What actually helps when your hormones are making life harder?
In this episode, we’re getting personal about the things that have challenged us most in our own women’s health journeys—and the things that have actually made a difference.
Mandi and Katie talk about living with PMDD, the impact it can have on relationships and mental health, and what changed when they finally understood the cyclical pattern behind what they were experiencing. We talk SSRIs, HRT, cycle tracking, cycle syncing, boundaries, and learning that the feelings showing up during the luteal phase aren’t automatically invalid just because hormones are involved.
Then Jess shares her experience with PCOS, insulin resistance, missed periods, and discovering precancerous endometrial changes despite feeling completely fine. We get into the care that followed—including a D&C, hormonal IUD, medication, movement, nutrition, and the importance of finding a provider willing to actually investigate what’s going on.
Somewhere along the way, a conversation about vitamin D naturally devolves into perineum sunning because apparently this is who we are. ☀️🍑
Underneath all three stories is one idea we keep coming back to: What if “I’m broken” becomes “I’m curious”?
Understanding what our bodies are doing doesn’t fix everything—but it can give us language, options, agency, and a whole lot less shame.
Content note: This episode includes a brief, non-graphic discussion of suicidal ideation in the context of PMDD and mental health.
Chapters00:00 👋 Welcome to the Chaos
01:31 🌸 Cycle Season Check-In
04:20 🥂 What’s in Your Chalice?
06:54 💜 When Hormones Get Hard: What Actually Helped
07:20 🌙 Mandi: PMDD, Relationships, & Finding Answers
13:31 🧠 Katie: PMDD, Mental Health, & Cycle Syncing
19:55 🩺 Jess: PCOS, Precancer, & Finding What Helps
26:55 ✨ From “I’m Broken” to Curious
29:30 ☀️🍑 Wait… Perineum Sunning?!
31:21 🛒 What’s in Your Cart?
36:23 💜 Stay Curious, Stay Compassionate, & Stay Loca
💌 Dear Loca
Have a question, story, or topic you want us to talk about? Write to us at: mailto:DearLoca@livinglutealloca.com
🐚 Find Jess’s shell creations:
Shirley’s Shell Shop on Etsy — https://www.etsy.com/shop/ShirleyShellShop
A quick note 💜We’re sharing our own experiences and what has helped us—not giving individualized medical advice. Talk with your own healthcare provider about what makes sense for you.
Living Luteal Loca is a podcast about hormones, health, relationships, and all the weird stuff nobody properly prepared us for. We don’t have it all figured out. We have questions, opinions, Google Scholar, and apparently microphones.
Stay curious. Stay compassionate. Stay loca. 💜