👉 Join the community at rewiredexperience.com and walk with us as we turn stress into fuel, strengthen our faith, and discover our God-given purpose.

🎙️ In this powerful episode of Rewired Experience Podcast, Kyle Stoy breaks his month-long silence to address the obstacle of comparison—a trap that derailed his momentum and nearly kept him from his calling. Drawing from his journey as a retired SWAT officer, combat veteran, entrepreneur, and now faith-driven leader, Kyle shares how chasing the wrong metrics and trying to fit an image created confusion, burnout, and doubt about continuing the podcast.

Instead of quitting, Kyle leaned deeper into his faith in Christ. He reveals how embracing Scripture and surrendering his plans gave him clarity, direction, and a renewed sense of purpose. This episode explores what it means to:

• ✝️ Die to yourself daily (1 Corinthians 15:31)

• ✝️ Pick up your cross and follow Jesus (Luke 9:23)

• 🔥 Break free from comparison and labels that keep you stuck

• 🌍 Find identity not in achievements, but in who God created you to be

Kyle shares openly about his struggles, the temptation to chase numbers and algorithms, and the trap of measuring success through comparison. Through his story, you’ll learn why comparison is one of the greatest spiritual obstacles—and how to overcome it by walking in obedience to Christ and stepping boldly into your identity.

This isn’t just another motivational talk. It’s a call to live differently:

✅ To reject the world’s labels.

✅ To stop chasing status and instead embrace God’s design.

✅ To find freedom and clarity by walking daily with Christ.

🚨 Key Topics in This Episode:

• Why comparison robs you of peace and purpose.

• How chasing the wrong image led to confusion and doubt.

• The biblical call to self-denial, surrender, and obedience.

• How to realign your life with your identity in Christ.

• Why building faith-driven community is more important than ever.

Kyle also unpacks his decision to bring his faith more boldly into the podcast—choosing to be transparent about his spiritual journey, his struggles, and the lessons God is teaching him. For anyone feeling stuck, burned out, or unsure of their next step, this episode will remind you that clarity comes through surrender, and strength comes through faith.

✨ Whether you’re a first responder, veteran, entrepreneur, or simply someone fighting through the struggles of life—this conversation will challenge you to stop comparing and start living in your true calling.

🔗 Join the Movement

Be part of the Rewired Experience community at rewiredexperience.com. Inside, you’ll find:

• Free access to the Rewired Experience Framework (Take a Knee, Drink Water, Reshoot Your Azimuth, Charlie Mike).

• Courses and resources to help you shift perspective, change inputs, and walk in purpose.

• A growing network of people committed to faith, growth, and transformation.

📲 Follow Kyle on Instagram: @rewired__experience

What if the greatest obstacle keeping you stuck… is the belief that it’s not your fault?

In this episode of The Hot Wash series from Rewired Experience Podcast, combat veteran and retired SWAT sergeant Kyle Stoy dismantles one of the most seductive traps of all: Victimhood. Through personal stories, political analysis, and psychological insight, Kyle exposes how the identity of a victim is manufactured, monetized, and weaponized—to keep people dependent, disempowered, and disconnected from real transformation.

🧠 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How victimhood gives you someone to blame, so you never take ownership

• The hidden danger of accepting medical, mental health, or social labels as your identity

• Why the system rewards you for staying broken—but punishes growth

• How Kyle rejected a PTSD diagnosis during his medical retirement to avoid being labeled a “disabled veteran”

• Why anxiety, panic attacks, and mental distress often have physical root causes—and how to address them

• The Mouse Utopia Experiment and its eerie parallels to modern cultural collapse

• How authoritarian regimes strategically use victimhood narratives to divide and control the population

• A roadmap to reclaiming your identity, your agency, and your mission

🔥 Powerful Personal Story Highlight:

When Kyle returned from Afghanistan and began the medical retirement process, he was offered a label: PTSD. Repeatedly. Despite real physical injuries and some anxiety symptoms, he refused to accept the “disabled veteran” identity because he understood that labels—especially ones tied to money, comfort, or protection—can become cages.

He later discovered that much of his anxiety wasn’t emotional—it was metabolic. Poor nutrition, hormone imbalance, and physical inflammation were fueling symptoms the system wanted to medicate or compensate.

That was the moment he realized:

Victimhood isn’t about truth. It’s about control.

🧬 Big Picture Insight:

Victimhood isn’t just personal—it’s political.

Authoritarian regimes have always followed the same playbook:

1. Create a victim class

2. Label an enemy (the “oppressors”)

3. Collapse the middle ground

4. Expand central control under the banner of justice

By convincing individuals to adopt victim identities—neurodivergent, trauma survivor, oppressed minority, etc.—regimes disarm personal accountability and fuse identity with grievance.

This episode will open your eyes to how that same dynamic shows up in YOUR life.

