New year… mid-January… and we are still building the goal list. In this episode we laugh about past goals (guitar, pull-ups, and “oops we already accomplished that one”) while getting real about why “resolutions” usually crash and burn.

The big takeaway: behaviors and habits beat wishful goal statements every time. We also talk about God’s mercy being new every morning, what to do when you fall off track, and how storms can either push you away from God or pull you closer.

Here is the devotional throught the Bible podcase resource that we refrenced.

Side by Side Podcast (Keith Birdsong) - Bible in a year resource:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/side-by-side/id1720544667

Highlights

• The difference between dreaming and doing
• Why discipline beats motivation (every time)
• “Do the thing” and stop living in prep mode
• Simple, repeatable habits that move your life forward
• Why God’s mercy being “new every morning” matters when you mess up your goals
• “Rule of Five” style consistency: small daily actions over big emotional resolutions
• Three storms in Scripture, three different reactions, and what that reveals in us

Timestamps (approx.)

• 00:01 New Year goals, fresh starts, and why habits win
• 06:30 Monica’s favorite annual goal: reading the Bible through
• 07:30 Resource shoutout: Side by Side podcast (Keith Birdsong)
• 12:30 The gym resolution crash and why “January 11” is the danger zone
• 15:30 “New mercies” and restarting when you fail
• 19:30 Pull-ups, travel, and why inconvenience kills vague goals
• 23:00 “Do the thing” (thinking, posting, prepping is not doing)
• 28:00 Storm seasons and what they reveal about our walk with God
• 33:30 Maxwell’s “Rule of Five” and taking five swings a day
• 36:11 Why we don’t love the word “resolutions”
• 37:36 The danger of not writing goals at all (even simple ones)

Scriptures and Biblical Moments Referenced

• Lamentations 3:22-23 (His mercies are new every morning)
• Jonah (storm, surrender, and God using the mess anyway)
• Jesus calming the storm (“Peace, be still”)
• Paul’s storm and shipwreck (and the viper on the island, Acts 27-28)
• Mentions/allusions to:
  • “Unto whom much is given, much is required”
  • “More than conquerors”
  • “I can do all things through Christ…”

Takeaways to Apply This Week

• Pick one tree (one focus) instead of swinging at everybody else’s trees.
• Define the tool (what actually works) and the five swings (daily actions).
• If you fell off track, don’t wait for next year. Restart tomorrow.
• Replace “I want to…” with “I do this on these days…”

Question to Reflect On

What is the thing you keep planning, talking about, or researching… but you still haven’t actually started?

Closing

If you’re in a storm, just know God will get glory through it. The question is whether we fight Him through the process or surrender and find peace in it.

Thanks for listening and hanging with us. We’re grateful for you.

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In this special Christmas Eve episode, Luke and Monica share the story they’ve been building toward since the beginning of the podcast—the moment that quietly changed everything.

What started as a simple Christmas card on Christmas Eve 2023 became the spark for deeper conversation, unexpected connection, and a relationship formed in the middle of grief, faith, and uncertainty.

This episode is raw, reflective, and full of heart as Luke and Monica walk through:

• Why this Christmas Eve story mattered so deeply to both of them
• How grief can make the holidays feel both heavy and holy at the same time
• The power of a thoughtful gesture at exactly the right moment
• How God often works behind the scenes when life feels like it’s falling apart
• Why “falling apart” can actually mean things are falling into place
• Navigating love, loss, and faith after deep grief
• A fresh perspective on remarriage, memories, and honoring the past without erasing it

Luke also shares a meaningful reflection on the first Christmas, drawing parallels between Mary and Joseph’s disrupted plans and the way God still brought beauty, purpose, and redemption through the chaos.

This episode is not a Hallmark movie—but it is real.
It’s about peace in uncertainty, hope in grief, and the quiet ways God writes stories we could never plan ourselves.

If you’re walking through a hard season this Christmas, or if the holidays feel different than they used to, this episode is for you.

🎄 Merry Christmas & Happy Christmas Eve from the Silver Lining Podcast 🎄

In today’s episode, Luke & Monica take listeners into one of the most tender conversations yet — navigating grief, mourning, and the holiday season when life looks nothing like you expected.

Thanksgiving week can bring joy, memories, and celebration…
but it can also magnify loss, loneliness, and the reality of a life you didn’t plan for.

Both hosts share openly from their own stories:

• Luke walking through the loss of his wife, Alicia, in 2023
• Monica navigating the shock of divorce, depression, and rebuilding after being left in 2020

This episode dives into the difference between grieving (internal) and mourning (external), why both are biblical, and how to give yourself permission to feel what you need to feel — especially this time of year.

