• 225. Is Divorce a Sin? God’s Law, Agency, and Choosing Truth Without Fear
    May 18 2026
    Is divorce a sin? What does God really think about divorce, agency, and staying in difficult marriages? In this deeply honest episode, I’m talking about one of the biggest fears many Christians and Latter day Saints wrestle with during divorce: “Am I disappointing God if I leave my marriage?” For years, many of us were taught that divorce should never be an option. But what happens when staying in a marriage begins destroying your emotional, spiritual, or mental wellbeing? What happens when fear, betrayal, disconnection, or dysfunction become the emotional climate of your home? In this episode, we explore: • What the phrase “God hates divorce” really means • The difference between sacrifice and self abandonment • Why agency matters in marriage • How fear and religious shame keep people stuck • Emotional adulthood vs emotional childhood • Patterns of betrayal, honesty, and accountability • How to approach divorce decisions with God instead of panic • Why divorce is painful, but not proof of spiritual failure • How to seek peace, truth, and discernment in difficult relationships This episode is not about encouraging divorce, and it’s not about condemning marriage. It’s about learning how to make honest, prayerful decisions with God while honoring truth, agency, and emotional health. If you’re navigating divorce, questioning your marriage, or trying to rebuild your faith after heartbreak, you are not alone. You can schedule a Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session You can also access the new Find the Joy App through Find the Joy with Jenn where you’ll find exclusive content, encouragement, discounts on courses and programs, and the opportunity to submit personal questions about your divorce situation for guidance and support. If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need this conversation today. There is still joy ahead for you, my friend. 👉 Ready for deeper support? Join my Faith Filled Divorce coaching program where we work through things like this together in a safe, faith-centered space. 👉 Learn more and take the next step here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session 💛 Ready for support? If you want help applying this to your situation, I’ve created a space just for you. 👉 Download the Find the Joy App: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Inside, you’ll find: Tools to help you move forward Exclusive content And a place to ask me your questions directly • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    21 min
  • 224. How to Talk About Pornography in Dating Without Ruining the Relationship
    May 11 2026
    If you’ve been through divorce, the topic of pornography in dating can feel complicated, uncomfortable, and even a little scary. When do you bring it up? How do you ask without pushing someone away? And what do you do if it becomes part of your relationship again? In this episode, I’m walking you through how to have this conversation in a way that actually builds trust instead of creating fear, pressure, or disconnection. We’re going deeper than just talking about pornography. We’re looking at what it really represents in a relationship, how to approach it with honesty and emotional maturity, and how to navigate it in a healthy way if it shows up again after divorce. You’ll learn: • When to bring up the conversation in dating • What to say instead of asking “Do you watch porn?” • The difference between red flags and green flags • How to protect yourself without becoming guarded • What healthy boundaries actually look like • How to rebuild trust if this has been part of your past If this has impacted your marriage, your confidence, or your ability to trust again, this episode will give you clarity and a healthier way forward. 👉 FREE WORKSHOP: How to Find Peace in Divorce Without Losing Your Faith May 13 at 12pm MDT / 2pm EDT [Insert your registration link] 👉 Ready for deeper support? Join my Faith Filled Divorce coaching program where we work through things like this together in a safe, faith-centered space. 👉 Learn more and take the next step here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session 👉 Download the Find the Joy App: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Inside, you’ll find: Tools to help you move forward Exclusive content And a place to ask me your questions directly • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    18 min
  • 223. Why Porn Isn’t the Real Problem in Your Marriage
    May 4 2026
    Pornography is one of the most painful and misunderstood issues affecting marriages today. But what if we’ve been approaching it the wrong way? In this episode, we’re having a different conversation. Not one that minimizes the impact of pornography, but one that goes deeper into what’s actually driving it… and why shame may be the very thing keeping people stuck. We’ll talk about how pornography can lead to broken trust, secrecy, and even betrayal in a relationship, and why those things matter deeply in a covenant marriage. But we’ll also explore how real healing becomes possible when we stop focusing only on behavior and start addressing what’s underneath. If you’ve ever felt hurt, confused, or not enough because of this issue… or if you’ve struggled with it yourself and felt trapped in a cycle you can’t seem to break… this episode will give you a new way to understand it. We also talk about how to begin healing, both individually and as a couple, and what it looks like to move forward in a healthy way, whether you’re married, single, or dating after divorce. There is a path forward. And it doesn’t start with shame. It starts with truth, accountability, and healing. 🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward a different kind of freedom. 💛 Ready for support? If you want help applying this to your situation, I’ve created a space just for you. 👉 Download the Find the Joy App: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Inside, you’ll find: Tools to help you move forward Exclusive content And a place to ask me your questions directly 🎯 Want deeper support? If you’re ready to take real steps forward, schedule a free session with me: 👉 Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    16 min
  • 222. Dating After Divorce as a Christian… When Is It Right?