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🎯 This episode is for you if:

✔ You’ve ever struggled with blaming others or feeling powerless

✔ You’ve been labeled—and started believing it

✔ You’re a veteran, first responder, entrepreneur, or someone in transition

✔ You’re tired of feeling stuck, and ready to take your power back

✔ You believe healing is your responsibility—even when it wasn’t your fault

🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or say:

“Alexa, play Rewired Experience Podcast.

💻 Visit RewiredExperience.com to join the movement, access free tools, and connect with others reclaiming their purpose and power.

📲 Follow Kyle on Instagram and YouTube: @rewiredexperience

🎙️ Subscribe for more episodes of The Hot Wash—where we break down the 15 tactical obstacles keeping you from healing, growth, and purpose.

Reclaim your identity. Reject the label. Continue the mission.

Charlie Mike.

🎙️ Rewired Experience Podcast – The Hot Wash Series

“You think you’re protecting yourself by pulling away—but you’re actually cutting yourself off from the lifeline.”

In this episode of The Hot Wash, Kyle Stoy, a retired SWAT team member, combat veteran, and 7-figure entrepreneur, opens up about the insidious trap of isolation—how it nearly derailed his life after a devastating injury, and how it continued to echo through his law enforcement career and entrepreneurial journey.

Kyle shares the real cost of trying to “handle it alone,” including a raw story he began unpacking in the Shame episode: recovering from a traumatic injury, developing a pharmaceutical dependency, and hiding behind leadership status while emotionally drowning. He then breaks down how isolation showed up in uniform—struggling to relate to civilians after seeing the worst parts of humanity—and how it later resurfaced as a business owner trying to carry the weight of a mission no one else could fully understand.

You’ll learn how isolation compounds the effects of other psychological obstacles like shame, denial, and comfort—and how recognizing that cycle is the first step in breaking free.

If you’ve ever felt like no one could possibly relate to what you’re going through… this episode is for you.

🔑 In this episode:

• The hidden link between shame and isolation

• Why first responders, veterans, and entrepreneurs are especially vulnerable

• How comfort and denial kickstart a cycle that ends in emotional exile

• Why high performers often suffer in silence

• The practical systems Kyle uses to reconnect—with his mission, his family, and his team

🧠 Listener Takeaways:

• Isolation doesn’t start with silence. It starts with pain that feels too heavy to share.

• You’re not weak for needing connection. You’re human.

• Reconnection starts with removing friction—making it easy to show up, open up, and plug back in.

🎧 This episode is part of The Hot Wash, an exclusive audio series where Kyle breaks down 15 spiritual and psychological obstacles—originally inspired by asking ChatGPT: If you were the devil, how would you keep people stuck?

💥 The first 3 obstacles—Comfort, Denial, and Fear—are available in full video on Kyle’s YouTube channel. But the rest of the series is audio-only.

💬 Want more?

Join the Rewired Experience Skool group for free courses, support, and resources to help you turn stress into fuel and reclaim your purpose:

👉 https://rewiredexperience.com

🗣️ “Alexa, play Rewired Experience Podcast”

What if the story you’re most ashamed of… is the one that could set someone else free?

In this deeply personal episode of The Hot Wash, host Kyle Stoy—a combat veteran, former SWAT operator, and mitochondrial health coach—opens up about a chapter of his life he’s never shared publicly in this much depth: his quiet battle with addiction, shame, and the inherited weight of generational trauma.

After surviving an IED blast in Afghanistan and nearly losing his leg, Kyle was prescribed heavy pain medications—including a Dilaudid drip during extended hospitalization. Upon release, the medications continued—along with emotional isolation. Alone in a recovery dorm, technically still in charge as a lieutenant, Kyle spiraled.

What followed wasn’t a dramatic overdose or rock bottom—it was something more common, more dangerous, and more silent:

👉 Holed up in a dark room

👉 Playing video games

👉 Taking his meds

👉 And avoiding everyone

But what kept him stuck wasn’t just the addiction—it was the shame of knowing he came from a family line that struggled with the same thing. A mother with a history of drug use. A father who died from alcoholic liver failure. And now… him.

The shame told him to hide. To self-manage. To suffer in silence.

But someone noticed. Someone checked on him. And that moment of honest confrontation became the first step back to light.

• How shame convinces high performers to suffer in silence

• The invisible way addiction creeps in during recovery and trauma

• Why acknowledging your truth is the strongest move you can make

• The power of reframing emotion instead of repressing it

• How to disrupt shame’s narrative and rewrite the belief

Whether you’re facing addiction, anxiety, depression, or isolation—this episode reminds you: you’re not alone, and your story is not your identity.

Join the Rewired Experience Skool community at:

🌐 https://rewiredexperience.com

Inside, you’ll access:

• ✅ Free mindset training, courses, and emotional reframing tools

• ✅ The full Rewired Experience Framework (Take a Knee, Drink Water, Reshoot Your Azimuth, Charlie Mike)

• ✅ A growing community of high performers, warriors, and everyday people who refuse to stay stuck
  

The Hot Wash is a tactical debrief series within the Rewired Experience Podcast—created to dismantle the 15 psychological and spiritual obstacles designed to keep you from living with clarity, conviction, and mission.