You’ll hear stories of first holidays after loss, expectations vs. reality, and how some traditions stayed the same… while others had to change completely. You’ll also hear practical, grace-filled thoughts for walking through Thanksgiving and Christmas when joy and sadness sit side by side.

What We Talk About in This Episode

• Why grief often hits hardest during the holidays
• The difference between grieving and mourning — and why both matter
• How Luke and Monica processed their first holiday seasons after loss
• The pressure of “holiday cheer” when your heart is still healing
• How to change traditions without losing meaning
• Why anger, tears, numbness, and confusion are all normal
• How to avoid unhealthy coping mechanisms during grief
• What it looks like to grieve with grace
• Practical steps to navigate Thanksgiving or Christmas when you’re hurting

Scriptures Mentioned

Romans 8:28 (KJV)
“And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.”

Psalm 30:5 (KJV)
“Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.”

Matthew 5:4 (KJV)
“Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.”

Philippians 4:7 (KJV)
“And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”

Isaiah 26:3 (KJV)
“Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee…”

Ecclesiastes 3:4 (KJV)
“A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance.”

Key Takeaways

• Grief is the internal feeling. Mourning is the external expression.
  You need both for healthy healing.
• You can’t heal what you won’t feel.
  Ignoring emotions doesn’t protect you — it just delays the process.
• Holidays may require doing things differently this year.
  That’s not failure. That’s wisdom.
• You don’t have to be the strong one. Jesus already volunteered for that.
• The life you’re living may not be the one you planned — and God can still work good in it.

How to Walk Through the Holidays With Grace

• Keep one tradition
• Change one tradition
• Let go of one expectation
• Rest in one intentional way
• Give yourself permission to cry, process, talk, and breathe

If This Episode Hit Home…

You’re not alone.
You’re not behind.
You’re not failing.

You’re human — and Jesus is close to the brokenhearted.
We pray this conversation brings comfort, clarity, and encouragement as you enter Thanksgiving and Christmas.

Thank you for listening, sharing, and letting us walk through these seasons with you. We are so grateful for each of you.

When you are walking through grief, divorce, or a hard season, people talk.

Some mean well and still hurt you. Others do not mean well at all. Rumors, opinions, and half-truths start flying, and suddenly it’s not just your circumstances that hurt — it’s the words surrounding them.

In this episode of Silver Lining with Luke & Monica, we talk honestly about how to handle hurtful words, gossip, and assumptions while you’re “in the fire,” and how to respond without losing your peace.

Luke shares about navigating comments and misunderstandings after Alicia’s death, and Monica opens up about the stigma and opinions that came with divorce. Together, they walk through how Philippians 4:8 can become a filter for your mind, not just a “positive thinking” verse, and why you don’t have to internalize everything people say.

We also tell the lighthearted Toys for Tots matchmaking story that accidentally exposed Monica’s first “I think I like Luke” moment… and yes, the infamous Awana tunic night. Humor, grief, awkwardness, and Scripture all show up in this one.

If you’ve ever wrestled with what people say about you, this conversation is for you.

🎵 Song referenced in this episode:
“You Say” by Lauren Daigle
https://youtu.be/sIaT8Jl2zpI?si=QBmkEVkwPDhEr7Ez

In This Episode, We Talk About:

• Why hard seasons attract rumors and opinions
• A funny Toys for Tots story that revealed Monica’s feelings for Luke
• How grief and remarriage intersect with others’ assumptions
• Why talking about a loved one who passed can bring healing
• Hearing things about you instead of to you
• Using Philippians 4:8 as a filter for your mind
• Setting boundaries with people who keep you stuck in negativity
• Divorce, taking sides, and the pain of misrepresentation
• Reacting vs responding when words sting
• Dr. Jim Rushing’s “three days with the Trinity” rule
• Internal vs external processors in marriage
• Not internalizing what isn’t true
• Anchoring your identity in Christ instead of opinions
• Praying for those who hurt you
• Becoming an encourager in a world with very little encouragement

Scripture References

• Philippians 4:8
• Proverbs 4:23
• Proverbs 13:10
• Matthew 5:44
• Lamentations 3:22–23
• John 10:10

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When you’re walking through the dark—grief, divorce, loss, or the fog of transition—it’s easy to ask, “What now? Who am I?”

