On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam shares a selection of clips from his social media where he has debunked alpha male talking points. This is a collection of shorter videos.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam chats with Freya, a sex coach and educator and host of The Labia Lounge. They discuss her “Find Freya a Fella” hybrid PR/social experiment aimed at finding a partner while documenting modern dating frustrations like app fatigue, micro-rejections, loneliness, and Australia’s “nonchalance” about showing interest. Boycotting apps, she attends Melbourne singles events and practices meeting people “in the wild” by initiating conversations, being more approachable, and building community to counter scarcity mindset. They explore ethical “practice” in approaching strangers, attunement to cues, reducing pressure by reframing dates, and her idea for a “Mates and Dates” mixer. Freya shares mixed results—some dates but no long-term match—plus stigma women face for openly wanting commitment, and where to follow the campaign online.

Key points:

07:08 Why Dating Feels Broken

11:43 Meeting People Offline

15:39 Mindset And Scarcity

18:09 Approaching With Respect

26:43 Results And Stigma

31:21 What Makes A Good Date

38:18 Effort, Nonchalance, and Clarity

51:23 Where To Follow Along

Is OnlyFans Social Media? Intimacy, Ethics, and

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, Cam interviews Monash University research fellow Emily van der Nagel about her research and book on OnlyFans, focusing on media literacy, platform design, and adult content creation. They discuss the centrality of direct messages for intimacy, monetisation, risks of deception, and parasocial harm. They address creator agency, boundary-setting, audience pressure, demographic uncertainty due to platform secrecy, and how AI may reshape authenticity expectations, disclosure, and trust.

Key points:

01:33 Is OnlyFans Social Media?

04:58 Creator Versus Subscriber

06:24 DMs And Money

08:25 Chatbots And Trust

24:53 Ethical Porn Debate

29:09 Leaks And Consent

33:30 Audience Pressure

40:15 AI And The Future