The fastest way to spot what we actually believe about ourselves is to listen to how we talk about clothes, bodies, and relationships when we’re not trying to sound polished. We start with unfiltered fashion opinions, then shift into something surprisingly useful: what to do on the days you hate everything about your body. We share a simple confidence boost, but we spend more time on the practice that sticks, body neutrality. It’s the step-by-step language that pulls you out of shame and back into reality by naming what your arms, stomach, and legs do for you every single day.

From there, we move into the bigger life questions hiding under “style.” We talk matching sets, leggings as pants, skinny jeans, crop tops, designer bags, and why “no white after Memorial Day” is a rule you can throw away. Underneath the hot takes is a theme: confidence comes from permission and self-trust, not from getting it “right.” That theme shows up again when we talk motherhood, boundaries, and why kids benefit from seeing their mom choose herself sometimes. Martyrdom doesn’t earn a trophy, but balance, communication, and honesty teach your child what a full life looks like.

We also get real about female friendships and modern communication. Assuming you know what someone meant can quietly blow up a relationship, especially when group chats turn playful texts into high-stakes interpretations. We share the sentence that helps repair weird energy, plus thoughts on location sharing, going to bed angry with intention, unfollowing vs muting, and what “high maintenance” can mean when it’s actually self-maintenance. Then we close with a raw story of betrayal, therapy, nervous system fallout, and the long road from heartbreak to building a powerhouse brand.

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Okay, we’re talking about body image today. And whew... this one has layers.

I’ve always believed that how you feel about yourself when you walk out the door matters. Not because you need to look a certain way or fit into some impossible version of “perfect,” but because the way you feel in your own skin has a sneaky little way of touching everything else.

Your confidence. Your choices. Your relationships. Your life.

My body has been through a LOT. Weight gain, weight loss, pregnancy, loose skin, C-sections, mom belly—all of it. And if you’ve followed me or Pebby Forevee for any amount of time, you’ve watched a lot of that happen right alongside me.

But the last time I lost weight, something felt different.

I was genuinely afraid that by choosing my health, I was somehow abandoning the women who had connected with me because of my body. I worried people would think I had changed. That I thought I was better than them. That I was leaving them behind.

And if I’m being really vulnerable? I understood that feeling because I’ve been on the other side of it too.

I’ve watched women I love start choosing themselves, getting healthier, feeling more confident and stepping into a different version of themselves—and instead of only feeling happy for them, sometimes it held up a mirror to all the ways I wasn’t choosing myself.

That’s the conversation today.

Body image. Dysmorphia. Comparison. Identity. Health. Worthiness. And learning that somebody else changing doesn’t mean they’re leaving you behind.

And neither does you changing.

Our bodies are a journey. Mine is. Yours is. And maybe instead of asking each other to stay exactly where we found one another, we can just keep showing up for each other through all the versions.

I’d really love to hear from you on this one: Have you ever felt like someone you related to started changing and suddenly you didn’t know where you fit anymore?

Or have you ever been afraid to change because of what the people around you might think?

Let’s talk about it.

For a really long time, I thought who I was and what I could do for people were basically the same thing.

I could make you laugh. I could build something. I could make things easier. I could show up, perform, produce, give, fix, provide. And somewhere along the way, I learned to attach my value to all of it.

Then I built Pebby.

And for years, Elizabeth and Pebby became so intertwined that I’m not sure I knew where one ended and the other began.

In this episode, I’m talking about what happened when I finally started asking a question that sounds simple but absolutely was not:

Who am I when you take all of that away?

Not the business owner. Not the mom. Not the friend, spouse, partner, helper, achiever or person making everyone else feel good.

Just me.

I get into realizing how much of my life had been built around earning love, the little girl who decided very early that being valuable meant being useful, and why achievement never really fixed the disconnected feeling underneath it all.

And weirdly enough, I’m grateful for so much of it now.

The relationships that didn’t work. The hard seasons. Building a business while carrying things I didn’t even realize I was carrying. Because all of it eventually forced me to figure out who I actually am underneath the performance.

At almost 40, this is brand-new work for me.

And if you’ve ever wondered who you are without what you produce, provide, accomplish or do for everyone else…this one is for you.

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