LifeInStyleSTL community. When someone in this community needs help — we show up. Period.

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Even sharing the link helps more than you think. Thank you for supporting them.

🎙️ ABOUT THIS EPISODE

Tonight’s episode is different — and it needed to be.

We’re talking honestly about how the lifestyle changes people over time… and how sometimes the most mature, healthiest decision is admitting that something that once worked no longer does.

This episode covers:

Why opening up isn’t always linear

Closing doors without calling it failure

Burnout, health, finances, kids, and shifting priorities

Changing boundaries without blowing everything up

Taking breaks, leaving the lifestyle, or redefining what it looks like for you

Why conditional consent is still valid

And why outgrowing something doesn’t mean you failed

This is a real, grounded conversation — not clickbait, not fantasy, not pressure.

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🎄 UPCOMING EVENT — LifeInStyleSTL XXXmas Lingerie Party

Close out the year the right way with a full hotel takeover featuring:

Meet & Greet

Themed room crawl

Lingerie party after 10PM

Heated indoor pool

Homemade food & spiked cider

Optional on-site rooms with breakfast included

🎟️ Use promo code SWINGZ2026 to save on tickets
Links are below — this is a great entry point if you’re new.

🧠 LIFESTYLE LINGO

Fluffer
Originally a porn-industry term, now used in lifestyle spaces to describe someone who provides sexual, emotional, or ego support behind the scenes.

🔥 HOT OR NOT

HOT: No alarm clocks
NOT: Zyn

🧠 WORDS OF WISDOM

This episode closes with a serious conversation about masculinity, emotional restraint, responsibility, and why actions matter more than feelings — especially for men navigating relationships, families, and leadership roles.

It’s not sugarcoated. It’s not trendy. It’s honest.

📣 FINAL ASK

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This week on the Swingz Podcast, Drew & Erika sit down with JustaBarbi and DaddyChev — two creators who look intimidating as hell at first glance… and then completely flip the script once you actually get to know them.

What started as skepticism before a Florida trip turned into one of the most eye-opening weeks we’ve had in the lifestyle. We talk first impressions, content creation, long-term ambition, “Dommy Mommy” energy, traveling for collabs, and why vibes matter more than appearances every single time.

If you’ve ever judged someone too quickly — or been judged yourself — this episode hits home.

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🧠 What We Cover in This Episode

Why JustaBarbi & DaddyChev are constantly misread

Traveling for collabs and what it reveals about people

How Florida changed everyone’s perspective

“Dommy Mommy” explained (confidence vs control)

Choosing collabs intentionally to avoid burnout

Long-term growth vs chasing short-term hype

AVN prep, ambition, and playing the long game

Why vibes beat looks every damn time

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🥂 EPISODE OVERVIEW

This week, we’re breaking down two chaotic nights at the LifeInStyleSTL New Year’s Eve takeover — glass-walled hotel rooms, wild energy, questionable food decisions, emotional moments, and the kind of stories you only get when you put open-minded people together for 48 straight hours.

From Drew driving four hours for a hookup, to Erika powering through New Year’s Eve while feeling like absolute trash, to dance floors, orgies, masquerade vibes, and everything in between — this episode is a full, unfiltered NYE recap.

If you’ve ever wondered what lifestyle hotel takeovers are really like… this one’s for you.

🕛 WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE

• Two-night swinger hotel takeovers
• LifeInStyleSTL NYE party recap (Night 1 & Night 2)
• Holiday chaos & four Christmas celebrations
• Golf, hookups, and questionable decisions
• Lifestyle lingo: Brat / Bratty explained
• Emotional New Year’s moments
• AVN voting & why it actually matters
• Hot or Not: two-day events vs bad party food
• Drew’s Words of Wisdom on confidence & posture

🎟️ UPCOMING EVENT – LifeInStyleSTL

🖤 Black Party Meet & Greet
📅 January 23, 2026
📍 Soulard, St. Louis
💵 $28.99 per couple | 👠 Single ladies FREE

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💸 Use promo code: SWINGZFEST to save

Meet & Greets are where friendships start — no pressure, no expectations, just real conversations.

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