Past episodes include:

• Comfort – The illusion that makes you settle

• Denial – The refusal to name the real problem

• Fear – The lie that keeps you from taking the next step

• Distraction – The noise that drowns out your direction

• Perfectionism – The lie that says “not yet” forever

Now, in Episode 6, we take on the obstacle that rewrites identity and kills progress from the inside: Shame.

🎙️ Rewired Experience Podcast is hosted by Kyle Stoy—Purple Heart recipient, health coach, retired SWAT operator, father, and founder of the Rewired Experience Framework. His mission? Help people turn stress into fuel—and Continue the Mission.

🔔 Subscribe now, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear that their story isn’t over.

You are not your worst day. You are who you choose to become after it. Charlie Mike.

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The Perfection Trap: Why “Almost Ready” Is the Most Dangerous Place to Be

The Hot Wash | Rewired Experience Podcast – Episode 5

Are you constantly refining, polishing, and preparing—but never actually launching?

This episode exposes Obstacle #5: Perfectionism, and how it traps high performers in a loop of productivity that looks impressive—but leads nowhere.

Host Kyle Stoy unpacks the truth behind perfectionism:

✅ It’s not excellence. It’s fear in disguise.

✅ It manifests in “preparation loops”—where you’re always getting ready, but never going.

✅ It creates polished shells of people who have disengaged from their mission.

And the most haunting metaphor of all?

Kyle parallels this eerie phenomenon with what he’s seen in elite circles: high performers stuck in high-responsibility hiding.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why perfectionism is disengagement in disguise

• How the desire to “get it just right” keeps you from ever getting started

• Why launching messy is the only way to reach mastery

• The 3-part protocol to escape the perfection loop and Charlie Mike (Continue the Mission)

🔗 Want to read the full “Mouse Utopia” study referenced in this episode?

Here’s the original research by John B. Calhoun:

📖 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1644264/

🎯 Next steps:

📥 Download the free Take a Knee eBook → https://rewiredexperience.com

💬 Join the private Skool group for coaching, accountability, and community

🎙️ Rewired Experience Podcast is where warriors, leaders, and everyday people learn to turn stress into fuel and reclaim their purpose.

Each episode of The Hot Wash walks through one of 15 psychological obstacles keeping people stuck—and how to fight back, one phase line at a time.

🎧 Hit play. Break the loop. Launch anyway.

⚔️ Charlie Mike—Continue the Mission.

The Beautiful Ones—a group of mice in a behavioral collapse study who, despite abundant resources, stopped reproducing, stopped engaging, and spent their lives endlessly grooming themselves.They looked perfect. But they were empty. And their perfectionism helped collapse the entire population.

What happens when the thing you’re best at suddenly breaks under pressure?

In this raw and powerful episode of the Rewired Experience Podcast, Kyle shares his personal journey from being the top marksman in his police academy to experiencing performance anxiety during a real-world active shooter incident—and how it nearly broke him. But it wasn’t just about firearms training. It was about chasing validation versus choosing purpose.

Kyle reveals how this mindset shift—from chasing outcomes to choosing the process—helped him recover, rebuild, and reclaim the joy in something he once loved.

If you’re a high-performer struggling with burnout, self-doubt, or feeling like you’ve lost your edge, this episode will hit hard. Learn how to reframe your failure, reconnect to your passion, and choose challenge over comparison.

🎯 In this episode:

• The danger of tying your identity to performance

• Why chasing validation kills progress

• How to reframe pressure and anxiety into growth

• The surprising mindset shift that reignited Kyle’s passion
  

👊 Whether you’re a veteran, first responder, entrepreneur, or athlete—this is your invitation to stop chasing and start choosing.

🎧 Subscribe, share, and join the community at rewiredexperience.com

You’ve heard it a thousand times—“Nobody wants to work anymore.” But what if that phrase isn’t just recycled criticism… what if it’s true?

In this thought-provoking episode of the Rewired Experience Podcast, host Kyle Stoy reacts to two powerful videos:

🔹 A timeline of politicians, business owners, and media from the early 1900s to today all claiming “the next generation is lazy.”

🔹 A clip from 1923 where pioneers resist the first electric appliances because they knew convenience could cost them their freedom.

Kyle doesn’t just react—he reframes. This episode unpacks how each generation has traded grit for comfort, how technology like AI can be a tool or a trap, and why the real divide isn’t rich vs. poor… it’s accountable vs. unaccountable.

🔥 Whether you’re Gen Z, Millennial, or Gen X, this episode will challenge you to ask:

Are you using modern conveniences to build more—or to do less?

🧭 Join the movement at RewiredExperience.com and connect with a community that believes in turning comfort into purpose and pressure into fuel.

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