*Note from Mark and Jill: We’re so glad to share that the No More Perfect Podcast is now available on YouTube!

“Mom, don’t be foolish. He’s just going to do this again.”

Broken trust affects more than just your spouse. There’s a ripple effect that goes out and changes every relationship, from your children to your relatives, close friendships, and even neighbors.

We know that, when recovering from infidelity and broken trust, it can be difficult to know how to start mending the fractures that the betrayal has caused within your social circle. That’s why, in this conversation, we will be giving you a structure you can follow to start repairing those relationships that have been damaged. This is part three in our four-part series, Recovering from Infidelity and Broken Trust. If you haven’t already done so, we encourage you to go back and listen to parts one and two here.

As you pursue reconciliation, it doesn’t happen all at once. It may take weeks, months, or even years to fully restore all the relationships that have been damaged. However, it’s imperative that you start with your spouse, then your children, and then move out to the “outer circles.”

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• A blueprint for where reconciliation should begin
• What it means to have a “safe conversation”
• Advice for the spouse who still thinks about their affair partner
• And more!

As we continue in this series, we hope it is an encouragement and resource for anyone who is navigating reconciliation!

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I Really Messed Up: https://amzn.to/4sJ81Lg

Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/recovering-from-infidelity-282

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• Mark and Jill’s Marriage Story
• Marriage Coaching
• Marriage 2.0 Intensives
• Speaking Schedule
• Book Mark and Jill to Speak
• Online Courses
• Books

Marriage Resources:

• Infidelity Recovery
• For Happy Marriages
• For Hurting Marriages
• For Marriages Where You’re the Only One Wanting to Get Help

Mom Resources:

• New/Preschool Moms
• Moms with Gradeschoolers
• Moms with Teens and Tweens
• Moms with Kids Who Are Launching
• Empty Nest...

*Note from Mark and Jill: We’re so glad to share that the No More Perfect Podcast is now available on YouTube! We love finding new ways to connect with you, and we hope you enjoy the added experience of watching along as you listen.

Have you ever thought:

I don’t love my spouse anymore. Marriage should be easier than this. My spouse doesn’t care about me.

If so, you are not alone. When relationships become rocky, it’s easy for lies like these to consume our minds.

Before someone seriously considers leaving their marriage or cheating on their spouse, there is first a battle in their mind. In our own marriage crisis, Mark thought and believed similar things, which eventually led to him stepping out and leaving our marriage.

What we see every day as marriage coaches is that the same thoughts that nearly destroyed our marriage are destroying marriages all over the world. That’s why, in this conversation, we are continuing our Recovering from Infidelity and Broken Trust series. In case you missed it, you can head back and listen to part one here.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Some of the lies that drive people to consider leaving their marriage
• Why our issues will always follow us to a new relationship
• The essentials of breaking off an affair
• Our personal story navigating infidelity
• And more!

If this topic hit home and you want something practical to dig into, we’ve written three books we want to share with you:

No More Perfect Marriages: https://amzn.to/4bLuwZZ
My Heart is Broken: https://amzn.to/3YQZA32
I Really Messed Up: https://amzn.to/4sJ81Lg

Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/recovering-from-infidelity-281

Join us for 6 weeks of our Great Sexpectations focus in our Date Night membership where we dive deep into intimacy. Sign-up today!

Check out our other resources:

• Mark and Jill’s Marriage Story
• Marriage Coaching
• Marriage 2.0 Intensives
• Speaking Schedule
• Book Mark and Jill to Speak
• Online Courses
• Books

Marriage Resources:

• Infidelity Recovery
• For Happy Marriages
• For Hurting Marriages
• For Marriages Where You’re the Only One Wanting to Get Help

Mom Resources:

• New/Preschool Moms
• Moms with Gradeschoolers
• Moms with Teens and Tweens
• Moms with Kids Who Are Launching
• Empty Nest...

*Note from Mark and Jill: We’re so glad to share that the No More Perfect Podcast is now available on YouTube! We love finding new ways to connect with you, and we hope you enjoy the added experience of watching along as you listen.

“Yes, I’m having an affair, and I’m not going to stop.”

Hearing these words would be absolutely heartbreaking for anyone. But if you’ve ever navigated infidelity, you’re certainly not alone.

The numbers are staggering, really. Statistics indicate that 65% of men and 55% of women cheat before they turn 40, and that both Christians and non-Christians are prone to similar levels of infidelity.

Infidelity and broken trust have been a significant part of our story, as well as the stories of the couples we coach on a regular basis. After 14 years on this journey of recovery and repair, our marriage has come out stronger on the other side. Now, we want to share what we’ve learned in the hopes that it helps others who are going through the same thing.

This is part one of a four-episode series on recovering from infidelity and broken trust. Even if this doesn’t directly apply to you and your relationship, our hope is that it may help you help someone else.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• The four phases of infidelity
• Our personal journey navigating broken trust
• Some factors that contribute to infidelity
• And more!

We hope that this series will be a blessing and encouragement to every couple, regardless of what stage your marriage is in.

If this topic hit home and you want something practical to dig into, we’ve written three books we want to share with you:

No More Perfect Marriages: https://amzn.to/4bLuwZZ
My Heart is Broken: https://amzn.to/3YQZA32
I Really Messed Up: https://amzn.to/4sJ81Lg

Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/recovering-from-in

Join us for 6 weeks of our Great Sexpectations focus in our Date Night membership where we dive deep into intimacy. Sign-up today!

Check out our other resources:

• Mark and Jill’s Marriage Story
• Marriage Coaching
• Marriage 2.0 Intensives
• Speaking Schedule
• Book Mark and Jill to Speak
• Online Courses
• Books

Marriage Resources:

• Infidelity Recovery
• For Happy Marriages
• For Hurting Marriages
• For Marriages Where You’re the Only One Wanting to Get Help

Mom Resources:

• New/Preschool Moms
• Moms with Gradeschoolers
• Moms with Teens and Tweens
• Moms with Kids Who Are Launching
• Empty Nest...