Episodi

  • Pleasure, Power, and Purpose
    Feb 17 2026

    In this episode of Sex in Color, we step into the theme of Pleasure, Power, and Purposea phrase rooted in the Sunflower Expos mission and a perfect foundation for this season of Pleasure Futurism.

    Im joined by Malia Lazu, a certified sex therapy practitioner, award-winning strategist, and the founder of Sunflower Spa, a sexual wellness sanctuary designed to empower womxn of all backgrounds and help them reclaim their pleasure and confidence. A former DEI business consultant and MIT Sloan lecturer, Malia spent years working with leaders before realizing she wanted to create impact beyond the corporate worldsupporting communities of color in a different way. Her early career included political organizing, and today her mission is rooted in one powerful truth: pleasure is political.

    Together, we explore why so many high-achieving Black women struggle to connect to pleasure, how survival mode disconnects us from our bodies, and why pleasureand restare forms of resistance. We also share practical techniques for slowing down, reconnecting, and building a pleasure practice that feels intentional, embodied, and liberating.

    Malia creates sex-positive classes, pop-up events, workshops, and retreats exploring pleasure, sexual health, menopause, and healing across generations. She has been recognized as one of Essence Magazines 50 Founders to Watch (2017), one of Boston Business Journals Women Who Mean Business (2019), and one of Boston Magazines 100 Most Influential Bostonians (2021).

    This conversation is for every Black woman who has been carrying the worldand is ready to finally come home to herself.

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    55 min
  • Bumpin' and Grindin': Navigating Pregnancy and Postpartum Sex
    Mar 30 2023

    Hey Sexperts! Welcome back to another episode of Sex in Color, the podcast where we explore the colorful world of sex and sexuality. I'm your host, Aydrelle Collins, MS, LPC, and I'm excited to be joined by a very special guest today, Courtney Butts LCSW. This week's episode is all about pregnancy, from the joys of postpartum to the changes in our bodies and of course, sex! We'll be sharing our own experiences and discussing some of the challenges that come with being sexually active during pregnancy. But that's not all - I'll also be sharing a personal story of how I almost met my untimely demise, all in the name of pleasure! So you definitely don't want to miss this episode. Tune in on The Alive Podcast network or wherever you listen to podcasts. And don't forget to leave us a review if you enjoy the show!

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    52 min
  • Books,Bangers and Bisexuality
    Mar 22 2023

    Hey Sexperts! Today on the pod, I am joined by Ross Victory, an award-winning author and singer/songwriter, to talk about his experiences as a bisexual Black man. Ross shares his journey of self-discovery and authenticity as a bisexual man, and how he navigates dating as a Bisexual Black man. We delve into the intersectionality of his I identity, and the challenges he has faced in terms of societal expectations and stigma around bisexuality. Throughout the conversation, Ross also shares his insights on the representation of bisexuality in media and literature, and the importance of diverse narratives in shaping societal attitudes towards bisexuality. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation about bisexuality and identity in the Black community, and the power of representation through media and storytelling. Don't forget to subscribe on The Alive Podcast Network or wherever you get your podcasts to never miss an episode.

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    41 min
  • Ain’t That Some Shit
    Mar 14 2023

    On this episode of Sex in Color, I sit down with sex therapist Renea Hunter to discuss the sensitive topic of trauma and how it affects sexual experiences. We delve into the importance of effective communication with a partner to create a safe and comfortable environment for exploration. To top it off, Renea gifts us with a sultry and thought-provoking erotic poem. Don't miss out on this insightful and sexy episode, and make sure to subscribe to Sex in Color on The Alive Podcast Network for more!

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    33 min
  • From Birth Certificate to Girth Certificate: A Trans Journey with Jaymie Jamieson
    Mar 7 2023

    Hey sexperts! This week, I sit down with Jaymie Jamieson, an Asian trans man, to discuss his transition journey. From hormone therapy to surgery, Jaymie shares his experiences and challenges along the way. We also delve into the topic of dating as a trans person, and how it has affected his relationships. Plus, Jaymie sheds light on what a "girth certificate" is and why it's important. Don't miss this insightful and entertaining conversation. Subscribe to Sex in Color on The Alive Podcast Network for ad-free listening.

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    43 min
  • TheFlyDuo
    Feb 28 2023

    Hey sexperts! This week, I sit down with two of the flyest people Reubenand Sherri Johnson or as they are know as TheFlyDuo. This week we talk about their journey to building a sex positive pleasure focused media branding agency, sex tech, pleasure, intersectionality and there is even a shout out to the furry community. Listen and subscribe now.

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    49 min
  • Conversations with a male sex therapist
    Feb 21 2023

    Hey sexperts! This week, I sit down with Kelvin Pace, Kelvin is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Therapist and one of only 5 Black Certified Sex Therapy supervior in America. We talk about everything from sexual dysfunction in veterans, polyamory, religion and how I can be a cool mom to 15 year old.

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    23 min
  • Intimate Partner Surrogacy
    Feb 14 2023

    Join me as I sit down with Dr. Tanginika Cuascud, a renowned expert on intimate partner surrogacy, for an enlightening conversation about the ins and outs of this exciting field. Discover what intimate partner surrogacy is and what it isn't, as we delve into the intricacies of this fascinating topic. But that's not all! Dr. Cuascud shares with us her unique perspective as a woman of color in the field, and how her background has helped her connect with her clients and support them in their surrogacy journeys. Get ready for a fun and informative ride as we explore the world of intimate partner surrogacy!

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    32 min