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Waking up one day and wondering if you're upholding Christian Nationalism is not an easy position to find oneself.

April Ajoy shares her transformative journey from a fundamentalist Christian upbringing to questioning how her faith could include embracing a more inclusive worldview. They discuss the intersections of faith, politics, and sexuality, particularly in the context of Christian nationalism and purity culture.

April reflects on her journey from away right wing extremism via the impact of a a deep personal loss, a few loved one's coming out stories, and the challenges of navigating relationships and sexuality as an adult. Their conversation highlights the importance of self-discovery, the dangers of religion seeking power, and the need for open discussions about sexuality and consent, especially for practicing Christians.

TW: brief discussion of sexual assault - see the chapters for the timing.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to April Ajoy and Her Journey 06:50 Leaving Christian Nationalism Behind 09:50 The Impact of Personal Loss on Faith 10:42 Political Awakening and the Trump Era 15:39 Understanding Christian Nationalism 19:43 The Intersection of Faith and LGBTQ+ Issues 24:41 Coming out close to home 27:13 The Role of Consent in Purity Culture 32:14 TW: Mention of SA 34:42 Reclaiming Autonomy and Sexuality 42:35 Unlearning that "sex is bad" isn't like flipping a light switch 46:06 The Intersection of Purity Culture and Christian Nationalism 52:58 The Dangers of Christian Nationalism today 55:00 Ask Coach Kristen Anything - Do you think DT and Melania still have sex?

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Having trouble navigating the gray abyss of a mediocre relationship? Worried you've fallen into a tolerable level of permanent unhappiness?

In this episode of 'Keep Them Coming', Kristen shares and analyzes Reddit posts about long-term relationships stuck in mediocrity, offering strategies and advice on how to navigate tough decisions. Kristen introduces the 'three doors' option for dealing with relationship dissatisfaction.

Through reflective examples and practical tips, she emphasizes the importance of direct communication, setting boundaries, and prioritizing personal growth post-breakup. The episode wraps up with actionable advice on moving forward and finding happiness after a split.

00:00 Introduction to Keep Them Coming

01:21 Navigating Mediocre Relationships

03:56 The Three Doors Decision-Making Tool

06:26 Reddit Relationship Dilemmas

11:43 Breaking Up with Respect and Clarity

14:51 Moving On and Personal Growth

17:54 Conclusion and Support

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In this episode of Keep Them Coming, host Kristen Thomas discusses the film Babygirl with The Pitch Magazine's Film Editor Abby Olcese.

*SPOILERS AHEAD!*

Kristen and Abby discussed the themes of sexuality, relationships, and the complexities of female desire, particularly in the context of a woman's awakening to her needs and wants. It explores the portrayal of dom-sub relationships and the generational differences in expectations and standards for men and women in power.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Keep Them Coming 01:22 Exploring the Film Babygirl 09:22 Character Dynamics and Themes 12:03 Sexual Awakening and Relationships 20:49 Generational Perspectives on Sexuality 27:22 Communication and Desire in Relationships 31:12 Cinematic Representation of Female Desire 35:42 Soft Launch of Relationships 36:30 Discretion and Awareness in Relationships 37:25 Portrayal of Dom-Sub Dynamics 38:52 Exploring Boundaries and Safety 39:50 Character Development and Submissive Energy 41:41 Wealth and Class Dynamics 44:32 Chemistry and Age Gap Dynamics 45:57 Power Dynamics 47:50 Agency and Sexual Compatibility 49:39 Communication in Relationships 52:46 Changing Desires and Growth 55:02 Standards for Women vs. Men 56:59 Generational Differences in Power Dynamics 01:00:18 Cultural Commentary on Sexuality 01:02:08 Final Reflections on Relationships 01:04:21 Ask Coach Kristen Anything

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Summary

In this episode, Kristen Thomas explores the phenomenon of 'divorce season' in January, discussing the reasons behind the spike in divorce filings during this month. She delves into the emotional and societal factors contributing to this trend, including the impact of the political climate on relationships. Kristen also addresses common myths surrounding divorce, such as the misconception that it comes as a surprise to those involved. Finally, she offers practical advice for those considering divorce, emphasizing the importance of emotional support and legal guidance.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Keep Them Coming 01:22 Understanding Divorce Season 04:04 The Impact of Politics on Relationships 07:27 Debunking Myths About Divorce 10:10 Navigating the Divorce Process 13:29 Closing

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Would you believe that most people are not wearing the right bra for them? Coach Kristen interviews Emily Elizabeth, the owner of Circadian Intimates, a lingerie shop in KC. They discuss Emily's journey into the lingerie industry, the importance of proper bra fitting, and the impact of well-fitted lingerie on confidence. Emily shares insights on the evolving lingerie industry, including size and fit inclusivity, and offers practical shopping tips for partners.

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Topics include:

Emily’s Journey into the lingerie industry

The importance of proper bra fitting

Inclusivity in the industry

Exploring kinks and fetishes through lingerie

And advice for partners shopping for the holidays or special occasions

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to my guest, info on upcoming events 06:07 Emily's Journey into the Lingerie Industry 11:50 Proper Bra Fitting 18:30 Bra Donation Program 21:40 Evolving Lingerie Industry Size Inclusivity 26:29 Comfort in Lingerie Shopping 32:11 Holiday Lingerie Shopping 35:54 Exploring Confidence and Self-Expression 38:19 Approaching Strangers 49:54 Diverse Options for Every Budget and Style in Lingerie

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Do you wish you had more confidence when it comes to role play? Worry that you’re not creative enough to have an exciting and easy experience? Coaches Julia and Kristen are going to set your mind at ease.

Topics include:

Role play preparedness

Key elements of negotiation

Use media or tools like Faithful Fling to help you

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Julia Satterlee is a Clinical Sexologist dedicated to kicking shame out of the bedroom and sparking joyful intimacy. Since 2019, she has been coaching couples, men, and women, championing pleasure and connection as essential, not optional. Julia’s work revolves around exploring and expressing needs, desires, and boundaries in a judgment-free environment. Her approach combines self-love strategies, effective communication techniques, and myth-busting insights into sex and intimacy—all with a dose of fun.

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Email me at kristen@openthedoorscoaching.com for questions, topic suggestions for future episodes, or to book your first session.