In this episode, Luke and Monica open their journals and hearts to talk about what it means to seek first the Kingdom of God when life doesn’t make sense. They share how worship, serving, and stewarding your inputs and outputs can help you find peace in the middle of pain.

You’ll laugh through their candy-tax stories, nod along with their honesty about grief, and be reminded that God can redeem any story for His glory—even yours.

They unpack real-life faith through three simple rhythms for hard seasons:

• Sing through it – worship when it hurts.
• Serve through it – love others even while healing.
• Steward through it – guard what you pour in and what you pour out.

With Scripture, personal stories, and a lot of laughter, Luke and Monica remind us that faith isn’t about pretending everything’s fine—it’s trusting God when it’s not.

If you’re in a valley and need hope, this one’s for you.


🎧 Listen now for practical encouragement, biblical truth, and a good laugh from two people who know what it’s like to find Jesus in the storm.

📖 Matthew 6:33 – “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”


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In this episode of The Silver Lining Podcast with Luke and Monica, the conversation gets real about peace, counsel, and confusion — and how to recognize God’s voice when everyone else seems to have an opinion.

Monica opens up about a pivotal season in her life, when dating, divorce recovery, and godly counsel all collided. She shares the peace she felt after ending a relationship that “looked right” but wasn’t right — and the unexpected moment she was called into her pastor’s office for a difficult conversation that left her seeking clarity and confirmation from God’s Word.

Luke and Monica unpack what it really means to:

• Trust God’s peace over people’s approval
• Receive godly counsel without outsourcing your relationship with God
• Discern between “good intentions” and “God’s direction”
• Understand that confusion isn’t from God — peace is
• See how necessary endings can lead to divine beginnings

Scripture references:
1 Corinthians 14:33 • 2 Timothy 1:7 • John 10:10 • Proverbs 11:14 • Psalm 1:1–2 • Isaiah 26:3

Key Quotes:

Whether you’re walking through a breakup, trying to find wisdom in relationships, or just learning to quiet the noise and listen for God’s peace — this one will speak straight to your heart.

Listen in, laugh a little, and leave with clarity that only comes from the Prince of Peace.


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You can be right where God wants you—living by faith—and still feel deeply uncomfortable… yet completely at peace in His presence. In this episode, Monica reads never-before-shared journal entries (Aug 13, 2023 & Sept 10, 2023) from the week of Alicia’s hospitalization and the weeks that followed. We talk through grief, gratitude, and how God’s peace guarded our hearts even when circumstances didn’t make sense.

Mentioned in this episode (song): https://youtu.be/OqjGT9BSyJA?si=z9uU0cYGQ80X1bYn

Key idea: Peace isn’t the absence of discomfort; it’s the presence of God in the middle of it.

Scriptures referenced (KJV):
Philippians 4:6–7 • Isaiah 26:3 • John 14:27 • Proverbs 3:5–6 • Hebrews 11:8 • 2 Timothy 1:7 • James 1:2–4 • Psalm 37:23–24 • Romans 15:13 • Psalm 46:10

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Summary
Today we talk about the surprising personal benefit of interceding—praying on behalf of others. From Jesus and the Holy Spirit interceding for us to the command for believers to pray “for all men,” we share how God used prayer to carry our family through grief, build compassion, bring peace, and draw our hearts closer to Him. Monica shares how a simple burden to pray became a lifeline, and Luke unpacks why intercession strengthens both the person praying and the people being prayed for.

Key Scriptures (KJV)
• 1 Timothy 2:1 — A call to supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks for all.
• Romans 8:26–27 — The Spirit maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
• Hebrews 7:25 — Jesus ever liveth to make intercession.
• John 17 — Jesus’ prayer for His disciples and for us.
• Ezekiel 22:30 — God seeks someone to stand in the gap.
• Job 42:10 — The Lord turned Job’s captivity when he prayed for his friends.
• James 5:16 — Pray one for another… the effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
• Philippians 4:6–7 — Prayer and supplication lead to the peace of God.

What We Cover
• What intercession means (standing in the gap; intentional, compassionate prayer)
• How praying for others deepens intimacy with God and builds empathy
• Why intercession often brings unexpected personal peace
• The “Job effect”: blessing and growth that follow praying for others
• Unity in the church when we carry each other’s burdens in prayer
• Our story: how a burden to pray became part of God’s provision

Listener Takeaways
• Start a simple daily list of 3 people to intercede for by name.
• Pray especially for the ones who are hard to love—watch how God changes your heart.
• Celebrate answered prayer with the people you’ve been praying for; it strengthens community.