    Apr 27 2026
    How do you really know if you’re ready to date again after divorce… or if you’re just tired of being alone? This is one of the most common questions I get—and the truth is, most people get it wrong. Not because they don’t want a healthy relationship… but because they haven’t done the work that actually prepares them for one. In this episode, I’m walking you through what it truly looks like to be ready for another relationship after divorce—and why rushing this process often leads to repeating the same patterns with a different person. We’re talking about real healing. Not distractions. Not “I’m fine.” But the kind of healing that allows you to move forward without carrying the weight of your past into something new. I’ll also walk you through how to get spiritually grounded again, especially if your faith feels shaken after divorce, and why that foundation matters more than anything when it comes to future relationships. Then we’ll go deeper into what I call doing an “autopsy” on your marriage—learning from what worked, what didn’t, and taking ownership of your part so you don’t repeat the same mistakes. And finally, we’ll talk about creating a clear vision for your future—so you’re not looking for someone to complete your life, but someone who aligns with the life you’ve already built. This is how you stop settling. This is how you stop repeating patterns. This is how you prepare for something better… not just different. If you’re wondering whether you’re ready—or you want to be—this episode will give you clarity on exactly where you are and what to do next. And if you want help walking through this process, this is exactly what we do inside Faith Filled Divorce. You don’t have to figure it out alone. 👉 Learn more and take the next step here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session 💛 Ready for support? If you want help applying this to your situation, I’ve created a space just for you. 👉 Download the Find the Joy App: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Inside, you’ll find: Tools to help you move forward Exclusive content And a place to ask me your questions directly 🎯 Want deeper support? If you’re ready to take real steps forward, schedule a free session with me: 👉 Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session And if you’re looking for faith-centered support through divorce, you can learn more about my Faith Filled Divorce program here: 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    17 min
  • 221. The Hidden Reason You Can’t Move Forward After Divorce
    Apr 20 2026
    Why do you feel so stuck after divorce… even when you want to move forward? In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful insight inspired by neurosurgeon Lee Warren that explains what’s actually happening in your brain after you’ve gone through something hard. If you’ve ever felt like: You should be moving forward, but you just can’t Simple things feel overwhelming You’re afraid to try again because you don’t want to get hurt You’re not broken. You may just be stuck in “neutral.” And in this episode, I’ll show you: Why your brain resists moving forward after divorce How fear of more pain keeps you stuck What actually helps you start moving again (even when you don’t feel ready) How small steps can rebuild your confidence, your faith, and your life This isn’t about forcing yourself to “get over it.” It’s about learning how to take your next step—with God’s help—and trusting that you are more capable than you feel right now. Because you don’t have to stay stuck. 💛 Ready for support? If you want help applying this to your situation, I’ve created a space just for you. 👉 Download the Find the Joy App: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Inside, you’ll find: Tools to help you move forward Exclusive content And a place to ask me your questions directly 🎯 Want deeper support? If you’re ready to take real steps forward, schedule a free session with me: 👉 Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session 📌 Credit Concept inspired by neurosurgeon Dr. Lee Warren And if you’re looking for faith-centered support through divorce, you can learn more about my Faith Filled Divorce program here: 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    17 min
  • 220. Who Gets the House in Divorce? ( And What Actually Matters Most)
    Apr 13 2026
    Divorce brings some of the hardest decisions you’ll ever face… Who stays in the house? Who gets the dog? Who takes what? These decisions can feel overwhelming, emotional, and even all-consuming. But what if those aren’t actually the most important decisions you’ll make? In this episode, I break down how to navigate the biggest logistical challenges in divorce with clarity and intention… while keeping your focus on what truly matters most. We’ll talk about: • How to approach decisions about the house, pets, and shared assets • Practical ways to reach agreements without escalating conflict • Why these “big” decisions often aren’t the ones that define your future • The three most important choices you will make during divorce • How to stay grounded in faith, show up for your kids, and grow through this process If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what to do next, this episode will help you take a step back, refocus, and move forward with greater peace and purpose. Because divorce isn’t just something you go through… It’s something that can shape who you become. 🤝 Ready for support? If you’re navigating divorce and want clarity, direction, and faith-centered support, I invite you to book a free strategy session with me. 👉 Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session 📱 Want more support? Download the Find the Joy App for free resources, tools, and support: 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    15 min
