In this episode of Let A Bitch Live, I'm joined by Chrissi Harris, host of Found at 40, to talk about getting older, figuring out who we are, and why your 40s might be the perfect time to start editing your life.

Chrissi and I are around the same age, but we're in completely different stages of life when it comes to career and motherhood. She's raising three older kids and beginning to rediscover parts of herself outside of parenting. I'm raising a toddler and still figuring out how to make room for everything I want to do.

We talk about the pressure to have it all, the lives we imagined we would have by 40, and the expectations we're finally ready to let go of. We also get into over-the-top kids' birthday parties, the difference between setting goals at 25 and 40, and why our grandparents always seemed so old.

I'm Cori White, and this conversation reminded me that getting older doesn't mean having everything figured out. Sometimes it means knowing yourself well enough to decide what you're keeping, what you're changing, and what you're no longer interested in doing.

Find Chrissi's podcast, Found at 40, on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, and follow her on Instagram at @foundat40podcast.

Let a Bitch Live is a podcast to get to know cool bitches in their 40s.

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In this episode, I'm talking with my friend Lisa about divorce, dating in your 40s, starting over, and eventually finding a relationship full of green flags.

My friend Lisa loves a jerk.

Well - to be fair to her, she loved a jerk. She's done some work since then.

Lisa went through a divorce in her late 30s and then had to figure out what dating looked like in her 40s as a single mom. And girl, it was a JOURNEY.

We're talking about the parts of divorce she hid from her friends (including ME!) while she was going through it, therapy, co-parenting, dating apps, ghosting, red flags, boundaries, and some men who provided excellent stories for our group chat but were probably not excellent relationship choices.

We also talk about the confidence Lisa has found as she's gotten older and how much her dating experience changed when she got clearer about who she was and what she actually wanted.

And eventually, after years of being attracted to the biggest asshole in the room, she found herself a green flag man.

I'm Cori White, host of Let A Bitch Live, and Lisa is the third of my best friends to sit down with me for one of these conversations. She's funny, vulnerable, unfiltered, and exactly as much of a vibe as I promised she would be.

If you know someone who's going through a divorce, dating after divorce, starting over, or just needs a little of Lisa's bad bitch energy, send her this episode.

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Let a Bitch Live is a podcast to get to know cool bitches in their 40s.

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I'm giving bucket lists a new name: Let A Bitch Live Lists.

In this episode, Cori shares how she creates her seasonal lists and the three guidelines she uses to keep them from becoming another list of things she's "supposed to accomplish."

For fall, she's keeping it to six things. Some involve actually going somewhere and doing something. Others are as simple as getting a really good pumpkin spice latte and taking the time to actually enjoy it.

What makes it "let a bitch live" worthy is being realistic about what will actually be enjoyable. **ENJOYING LIFE** is the point, girl. An Instagram reel of a family having the perfect day at a pumpkin patch doesn't mean hauling your own kids to a pumpkin patch is going to be fun. Sometimes the thing that looks good isn't actually worth the time, money, energy, planning, or toddler wrangling it requires.

Cori shares her own Fall Let A Bitch Live List and the thought process behind what made the list - and what didn't.

Create your own Fall Let A Bitch Live List and share it with Cori on Instagram @letabitchlivepodcast. She wants to see what's making the bitches live this fall.

Let a Bitch Live is a podcast to get to know cool bitches in their 40s.

Follow along and connect with Cori:

• Instagram: instagram.com/letabitchlivepodcast