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  • Host Maya Chen examines manners as the fundamental human technology they actually are!

    Host Maya Chen examines manners as the fundamental human technology they actually are!
    Oct 16 2025
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    1 min
  • Manners - The Paradoxes We Live With

    Manners - The Paradoxes We Live With
    Oct 16 2025
    Episode 3: "The Paradoxes We Live With" This episode confronts the irresolvable contradictions built into manners systems. Maya Chen explores tensions between authenticity and artifice, universal principles and cultural specificity, individual freedom and social obligation, equality and hierarchy. The episode presents unsolvable dilemmas where good manners conflict—honesty versus kindness, privacy versus acknowledgment, inclusion versus comfort—and examines how manners get selectively enforced based on gender, race, and class, sometimes weaponized to silence dissent or maintain oppression. Rather than resolving these paradoxes, the episode offers frameworks for living with them: accepting imperfection, extending grace, trusting contextual judgment, and focusing on the meta-rule of acknowledging others' humanity. Manners emerge as messy, contradictory, and essential—systems requiring constant navigation rather than perfect execution.
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    34 min
  • Manners - The Evolution of Expectations

    Manners - The Evolution of Expectations
    Oct 16 2025
    Episode 2: "When Systems Collide" This episode examines what happens when different manners systems crash into each other in everyday life. Maya Chen explores generational conflicts over phones at dinner and email formality, cultural collisions around eye contact and directness, and class-based tensions over punctuality and thank-you notes. The episode reveals how power dynamics determine whose rules prevail and how people from marginalized groups bear the invisible burden of constant code-switching. It traces how rapid social change—from remote work to social media—creates periods where old rules no longer apply but new ones haven't formed. Rather than declaring winners, the episode offers tools for navigating collision: negotiation, flexibility, explicit communication, and approaching differences with curiosity instead of judgment. Manners emerge as living systems perpetually breaking down and rebuilding.
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    22 min
  • Manners - The Rules We Follow Without Knowing Why

    Manners - The Rules We Follow Without Knowing Why
    Oct 16 2025
    Episode 1: "The Rules We Follow Without Knowing Why" This episode explores the fundamental nature of manners as invisible social technology. Maya Chen examines what manners actually are—rules, rituals, and signals that reduce friction in group living—and distinguishes them from etiquette, morals, and ethics. The episode investigates how manners function universally across all cultures while varying wildly in execution, from eye contact norms to personal space expectations. It traces how people learn these unwritten codes through childhood correction, observation, and lifelong calibration, constantly adjusting to new contexts like workplaces and relationships. The episode concludes by examining enforcement mechanisms: the look, gossip, social exclusion, and the internal guilt that makes people self-police even when nobody's watching. Manners emerge as the system humans created to organize group life—impossible to escape, constantly evolving, and deeply embedded in daily behavior.
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    24 min