  • 219. Reclaiming Your Worth After Divorce with Anjilee Ferguson
    Apr 6 2026
    What does it really look like to start over after divorce… especially when it comes to dating? In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, I sit down with author and entrepreneur Anjilee Ferguson to have an honest, refreshing conversation about dating, divorce, and reclaiming your worth. Anjilee shares her personal journey behind her book Yes, No, Maybe So and opens up about the emotional challenges so many people face when re-entering the dating world—especially in faith-centered communities where expectations around marriage can feel heavy. We talk about the fears that show up after divorce, why dating can feel so confusing, and how to begin rebuilding confidence without tying your worth to relationship status. If you’ve ever felt behind… unsure… or hesitant to try again—this conversation will remind you that you’re not broken, and you’re not alone. This episode is for anyone navigating: Dating after divorce Fear of starting over Rebuilding confidence and identity Trusting God’s timing in uncertain seasons Letting go of comparison and pressure Anjilee brings both honesty and hope to this conversation—and I know it will meet you right where you are. 💛 In This Episode, We Talk About: Why dating after divorce feels so hard The unique challenges of dating in the LDS/Christian world How to reclaim your worth after heartbreak Letting go of timelines and expectations Practical advice for dating again with confidence 📘 Connect with Anjilee Ferguson You can find her book Yes, No, Maybe So and learn more about her work through the links in the show notes. ✨ Ready for More Support? If you’re navigating divorce and want guidance, clarity, and support in your next steps, I invite you to schedule a Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session: 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session 💬 Let’s Stay Connected If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs it—and let me know your biggest takeaway. And if you haven’t already, be sure to follow the podcast so you don’t miss future episodes designed to help you create a life full of hope, fulfillment, and joy. •Learn more from this week’s guest, Anjilee Ferguson, HERE: @anjilee.ferguson on Instagram. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    41 min
  • 218. Why Christian Dating After Divorce Feels So Hard
    Mar 30 2026
    Dating, intimacy, and relationships after divorce can feel complicated—especially in the LDS and Christian community. Many divorced men and women want companionship again, but they also feel fear, uncertainty, and sometimes even shame around dating after a marriage ends. You might wonder: Is it okay for me to date again? What will people at church think? What if I make the wrong choice again? Why does nobody ask anyone out anymore? In this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about dating after divorce in the LDS and Christian community—including the struggles, the fears, and the cultural dynamics that make it feel so difficult. I’m also sharing practical guidance and a faith-centered perspective to help you navigate: • Why LDS and Christian singles often hesitate to ask each other out • The fear of remarriage and repeating past mistakes • Loneliness after divorce and how to approach dating in a healthy way • Emotional and physical intimacy after divorce • How to build trust again without rushing into the wrong relationship • Practical best practices for dating again with confidence and clarity Divorce can shake your identity, your faith, and your confidence in relationships. But your story is not over. Whether you hope to remarry someday or simply want to build healthy connections again, there is a path forward filled with healing, growth, and hope. If you’re navigating LDS divorce, Christian divorce, or dating after divorce, this episode will help you move forward with wisdom and faith. If you’d like more personalized support, you can schedule a Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session here: 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session You can also download my Find the Joy App at: 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Inside the app you’ll find: • Exclusive content • Daily inspiration • Discounts on programs • The ability to submit questions about your divorce situation and receive guidance If this episode helped you, please: ⭐Follow the podcast ⭐Leave a review ⭐Share this episode with someone who needs encouragement And remember… Joy is possible—even after divorce. And if you’re looking for faith-centered support through divorce, you can learn more about my Faith Filled Divorce program here: 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    16 min